I can't stop thinking about this guy in my first period PE class. I never talk to him even tho we have a small class. He's a senior and I'm a sophomore which is a problem. I can't help but see if he's looking at me. I dont know why. But the crazy thing is that I wanna refuse to like anyone, like having a crush because I love someone else living far away and I am deeply committed to my mom's best friend's son. Plus, I kno that it wouldnt work out with me and the senior. I have seen his myspace and it had perverted pics. But still, I cant shake him out of my head. I think he's starting to notice because I always have the urge to look at him. He's like one inch taller than me. I have seen him last year and rarely. Well anyways, please help me. I dont want him to treat me like I'm a puppy dog-either mean or 'aw thats so cute but no'
2007-01-25 11:44:22 · 13 answers · asked by mel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont let him see ur that crazy bout him, he might take advantage of ur feelins. hes probly a playa. if u really want, get 2 know him first. dont give in 2 him easily, see through his talk, if he wanted, he would say anythin 2 get in ur pants. hope this helped.
2007-01-25 11:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by herimos 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no guy better than the one who wants to be with
you.
You said you were deeply committed to the boy you love
living far away. If you love him, you're being far away
is not good at all. Reduce the distance, and see him
regular. Being away from that boy you say you love
can't be doing any thing good for him either. If your
commitment to him is deep, your desire to be with him
can't be wishy-washy. You've got to shorten the "long
distance." Somehow, some way.
You'll have the urge to look. Looking is not loving, though.
Being away from the guy who does want you is messing
with you badly.
You don't want a man that would treat you like a puppy.
You're a lady, and deserve a man that will treat you
like one.
2007-01-25 19:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by Bubba 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you, Jo I, you probably won't find anything that will completely distract you from your feelings for this Senior guy. No matter what the activity, you'll find yourself bringing up his name a million times a day or finding any excuse to cross paths with him on your way to class.
The only advice I can give you would be to talk to him. The thought of that probably makes you nervous and gets your heartbeat racing, but really, the only way to truly get over this guy is for you to realize that he's wrong for you. It sounds like a part of you already knows that he's going to end up being a pervert or a jerk, and it isn't like you have to blurt out that you've been crushing on him for awhile. Try to have a casual conversation with him. Talking to another guy doesn't qualify as cheating even if you like the guy. Who knows, maybe this guy could be perfect for you, maybe this could further solidify your committment to your current boyfriend.
One thing is certain, not knowing will drive you crazy. Being afraid to take risks will only leave you with regrets. Talk to him, call your boyfriend and then watch the Superbowl. Go Colts! Seriously though, good luck.
2007-01-25 20:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by Quinsi 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG. I had the same problem about two weeks ago, and I know it is so Annoying! isn't it? Just random thoughts come into your head, don't they? What helped me, was everytime I thought of him, I would think, "Okay, I barely know this guy, but I like him! The reason I like him is that, in my mind, I am picturing the perfect guy. Since I don't know him, I don't know any of his faults, so I only imagine good things about him." Anyway, that's what someone told me, was that I was imagining the perfect guy, and that is just not possible to have a perfect guy! It takes a little time, but after I kept reminding myself that, it helped a lot. I hope this helps you. Good luck with that super annoying problem. : )
2007-01-25 19:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by Chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl simple keep yourself very busy by doing things that you love to do.I use to be the same way,and the only way I was able to do it was pray to God with an open heart ready to listen to his answer and stay shopping.Gurl stay committed to your man and do not get mixed up with that perverted senior.
2007-01-25 19:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by Bird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it appears you are maybe going steady with the other one? if not well get to know the other guy and see what is up you are wondering and if you dont' find out now you'll never know and wonder the rest of your life. he maybe not the person you know or like or he could be the best one.
2007-01-31 22:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try and distract yourself with other things and then you will find something else to focus on. He is just a guy, nothing you should worry about, especially someone like that.
2007-01-25 19:52:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Dear, you are not going insane-you are dwelling on physical attraction and it sounds
like you have enough to occupy your time.
Find something negative about the snr. and
keep thinking about that. Maybe that will keep
your desire in tow.
Good Luck!
2007-01-25 19:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by CANDY L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want him because you know he's bad for you. either make the choice to do it and get it out of your system, or just avoid it all together. it's not that hard. sounds like you're losing interest in the long term guy anyway.
2007-01-25 19:52:43 · answer #9 · answered by starnami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problen I went out with alot of people and then sooner or later he didnt matter
2007-01-25 19:50:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋