Family & Relationships - 24 January 2007

I had a gf for like 2 months and she had "changed feelings". I later found out that she is kinda a guy hopper. is this common and should i be ashamed that i let this happen.

2007-01-24 15:52:33 · 3 answers · asked by gopackgo51 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this man and we have tryed to brake it off but we cant we still email ,talk ,and some times see eachother !
I have told him i love him and he knows i care alot about him.
I have never lelt like this befor ! We have been up and down noe for 2 months now and i have Never felt so much pain and love for some one befor .My emotions are mixed up because he broke if off and we keep seeing each other and then we told me he really missed me alot ! I told him i dont know why love is so hard!
I have been married befor and i know i never loved like this befor !
I love him for him ! I dont want to chang him at all ! I cant stop thinking about him ! He has a busy life with the army and his child and i hate when one day things are good with us ! then the next not so good! I know this is going to take alot of work but i want to if a man gets close why dose he pull away ! That makes me want him more! Well am i crazy?

2007-01-24 15:51:59 · 7 answers · asked by Hart 1 in Singles & Dating

Apparently the virus has been floating around in my body since I was 16 years old. I never knew until today. Me and my boyfriend don't use condoms all the time and I told him about the virus. He said it's okay because I didn't know. But he's not really talking to me anymore. Is this the end for us? What should I do?

2007-01-24 15:51:59 · 13 answers · asked by vixendreamz4u 2 in Singles & Dating

i always feel it's best to be friends with a guy before you go out with him. however, lately i end up liking the guy yet he only sees me as a really good friend. What's wrong with me? why don't they like me and how can i get them to like me?

2007-01-24 15:51:30 · 3 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

my daughter who is 21, with a good job was seriously involved with a 26 year man that struggled finding a job he could keep...she helped him find a decent job and they rented an apartment together. I found out that the apartment was in her name and started asking questions....she told me that he had a large credit card debt ( over $8.000) from a few years ago and an ex girlfriend that he has not made any payments on for over 2 years. He didn't think it would be a good idea for his credit report to be ran by the landlord. This really bothered me, and I guess I turned into the meddeling mother and told my daughter that she should think real hard before making a long term commitment, as I felt she would never have a secure future with him. She ended up leaving him, stating his ego was his lover....but was I wrong to interfear?

2007-01-24 15:50:58 · 18 answers · asked by catywhumpass 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been with this guy for over 15 months and he still hasn't said he loves me. i guess i'm old fashioned but i don't want to be the one who says it. everything is pretty great otherwise but i just feel like it should've been said by now. i don't really queston that he does. i just want to hear it form him. are we both too scared? are we both feeling the same about who says it? i know this question issubjective but it really is time. what are your opinions?

2007-01-24 15:50:47 · 9 answers · asked by suzy lee 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister-in-law got married the same day I did, About a year into the relationship her husband decided to leave the relationship. She has since heard that he has moved to another state and remarried. How does she find out if he divorced her? She doesn't want him back or anything she just wants to know if she is still married or not. His family are the ones who said that he remarried.

2007-01-24 15:50:38 · 11 answers · asked by AMC615 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A very close family member to me is in a lockdown/detox center to detox from several years of opiate/heroin abuse. It was Monday morning when this person went in. After that, their probabtion officer said they must do at least 28 days now, but probably 60 days. This person really wants to stop - but I have never seen something so horrible. It's as though this drug stole this person's soul. Any suggestions or helpful information is very much appreciated. I am tearing up thinking about what has happened to this person I love so dearly. I cannot cast this person out of my life as other's have. The judge told this person that those who do not die from heroin OD usually are the one's in prison. (terrible thing to say). There has to be many successful recovery stories out here. Thanks.

2007-01-24 15:50:26 · 3 answers · asked by soozemusic 6 in Family

i'm 42 years old. My husband handles all the money. He gives me $100.00 to $160.00 a week to buy groceries and anything else I need. I've been a stay at home mom for 22 Years. My husband tells me I don't need a lawyer. He said he would treat me fairly. I don't believe him because he cheated on me. Someone please help!

2007-01-24 15:50:25 · 16 answers · asked by dvanert38 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I do it myself and hear it from other people. I like to be bitten by girls, I don't really like pain but I get excited about being bitten. I don't know why though. But how did this sort of thing develop?

2007-01-24 15:49:55 · 3 answers · asked by rezruf 3 in Singles & Dating

My soon to be ex asked to call it quits a month ago,he moved out and said that he no longer had feelings for me for about the last 9 months. Well this past Sunday he tells me he decided to start dating again and went out on his first date on Saturday. How can he just move on so fast like everything we had was nothing? Like we never existed?

2007-01-24 15:49:54 · 14 answers · asked by giofab1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-24 15:48:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm the oldest of a bunch of kids so I kind of feel like i'm in charge. My dad has been verbally and physically abusive for as long as a remember, but always with an apology and a gift afterwards and he never left any marks for others to see. He molested my brother and my mom finally left him. Now he's fighting for custody of the kids that he never wanted. I don't know what to do. I feel helpless. Any advice or just plain comfort would be appreciated. We've taken all the legal measures. I'm talking personally.

2007-01-24 15:48:28 · 52 answers · asked by flutterby 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-24 15:47:48 · 6 answers · asked by billu_bhai 3 in Friends

see i am in love with a girl since 1 year . she has already rejected me twice because he has a bf. now i think that she has started to love me . is there any way of finding out if she likes or loves me ?? i can not ask her out again because shes in 10th n i think that she is really concerned about her studies. so can u tell me any way of finding out if she really loves me or not??????

2007-01-24 15:47:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 15:46:37 · 22 answers · asked by raj j 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal to have doubts in yourself??

2007-01-24 15:45:12 · 11 answers · asked by K2ThaL 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Love and life.Do you have dreams.What are they.can they be accomplished.My greatest dream my angel she is moving and she doesn't realize yet that shes the one.she feels it but does not totally realize that she is my angel.What are your dreams.

2007-01-24 15:44:42 · 4 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex went to a friends house an i went to vt with his brother to change his tires on his car an the only reason i was goin was coz my man was goin too but he went to a friends insted so i went anyways so he didnt have to go alone an we wer suppose to meet back up at 7:30 an he never showed we stayed in town till 11:30 that night an my man went to vt an ended up seein his ex that was his first love i guess an she asked him to go to her house after work an he said he couldnt but he was tellin my friend that he donst know what to do if he wants to get back with her or stay with me an i guess hes talkin to his mom about it , we have only been together for a month an half an i ended up fallin for him to fast an now i found this out i realized i love him what should i do ?:(

2007-01-24 15:44:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he was a complete stranger, but i really got attracted to his face, style and charm, i did not even want any boyfriend, and i am admittedly a man hater, but he made me think twice, the impossible has been done, just because he looks like that i seriously considered having a boyfriend which is not even my way of thinking, i am a lover of books and i am too preoccupied with other things to be attracted to a stranger
i just learned someone could really make you change your mind, too bad, i am feeling the opposite again
its just showed that i really have to be careful with what i feel, im glad i did not do anything drastic
any thoughts, experience like this

2007-01-24 15:43:38 · 1 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

so one of my best guy friends (i believe) has a thing for me - all signs point to 90% chance true - for example, he'll look at me (when he thinks i'm not looking back) with that "look" on his face - not like "happy happy smile" but kind of a smirk and look a way when i'll look at him and also he'll say certain things to make me "jealous" and get my reaction - he's a shy guy so he doesn't make the "first move" necessarily. We used to talk all the time - everytime we talk it would happen at night but NOW, he just doesn't call me a night anymore - just in the morning and asks "where i am". I jokingly called him out on it saying, "dude just call me later on tonight - i called you last night and you didn't pick up dork..." he just said, "yeaaah yeaah..." well i do call him - he'll call me during the day and i'm busy so i tell him that i'd call him later that night and when i do, he doesn't pick up - we don't talk at night anymore - what's the deal?

2007-01-24 15:43:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friends boyfriend proposed to her but she thinks that he is still ,married to his ex how would she find out if they are still married and she cant get in tiouch with the ex.

2007-01-24 15:42:04 · 9 answers · asked by will_a_man_rob_god 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If your husband or boyfriend decided at about the age of 30 that he wanted to become a commercial pilot, would you support his decision knowing that he'd be away a lot and most likely would affect your marriage and family. Also, if he wanted to postpone having children until he was done training to be a pilot how would you feel - you would be in your late 30's before he'd want to start a family.

2007-01-24 15:41:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please don't tell me I am wrecking a home and to find a single guy. I am almost 50 and have met TONS of men I didn't click with until I met the right guy - He just happened to be married. I have to admit that when I met him I hesitated to get involved until eventually both of us fell in love and realized we were soul mates. He has been unhappily married for a long time. He even tried to leave once several years before I met him. He went back because the kids were very young and it tore him apart to see them upset. He has good values despite the dishonesty of the affair. Despite counseling and a lot of effort on his part, his marriage is not working. He has made a conscious, deliberate decision to stay for the kids' sake (he has 3 between 12 and 15). At first he told me he didn't want to leave for at least 6 years. Then it went down to 4. Now it's down to 2 and a half years. He wants to live an honest life with me but I have to wait. My question is should I wait for him?

2007-01-24 15:41:39 · 16 answers · asked by ohsnapme2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 20 years old and ive been gay for 9 years its like i knew i was gay from day one. But i hid the real me for a long time and when my step parents found out i got thrown out of the house i was 16 then and i hid it even more from my friends cause i was scared id lose them to. but about 3 years ago i decided not to be afraid to show who i really am and when my high school found out people hated me.my friends i knew my whole life started hating me but yet i still didnt hide it any more i moved from crystal spings mississippi to richmond va and i have to say there are alot of gay people here but there are still closed minded people out there. HOW CAN I GET USE TO THIS?

2007-01-24 15:41:25 · 21 answers · asked by kat velez 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My daughter is almost 4. Her father wasn't in her life for the first year. I was living with my mom and grandma for about a year total. My daughter had been living there since birth. He is going to try to get custody because she wasn't living with me. Do you think he will get custody?

2007-01-24 15:40:48 · 6 answers · asked by shorty832004 1 in Family

I have nicknames for all my friends (Pocco, Dusk Pelt, Twilight Sky, Ulysses, Tracy, Potato, Roach, and my own nickname is Mya), but I really can't come up with anything for my friend Kayla. I used to call her Murderer, but that's awkward and too long. I want to call her something relating to her wearing bunny furs...and please, no discussion on the morality of wearing furs.

2007-01-24 15:39:33 · 7 answers · asked by Mya 2 in Friends

Aight on monday my gf seemed very depressed (so depressing it made me depressed she said, why wont the world just stop?)
She went to her house to put on some other jacket , then she was normal. Soo... giv me some answers

2007-01-24 15:38:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this guy on New Years Eve 2006 and we've been dating since, but I don't feel chemistry between us. I'm happy seeing him a couple of times a week, (as we just met each other) but he always wants to meet and he said he was in love with me. I felt guilty because I don't feel the same way about him. He asked me if I wanted to go out during the day tomorrow but I had already made plans so I had to decline. He looked a bit angry and immediately called his boss saying he was coming to work. I felt pressured and told him I was sorry but I didn't feel a connection between us and just wanted to be friends. I need advice, was I too hasty in this case? He asked me how I could know a relationship isn't going to work and the truth is I don't know 100 percent, but my gut tells me that we're not a match.

2007-01-24 15:36:05 · 12 answers · asked by M N 5 in Singles & Dating

I want to ask a girl out but im not sure how I should do it, keep in mind this is high school, what is the best way I should do it and where should I go?

2007-01-24 15:35:41 · 14 answers · asked by trey 1 in Singles & Dating