What is the best way to ask a girl out for the first time?

Question

I want to ask a girl out but im not sure how I should do it, keep in mind this is high school, what is the best way I should do it and where should I go?

Answer 1

No games. Start a conversation with her. See how she reacts to you. If your getting positive results from your conversation, then just ask her if she has any plans during the weekend.. Go for it.

Answer 2

Start talking about new movies that have come out, pay attention to which one she likes and would like to see. Then in that conversation when she says I like this movie etc. you ask would you like to go and see it with me. If she says yes, try to take her out to eat, that way ya could have some type of conversation before ya go to the movies where is all quiet and dark.

Good Luck

Answer 3

NOT dinner and a movie! Start a conversation ask what she's doing said night and if she wants to do something with you. On first dates I always liked to double, maybe one of your friends with one of hers, and go someplace fun and loud where you and talk and get to know each other without the pressure. Dark movie theaters on a first date suck.

Answer 4

Be honest and just ask her out. Try somewhere like the movies or to dinner at a local restaurant

Answer 5

Ask her to a school dance, and yes you have to dance with her. See how that goes then move to the next step like a movie and don't be grabbing at her and trying to kiss her . Be a gentleman>

Answer 6

Girls like it when you just be yourself, give yourself some time to get to know her on a basic friend level. Like just ask her simple questions like: So, How are you doing today? Or What do you think about this test today? Keep it simple, you need to develop the basics. Then as you get to know her you can ask her more things that are more personal, Remember you start the communication, Girls like to talk about everything and anything! When you listen to her, look right in her eyes and always give her your complete attention! You will lead into the more personal questions like you say: "Hey, What did you think about that book we read: I like it because..." What do you think? If you ever see her looking sad or stress out, Ask her what is wrong and give her words of encouragement! Girls love it when they know you value them! From there you should have enough confidence to ask her out because by this time you should know her pretty well. Just remember it takes time and great commutation. If you ever get to go out:Try following my 5 biblical principles for finding your soul mate: Ask yourself:
1. Does she love you for who you are (inside first than out)? The Bible says: *“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-6
2. Does she honor you? Will she do things just to make you happy? Will she try some of the things you are interested in or maybe shares some of the same interests and hobbies? The Bible says:
* “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.” Romans 12:10
3. Cherishes your body, mind and soul? Doesn't go to far on these things until your ready? The Bible says: * “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet Spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” 1 Peter 3:3-4
4. You trust her to the fullest? She is your best friend and you are hers? The Bible Says: * “ Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13:7
5. You communicate well? She understands you like he could be your twin? The Bible says: * “ Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful, that it may benefit those who listen.” Ephesians 4:29

To Sum it up: Stick to 1. Love 2. Honor 3. Cherish 4. Trust 5. Communication and I promise if your relationship is based on these things you will know what its like to find true love! And Yes! I have used my principles myself and I am convinced I have found my soul mate! But to find her I also used these same principles to weed out my soul mate from the relationships that just didn't work. In addition, letting God and Jesus Christ lead your heart, mind, body and soul also aid in the weeding process. God Bless!

Answer 7

Try hanging around her and see how she reacts to your presence. If she acts comfortable around you, ask her out. Girls are far more likely to say “yes” to a guy whom they’re already familiar with. Just asking out of the blue actually creeps a lot of girls out.

Answer 8

Find out if she likes movies, if there is a movie you both might be interested in seeing, that would be a good place to start, then maybe a bite to eat afterwards.

Answer 9

If you aren't a shy person, then flirt with her first (check reaction) then just ask. If you are then just start a bunch of rumors and gossip and eventually something will happen. Seen it happen both ways.

Answer 10

Walk up to her and ask to talk to her alone, (like FAR AWAY for her friends), and just tell her you would like to get to kno her, dont just walk up and ask her out.......especially if u dont kno her personally. females dont like it when a guy is interested in them but is afraid to ask....so make sure you approach her with confidence. and DONT have one of ur buddies to ask for you......that just shows ur a pansy.....so all i can say is just follow my instructions and go for it...i wish you the best, and hope u get the girl