so one of my best guy friends (i believe) has a thing for me - all signs point to 90% chance true - for example, he'll look at me (when he thinks i'm not looking back) with that "look" on his face - not like "happy happy smile" but kind of a smirk and look a way when i'll look at him and also he'll say certain things to make me "jealous" and get my reaction - he's a shy guy so he doesn't make the "first move" necessarily. We used to talk all the time - everytime we talk it would happen at night but NOW, he just doesn't call me a night anymore - just in the morning and asks "where i am". I jokingly called him out on it saying, "dude just call me later on tonight - i called you last night and you didn't pick up dork..." he just said, "yeaaah yeaah..." well i do call him - he'll call me during the day and i'm busy so i tell him that i'd call him later that night and when i do, he doesn't pick up - we don't talk at night anymore - what's the deal?
2007-01-24 15:43:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he doesn't have a girlfriend - although there is this girl he said he's not "interested" in that really likes him
2007-01-24 15:52:17 · update #1
He might be burning the midnight oil with a joy toy for now. But he still wants to keep you on the back burner in case something intensifies between you two
2007-01-24 15:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by STK FLKR 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is, but then again it isn't. I had an issue with my current bf about a year ago not calling me anymore at night, but texting me through out the day and not wanting me to come over anymore. I found out he was talking to girls that went to our church on Myspace and have deep intimate conversations with them. We broke up a few times over it, but got it sorted out. Sometimes they do it so that it can be easier to break up with you. I know I have done that, just pushed them away from me. But guys also like to think that since you txt they shouldn't have to call. SOLUTION: Ask him about, don't be pushy and just ask if there is something wrong. Listen to the way he acts, or better yet do this in person. Watch his reaction. I would think since you live six hours away he would want to talk to you every night. Hope this helps.
2016-03-29 01:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is busy at night. Maybe its inconvenient for him at night when it suits you. If you have fobbed him off a few times when he has called he probably could not be bothered anymore.
I USED to have a firend that would call at like 1am, if I called her during the day she would cut me short. She was pretty selfish, notice i am not her friend anymore.
2007-01-24 15:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by obenypopstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's his way of "controlling" the situation. Because you liking him is "out of his control". Just stick with him. If you like him tell him, if not just keep being a friend. Ask him why he doesn't pick up when you call him at night....ask him directly.
2007-01-24 15:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is seeing someone and hangs out with her in the evenings. Sometimes I don't answer my phone when a friend calls if my boyfriend is over.
This doesn't mean he doesn't like you. It just means he is trying to be respectful to his guest.
I hope you work it out! :)
2007-01-24 15:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by mistaken4sane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no deal sis. from ur msg, i know u r still ver young and this is wat we called puppy love. and if u r very lucky, puppy love will be successful. the luck u need is equal to the luck u need to win a lottery. my advice is just forget him. treat him as u fren, that's all. when i say fren means FREN! not some kind of guy who u can fall in love with
2007-01-24 15:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by ah_kin19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so glad your just a tease. rock on girlfriend. what is your myspace?
im a shy guy. i only make moves on chix that arent stupid. i can totally tell if a chick has had sex or not.
sounds like your guy is playing games. need i say more. d u like him or something. if you do, just say so.
2007-01-25 14:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by The Inquirer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is distracting him and keeping him from calling you in the evenings. Is it possible he has a girlfriend?
2007-01-24 15:51:43 · answer #8 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, let it be known. Flirt, call him, etc. Maybe he liked/s you but you didn't flirt back so he thinks you're not interested, thus doesn't call anymore.
2007-01-24 15:48:47 · answer #9 · answered by Marissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...honestly, I have no clue! Only he can tell you that! Have you straight forwardly asked him? I would, just out of curiosity. I would wonder if he is seeing someone.
2007-01-24 15:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋