Tonite my husband told me he just wasn't made to be the married type! We have been married almost 1 year, & he's always threatened me with divorce from day 1. He's never really treated this marriage the way I think it should be treated. It's like he doesn't take it seriously. We have a 4 yr old boy together and I thought being married could only make us stronger. But whenever something doesn't go the way he wants it, he starts threatening with divorce.
It's not right of him to do so, and it has really affected me both mentally and physically. I thought since we were married that would have created this unique bond to one-another and be able to conquer anything. But my husband is more of the type to just walk-away i guess. How could a 36 year old man whose only been married once before at the age of 18, not choose to take on the responsibility of his family? The one that he committed to, the day we said "until death do us part"?
I don't believe there is anybody else or anything of that sort, so that isn't the underlying issue here.
He says he just wasn't made to be married cuz he doesn't like all of the things that go along with marriage. Like coming home when you say you do, or coming home at a decent hour, or just the plain common-courtesy types of things like calling home to let your family know what's going on and not worry them, etc., etc..
How do I keep my husband from just walking away and letting (US) his family down?
2007-01-24
16:28:56
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hotrodhedda
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Marriage & Divorce