I'm 29, attractive, not fat but not model thin either...I'm smart and artuculate and fun to be around; but for some reason I meet guys and they ask for my number but they never call. Just now some guy I met at a club asked me to send him my picture...I guess he doesn't even remember me! Well I haven't heard from him since. This used to never bother me but for some reason I have become a big sissy over these things. What can I do to be more interesting or challening so that guys would want to go out with me?
2007-01-24 16:30:52 · 12 answers · asked by yayaquack 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, it just seems that no matter who I meet they all just want to have sex. Whether it be a club or not. I used to be that type that would go for it because there was a time where all I wanted to do was have sex but now I am ready for something serious. I also don't know how to date. How embarassing!
2007-01-24 17:02:29 · update #1
Stop worrying about proving yourself to men, we're pigs we ask for about 20 numbers a night and in the end most guys are too pussy to call any of them. So its nothing about you stop meeting guys in clubs for one, you dont need a guy who does the party scene because that means he gets around and probably always will. So try looking in places more confisticated and look beyond looks and cheezy pickup lines. Good luck and just be yourself.
2007-01-24 16:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are meeting guys at the bar. Not a good place to start a meaningful relationship. Guys there are looking for sex or to get drunk...thats about it. Get out and do other things and meet guys other places. If you are all that you say you are...you should have no problem with getting a date.
2007-01-24 16:36:40 · answer #2 · answered by behr28 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it number 1,Get involved in something like the y,stay in shape or just go swimming enjoy yourself be yourself.Stay away from bars and clubs they are just meat markets,people go to forget and do things they wish to forget after getting drunk.Enjoy life and what it has to offer love will find you.Volunteer at some hospital or something,you never know what your missing if you try to jet through life slow down and smell the roses.
2007-01-24 16:41:03 · answer #3 · answered by bjec22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I see it, is you should just be yourself. Maybe just change the way you present yourself, you can be giving off a bad vibe without even knowing...if a guy asks for the number it means he is interested but maybe he is the sissy and is afraid to call you...in fear of how beautiful you actually are.
2007-01-24 16:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by John S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry mary.
My number 9 1 9 8 4 3 1 1 3 3 6 7. we can chat.
we can like each other.
2007-01-24 16:40:50 · answer #5 · answered by Chennai BOY 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's hard to say with only these words that you have given.
Maybe you should try being outgoing and taking guys numbers. Try going someplace else to meet guys.
2007-01-24 16:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by heavy_cow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you girls are fine maybe its the kind of guys thats your around maybe they just want a fast lay,and you respect yourself and thats a good thing,maybe you should hang around a more nicer place and meet nice guys with respect for them selfs.
2007-01-24 16:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by nobodyspeical00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be more confident in yourself walk with more self esteem and men see this trust me they will notice how you carry your self and the right one will come when the time is right and only God knows when that is just be patient and your time will come
2007-01-24 16:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dumb yourself down? Maybe you come off as too intelligent and articulate and they fear you may be a handful or high maintenance.
2007-01-24 16:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I like you, but only as a friend.
2007-01-24 16:36:21 · answer #10 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋