Family & Relationships - 24 January 2007

I'm curious to know how many people would never even try or consider the possibility with someone they've met, whom they are very much interested in or attracted to, but seems just out of their league, too good for them, or just not likely that they've got a chance?

Where do you stand? and why?

2007-01-24 16:07:36 · 20 answers · asked by Saphire Aurora 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my bf has gotten into the habit of calling me Good Wine. What does that mean? He also told me he loved me for the first time two weeks ago and says it once in a while, but it's like he's testing. What's up with that? I never have to worry about gas becuase he fills my tank all the while knowing I have the money to do so, but he won't listen to me. He is a very considerate and generous lover and just the thought of what he does gets me going. Just the thought. He's also started becoming more open in the bedroom, most likely as the result of a challenge. Don't guys usually give their all the first year or so? When they decide to do more than usual, what's up? We were talking and he says to me "You'll see. Next weekend I'm going to wear you down." I told him he had said that before and was full of it. Long story short, he proved that he wasn't kidding within the next hour. So, why would a guy say and do these things if he's not serious? We are very casual, but still?

2007-01-24 16:07:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 16:07:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In everyday life it is natural to meet some very attractive people of the opposite sex & at times decide to have a fling or a long relationship with those attractive persons.

But suppose one day out of sheer luck you happen to meet a person who is sooo beautiful, so sweet-natured, so caring and so funny - this is the perfect person you have waited all your life for. And the best thing you could have imagined for, happens - you both agree to having a lifelong relationship with each other, wow! This special person is your soulmate (and trust me, there is only one, or if not extremely few, person(s) who would qualify for that status)

But my question for you is that when you have found your soulmate, then would you look back and think "Oh jeez, I should have waited this long instead of simply screwing other women just for fun at the time."?

And in the most unfortunate situation that you were to break up with your soulmate, would you think that your life is over?

2007-01-24 16:07:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 16:06:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the guy i like, told his friend to ask me after school if i wanted to be his girlfriend....he kinda shy..so am i.........well, i was asked today, and i dont know what to do/ act......hes my first one, and i dont know what i do tomorrow at skool.......he sits right behind me in 3 peiods........and across from me in 1.........well, im afraid of acting stupid and im dont know what to do......please give me some real advice.....thank you =)

2007-01-24 16:05:49 · 3 answers · asked by googoo 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, in my high school classes I'm really a quiet person because there's some "popular" people in my class.I really don't know why I'm so afraid of speaking aloud or just to them.And if I do talk to them,I speak in a sort of sarcastic way.I fear if I continue doing that I won't be able to gain any friends.I'm an average 16-year old girl that does not know how to go about my own goal.So, pls...... help me.

2007-01-24 16:05:39 · 15 answers · asked by islandgoddess_08 1 in Friends

2007-01-24 16:05:22 · 12 answers · asked by BRAINS! 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 16:05:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

before I got married I was dating a guy who was my first love. Until this day I think about him all the time. I now its bad for me to think about him but I cant help it. I love him so much. Me and my husband relationship are not so good at all. We are always arguing and at times its physicly. Iam just so cunfused I dont now what to do. What should I do.

2007-01-24 16:04:36 · 14 answers · asked by butterfly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...erections.

Could we PLEASE put to bed (so to speak) the question of "how long".

I think the enlightened ladies of this venue will agree with me when I say IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW LONG YOUR ERECTION LASTS guys. It's what you do the rest of the time that counts.

Only my opinion of course. I enjoy sex the most when it untimed, unmeasured and unjudged.

When an erection happens, use it. But the rest of the time, touch, kiss, fondle, caress, and for god's sake PLAY! Sex is a game to be enjoyed, to allow the experiencing of eachother in an atmosfere of safe caring and respect.

Good sex means anything goes. Don't you realize what that can mean? Erections are incidental and only important as part of what you experience. So much to do, so much to enjoy with one another.

So, please, take the worry out with the garbage. Use your mouth, your hands and your mind.

Sisters say YAY?!? Any men already play this way?!? Lemme hear it for grown up sex!!

2007-01-24 16:04:24 · 6 answers · asked by Ande 4 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been togeather for going on 6 months! He just recently asked me to marry him! I said yes! I truly love him but now i am having second thoughts! I am only 19 years old! My family loves him as does his family me! But i am just worried that i am not ready! Do you think this is just pre-wedding jitters? I dont know what to do! I am scared i am going to make the wrong decision! If i change my mind now i am afride that he will think i no longer love him! And i do not want to lose him! Help!!

2007-01-24 16:03:24 · 16 answers · asked by HaZeLeYeZ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When I was a kid I asked to my friends parents (who's were more than 25 yrs married) how did they stay toghether for so long (mine were divorced).
Some told me that comunication, other sex, other respect ...
Now I look back and I know we're going to get old, wrinkled with white hair sometime, but the thing that I most admire from my wife is that I havent caught ever a lie from her yet, wich sometimes scares me because what she promises she does, but it gives me a big piece of mind unlike my old gf's.
What do you like the most of yours?

2007-01-24 16:03:07 · 2 answers · asked by howlme 2 in Family

I host a student from another county, my old friend does also. I had to go to work i was gone almost 3 monts and paid her 200. a month for food. Ning started to think of that women like a mother. She asked if she could go spend the night with her. Debbie grandson was having a birthday he was 6 year old. Ning did not buy him a birthday present. Debbie called me to pick up ning she was upset. when I drove up ning was standing out side in the rain crying. Ning said she paid debbie 6 dollars for a ride to the store it was 1 mile ride. She bought a birthday card but not gift. When debbie saw that she made ning wash all her dishes, ning did. That wasn't enough she wanted her to mop and sweep her floor Ning refused. Debbie threw her cloths out in the rain. and called her names. She said her house was no hotel. When i got ning home she cried all day. I called the foundation but they did nothing other then tell ning they were sorry. I am worried that she might abuse the student she has .

2007-01-24 16:03:04 · 1 answers · asked by butterflyfrills 4 in Friends

2007-01-24 16:02:27 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

of double pierced ears on a girl?

2007-01-24 16:02:04 · 6 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband as me what I thought of a 3some. I thought he was finally getting around to my ways. Then he said "If you like the idea then you won't mind leaving while my 2 girlfriends come over."
OMG. I was really P*SSED. Then I calmed down and thought I would get him back. Do you think I should record it and send it to the girls as valentine presents? I don't think they now about me.

2007-01-24 16:01:12 · 15 answers · asked by sexyladyinak 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been seeing this girl for a month and i really like hanging out with her. She just came out of a relationship with a guy that didnt appreciate her. I told her that i like her and when she wants a relationship with me, ill be there for her. We recently had a date where it seemed that everthing was going well, i went home happy. But the next day and even weeks after the last date that i had with her she has totally changed the way she talks to me and interacts with me. She used to express enthusiasm with wanting to hang out with me, and see me, but now it seems like when i ask her to hang out she seems almost like she doesnt want to. Her enthusiasm is gone,and her sweet voice is gone too. Ive never said anyting disrepectfull to her. And i dont call her ten times a day either.Why is she acting so diffrently towards me now?

2007-01-24 16:01:04 · 6 answers · asked by SonicCube123 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is 10 years older than I and the father of my youngest-2 year old daughter,we have been married 3 years.My son is 8,his father died 6 years ago,drug od and things have always been rough. My present husband is a DAV(diasbled american veteran)He is BiPolar and very emotionally abusive.He goes up and down so much that he DOES sleep in the basement,we have seperate rooms.The only thing he offers us is financial security.One day he is on top of the world happy,then we dont see him for days because he is depressed,he is afraid of inhaling fumes from cars he dosent like my son because he isnt his......when I do leave my daughter with him, he sits in front of the tv and lets her wander around the house.....but,I have no college education no $ of my own.I know in his own way he loves us,he just wants to keep us here in his world.He twists the Bible for his own use saying I am to submit to him and obey him,he is above me and that house stuff is womens work.Its 2007!!!! Help!

2007-01-24 16:00:55 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He keeps paying attietion to my friend and not me.

2007-01-24 16:00:54 · 13 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Singles & Dating

They were just on TV talking about how happy they are!

2007-01-24 15:58:47 · 11 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-24 15:58:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm an old fashioned kind of guy, where I hold doors open for wemon and stand when they enter a room. With my friends i'm not what you would call the leader of the group but I am more of a supportive friend. With my girlfriend I feel comfortable and then become a leader. Anyway, do wemon like this kind of man? I mean, deep down would you really like a "bad boy"?

2007-01-24 15:57:57 · 25 answers · asked by Lee R 1 in Singles & Dating

Don't get me wrong, i love my mom. But when it comes to my senior year of highschool and my life that i have built here i do not want to move away from it. Assuming i could find a place to stay are there any options i could pursue to live on my own even if my mom forbids me to leave?

2007-01-24 15:57:31 · 15 answers · asked by mrwizard48044 1 in Family

my girlfriend wants a "break", but how do i get her to want me back?

2007-01-24 15:56:32 · 10 answers · asked by cubantiger23 1 in Singles & Dating

i know my boyfriend got me gifts for Valenitnes day and i cant wait, but i have no clue what i can get him. i dont want to get him something just to get it, i want it to be thoughtfull, and we wont have tons of time to spend together on that day, so what can i do?

2007-01-24 15:56:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I like to be frisky in the morning while my girlfriend is more prone to evening action. I just wanted to know how many people prefer evening romance or Morning romance

2007-01-24 15:56:10 · 5 answers · asked by maxexposure2003 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend is convinced that he does. I'm a freshman in high school and he's a senior, we're in a class together. I don't talk much during that class, and near the beginning of the year started talking to me a bit, little stuff, and sometimes choosing to sit near me. Now, he says hi to me when we pass in the halls, and when he came by to say hi to me at the dance, my friend caims, "didn't you see that look? he so likes you!!!" he's nice to me, and is one of the only people in class who i have talked to, or who have talked to me. he also asked me to add his band to my myspace, asked me what i did on break, stuff like that. he says hi to me when we pass in the halls, it might be just friendlyness, or maybe, as my friend claims, not just that.
Thing is, I probably won't mention it to him, I'm not all that outgoing with people i don't know really well, and especially b/c he's 17 and i'm only 14...
could he like me

2007-01-24 15:55:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy but I don't know how to show him. I'm not very open, so I would be uncomfortable stating it right out in the open. What can I do to let him know I like him?

2007-01-24 15:53:53 · 9 answers · asked by sarah a 6 in Singles & Dating

he was a complete stranger, but i really got attracted to his face, style and charm, i did not even want any boyfriend, and i am admittedly a man hater, but he made me think twice, the impossible has been done, just because he looks like that i seriously considered having a boyfriend which is not even my way of thinking, i am a lover of books and i am too preoccupied with other things to be attracted to a stranger
i just learned someone could really make you change your mind, too bad, i am feeling the opposite again
its just showed that i really have to be careful with what i feel, im glad i did not do anything drastic
any thoughts, experience like this

2007-01-24 15:52:56 · 3 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating