I have been seeing this girl for a month and i really like hanging out with her. She just came out of a relationship with a guy that didnt appreciate her. I told her that i like her and when she wants a relationship with me, ill be there for her. We recently had a date where it seemed that everthing was going well, i went home happy. But the next day and even weeks after the last date that i had with her she has totally changed the way she talks to me and interacts with me. She used to express enthusiasm with wanting to hang out with me, and see me, but now it seems like when i ask her to hang out she seems almost like she doesnt want to. Her enthusiasm is gone,and her sweet voice is gone too. Ive never said anyting disrepectfull to her. And i dont call her ten times a day either.Why is she acting so diffrently towards me now?
2007-01-24 16:01:04 · 6 answers · asked by SonicCube123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for the answers. I wanted to add also that she isnt giving me an attitude or being mean over the phone, its just that she seems almost like, "i dont care, we can or not". Whereas a couple of weeks ago she was so nice and radiant.
2007-01-24 16:50:56 · update #1
maybe the date didn't go the same way for her as it did for you. You sound like you were her rebound guy and with that being said it's time to move on and enjoy life to the fullest. Don't sit around waiting for her to be the one, because she probably isn't the one you need and looking for. good luck on what you are looking for. let her be the one to call you and want you!
2007-01-24 16:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by lil' miss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe things went to well on that first date and she's scared because of the past relationship. Or, maybe she was just being nice and really doesn't want to date you. Or, maybe she doesn't like the new relationship and feels that she now has lost you as a friend. Stay respectful but don't try to get to close. If she calms down, she may return but keep your eyes open for others in the mean time.
2007-01-25 00:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by Poohcat1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If her reaction to you is different it probably means she doesn't feel the same way she once did. I would move on. If she is fresh out of a relationship you may be on the bad end of a rebound relationship and she was just looking to feel like she did when she was with her ex and misses it. There may not have been anything you did or said she may just not feel the same way or she may be dating her ex or someone else.
2007-01-25 00:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by sweetnfoxychick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya sorry buddy you were the rebound...been there, done that. it has nothing to do with you at all it's just that she doesn't want anybody right now unless it's the ex she lost and even if she got back with him it probably wouldn't even work out. get with somebody who appreciates you for you!
2007-01-25 00:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by aubs010 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but it seems like you were the rebound. Shame, too, because you sound like a nice guy.
2007-01-25 00:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by sarai_kristi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She problably whants to go deeper into the relationship?...
2007-01-25 00:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋