Ok, my bf has gotten into the habit of calling me Good Wine. What does that mean? He also told me he loved me for the first time two weeks ago and says it once in a while, but it's like he's testing. What's up with that? I never have to worry about gas becuase he fills my tank all the while knowing I have the money to do so, but he won't listen to me. He is a very considerate and generous lover and just the thought of what he does gets me going. Just the thought. He's also started becoming more open in the bedroom, most likely as the result of a challenge. Don't guys usually give their all the first year or so? When they decide to do more than usual, what's up? We were talking and he says to me "You'll see. Next weekend I'm going to wear you down." I told him he had said that before and was full of it. Long story short, he proved that he wasn't kidding within the next hour. So, why would a guy say and do these things if he's not serious? We are very casual, but still?
2007-01-24 16:07:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm definately into him and very much in love with him. I just don't want to come on too strongly. But he says he knows how I feel. We spend a lot of time together outside of the bed, LOL. When my children are with me the other 60% of the time, he sincerely enjoys having them around. He likes to feed my son and keeps giving in to my 3 year old daughter's tantrums. I tell him not to, but he says she's little and it's cute. Oh, yeah, he's also a LOT older than me. A LOT more.
2007-01-24 16:07:59 · update #1
ok first of all, older men, yes they do make better lovers. Also older men are more into settling down. So, if he's being like that, then chances are he is very serious. Someone who is just a passerby is nothing like that. It sounds to me like he's slightly old fashioned, and modern enough to be perfect. Honey hold onto that one. Sounds to me like before too much longer he may be talking about the big M word. Oh, and good wine is a good thing. Wine is something that you savor, especially if its good...so in a way he's telling you that he loves to saver you. He loves everything about you...the way you taste the way you smell, the way you look, the way you feel. Dont worry honey its a good thing.
2007-01-24 16:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by addybme 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take your time with it...I don't know what good wine means but it must be a pet name he has for you. If you are good enough to sleep with you're good enough to have this conversation with. Talk to him all we can do is speculate he can give you real answers. Sounds like his manliness feels threatened if he has to consciously make the sex better. The worst thing to say to him is "You said that last time." He may feel you are unsatisfied and that you will want to leave him for a younger man since he is older than you. It may be very well just insecurity but it is something you should talk to him about so no misunderstandings occur and your relationship becomes rocky.
2007-01-25 00:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by sweetnfoxychick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Us old guys know how to rock the young girls world.. ;-P
How much older is he? 15 years or more? With out being able to ask more questions I have to say he's enjoying your bed time and the company of you and your kids...
Sounds like all he wants is a casual relationship.
2007-01-25 00:25:03 · answer #3 · answered by asgrafxx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... maybe his feeling is getting stronger and he wants you to feel it too. Maybe, he's sending a signal that he doesn't want to lose you. Go with it and show him you care and love him dearly too. He may just turn round and propose soon. All the best!
2007-01-25 00:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by Soft & Tender 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why not you just enjoy it for the moment now and just see how things will go? be natural and dont expect anything.
or you can just ask him directly what it is between the both of you, so that you'll know what to expect from this relationship.
2007-01-25 00:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by boogiesbottom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it doesn't matter how much older, if you like him let him know and talk to him about the things he does to you and why he does those things .. let him know that sometimes you get mixed signals.
2007-01-25 00:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by heavenlyangelscent 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋