I'm an old fashioned kind of guy, where I hold doors open for wemon and stand when they enter a room. With my friends i'm not what you would call the leader of the group but I am more of a supportive friend. With my girlfriend I feel comfortable and then become a leader. Anyway, do wemon like this kind of man? I mean, deep down would you really like a "bad boy"?
2007-01-24 15:57:57 · 25 answers · asked by Lee R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
True gentlemen with the old fashioned manners are a rare find, but are true diamonds and absolutely priceless ^_^
I'm not into the bad boy at all. I hope you never change... because who ever gets you is a very lucky lady
2007-01-24 16:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by Saphire Aurora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I do not know what a wemon is but I will assume you mean woman. Women might say they like the "old-fashion" guy and half of them (not 50% of all women but half of each particular woman) would like a "nice guy" to settle down with. This satisfies their insecure side. On the other hand, women need to satisfy what makes them hot. This is the "bad boy."
So, depending what you are and depending what particular mood the chick is in, you might have a shot.
As for long term relationships, you need to be dynamic as well as stable but at times unpredictable.
If you are nice all the time, they will walk all over you. Let them know who is boss from time to time.
Good luck.
2007-01-24 16:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by star1_stock 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry to tell you that your behavior is the one of an egotistical person. You NEVER ask him to hang out. That can easily be interpreted as a lack of interest. It's not good enough to simply accept invitations. Your dating policy seems to be: "I will accept dates, but I will NEVER plan one single date with a guy in my entire life." You playfully texted him about kissing and he responded with an equally playful text. And you called that egotistical? Your reaction was absurd. Your co-worker who is like an older sister suddenly hates him after he goes out with you? That's plain and simple jealousy from a woman who wants attention. Bottom line: Within a 2 week period, two women both seem to think that this simple guy has an ego because he doesn't kiss both of your butts? The problem here lies with 2 women who think they are both princesses. If he is so bad, both of you should completely ignore him and see just how much better your lives improve. You clearly don't list any of his good qualities, so you should stop seeing him immediately. Right? You said you're a nice person and he is sincere. But all I see here is you over-reacting like a snooty woman with fluctuating hormones. I do NOT see the "nice" person that you claim to be.
2016-05-24 06:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I love the idea of courtship in a relationship. Or I could even handle a guy who could make a decision rather than relaying everything back to me if I can't be courted some some unapparent reason. Sorry for the slight bitterness, but yes, old fashioned guys are the best!
2007-01-24 18:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by hahtnamas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I for one love an old fashioned man. I think they are the perfect kind of guy. My husband is one of those, and let me tell you I feel like the luckiest woman in the world to have found him. As for the bad boy thing, no, I dont think they are worth having, because they are not supportive, they cant keep a job, and they are just not there for you.
Your friend is very lucky to have you.
2007-01-24 16:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by addybme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bad boys can be fun because they are "dangerous" and "exciting" but it will wear off in time. Stay your old fashioned self. Respecting a woman is always charming and if she respects you in return you have a winner.
2007-01-24 16:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by Poohcat1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think we need more old fashion guys! that's why im not married! cant find the guy i want! i dont want no bad boy! maybe some do but not me! be who u are dont change! why down deep i bet ur friends wish they was like u!!
2007-01-24 16:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by Mississippi Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Old fashioned is my dream...forget Bad Boys who needs the Drama??
2007-01-24 16:05:01 · answer #8 · answered by Mimi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you this: bad boys are HOT and attractive but gentlemen are the type of boys good girls dream about and bring home to mom :) i personally like gentlemen - soo be yourself and don't change - you'll find the best girl one day - i promise
2007-01-24 16:08:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the woman I suppose. Most girls are charmed by the old fashioned sentiment, but others might not be too impressed consider it a front.
2007-01-24 16:03:15 · answer #10 · answered by Ayan F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋