Family & Relationships - 24 January 2007

me and my b/f tryed to get pregnant for a while and now luc...well now i am i tried hinting to him but he said that now he wants to focus on school and everything and wants to wait what do i do how do i tell him now i dont think he want one anymore and if he leave i cant do this on my own help

2007-01-24 15:35:13 · 29 answers · asked by madalporto 1 in Family

I have a huge problem. I divorced my ex-husband in 2003 after 7 years of marriage do to cheating, disrespect. I do not miss him, don't ever want him again. I don't ask about him, I don't care to know how he is doing..NOTHING. Well, my new husband is insecure because he really has a problem with me still being friends with my ex-family. I am still friends with my ex's family. His sisters and niece still consider me family. We talk on the phone sometimes, we send each other encouraging e-mails, and every so often we meet for lunch or dinner. Mind you, my ex is never with them when the girls and I get together. They don't include him in any way when we make plans. I am a stay home mom, and I don't go out much at all (he doesn't want me to go anywhere). Every few months, the girls and I may get together and my husband gets really upset. He thinks that we shouldn't be friends. I am torn and I think he is controlling. Please tell me what you think. No rude/stupid answers plz.

2007-01-24 15:35:06 · 10 answers · asked by Sunshine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I came from a predominantly Catholic country where homosexuality is being frowned upon. I have a humble family. My aged parents are still around (bless them). My siblings are all professionals, married and have family of their own, except me. I am trying very hard to act as a straight guy. Despite all these, I still manage to discreetly satisfy my sexual needs.

I am in the prime of my life and I still am confused. I wanted to simply let go of my real self, have a partner to share my life with but I am worried about what people might say about my family. Perhaps, I can take all the ridicule, but my heart goes with my family. I can't imagine how devastated they would be, more so embarrased, if my true personality will be known to everyone.

I envy those that have lived their true lives and were lucky of being accepted by friends and family.

2007-01-24 15:34:59 · 23 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family

2007-01-24 15:34:28 · 28 answers · asked by Prams 1 in Friends

k well my friend is a twin and she likes these guys they are twins too like she just wants to talk to htem and get to know them and if she sees that hes cool then she will try to get with him u know well shes a sophmore and hes a freshman so am i i dont even think he knows she exist well i told her that i could like introduce them something like that but i dnt even talk to the guy!!! yeah stupid of me to tell her that i would introduce them but i need a plan though i dnt want to let her down well this is my plan find out info about him(i have him in one class) then start talking to him tell him about the girl that likes him you know then i will give him her number with permission of course and then its their business what happens next or what should i do or maybe i can befriend him and start talking to him but how do i do that? my job is not to hook them up but to let him know that she likes him and that she exist so what do i do to befriend him hes kind of laid back and quiet

2007-01-24 15:32:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm talking about real blacks, not the phony blacks that grew up in the mostly white suburbs - they don't count.

But almost all of my black friends, who are real blacks, say that they don't really like to kiss. Males and females.

Why is that?

2007-01-24 15:32:32 · 8 answers · asked by Tryumph 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy but he only has the same lunch period as me and we always give each others shy stares. I don't know how to start a conversation with him, which is funny cause I usually can only talk to people who are in my class or who were in my classes in the past. Should I start talking about my main interest? Cause I don't think we can talk about that since the majority of people in Illinois don't surf... I need some answers ASAP cause a dance is coming up and I REALLY want to ask him. Also I'm in high school so there's less of a chance to change one of my classes and end up in the same class with him :(

2007-01-24 15:32:26 · 9 answers · asked by Hawaiian surf chick 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend seems to prefer me without but i find myself ugly without. Why do guys seem to think girls are prettier without makeup than with? Do some guys prefer a girl to wear make up or not?

2007-01-24 15:31:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would you do to be with the one you love? what sacrifices would you makes, etc...?

2007-01-24 15:30:32 · 3 answers · asked by *KiM* 6 in Singles & Dating

Be honest here. How many of you have a stronger sex drive than yoru husbands. Also, Is your husband older than you? I know mine can't keep up.

2007-01-24 15:30:01 · 7 answers · asked by sexyladyinak 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So theres this guy I like called Anthony Nichollas.
He is a year ahead of me but he is in my bestfriends tag (Homeroom). I havnt really talked to him that much..
I know his name and I think he knows mine.. I had to go tell him his sister broke her collor bone and his dad broke his leg in a car crash once and a few days ago i was on a bus and he was on there i said "hi anthony" and he said hi and every few minutes he sortof side looked at me trying to avoid looking at me... and when he got of the bus he walked about 5 meters and turned around back at the bus and started staring at the bus then turned back around and kept walking.
I really like him but I think hes kinda shy..
What do I do? I really like him

2007-01-24 15:29:10 · 6 answers · asked by OhReally 2 in Singles & Dating

i met this guy in school and he invited me to his friends party so i went that friday night....we werent really dancing because we were outside the party ....after that he used to call me evryday and talk to me and look for me during school used to come over an dgive rides. i made friends with hid friends. and then i started to like him alot! he told he had a girlfriend but she didnt go to the same school . he used to flirt with me alot and now he doesnt talk to me that much i really dont know what happened and its really sad to love someone that you cannot have....1day i told that we wed meet up at the mall he said it was cool the next hour he texted me saying he couldnt cuz he was at his ladies house an dhe said "leave us alone *****"..dont get it ..so y the **** he made fallinlove with him i dont get guys! they changed fast

2007-01-24 15:28:58 · 25 answers · asked by katherineesquivel_nasa 1 in Singles & Dating

is it always the family member? or people who helped you?

2007-01-24 15:28:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Whats average size for your past relationships in your mind. How did this affect your experience/pleasure. Be honest.

I'm a *cough*FOOT-LONG*cough* dude if u know what i mean

2007-01-24 15:26:59 · 8 answers · asked by Da Kid 1 in Singles & Dating

He literally waited one week and cut off all contact with her. He didn't even have the guts to break up with her in person. He just quit calling and answering her calls. This happened to my sister years ago and both parties are now both happily married to other people (at least she is), but I just wanted an opinion on just how horrible (or not) his cowardly act was.

2007-01-24 15:26:56 · 18 answers · asked by ? 7 in Singles & Dating

Don't take this the wrong way, girls are SO much better off now than the were 50+ years ago

k, am I the only person who feels this way.

Nowadays they act like all girls have to break free of the stereotypical girl and all the girls movies show the girl being all tough and athletic. She hits a baseball really far and surprises the boys then eats a big triple cheeseburger and all the feminin girls are all snotty and mean and evil. But what if a girl (like me) just naturally is small and weak and can't hit base balls and likes to bake cookies. Does that make her a disgrace to modern women??

2007-01-24 15:26:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been married over eight years, but he has never taken me anywhere or made time for me. He does not bother to even show me affection. He told me that I am lazy even though I keep the house very clean and watch his emotionally disturbed daughter by another marriage that I have taken under my wing like she is my own. He comes home to hot home cooked meals. I am a really good cook. I treat her like my own. He never has any compassion for me when I am sick and avoids me whenever he gets a day off. I am still attractive, but he oggles every female he can in my presence. I am so tired of this but I want my marriage to work because I have invested so much time, money, effort and I really love my husband and step daughter. I have stood by him when he was very ill and through so much, I just don't know how to get my needs met? It seems not matter what I do I just can't please him. No matter how good I look, no matter how hard I work! No matter how much I contribute! What should I do?

2007-01-24 15:26:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

alright, everybody how about we end tonight on a happy note?! tell me something happy or positive so i can smile before i go to bed.... thanks!!

2007-01-24 15:25:52 · 16 answers · asked by *KiM* 6 in Singles & Dating

I am 6'0" I have black hair and brown eyes. Everyone says I am very handsome. I don't know what to do. I've wanted a girlfriend for the longest time!!!!!Please help. Thanks. I appreciate any and ALL advice. :-)

2007-01-24 15:25:08 · 7 answers · asked by Unique Guy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 15:24:50 · 3 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Singles & Dating

What does it make you think of? What is it about? is it nicely written?
Her face showed no sign of the emptiness she felt, her broken heart was hidden under layers of lies that she herself had spun.
Starved for attention and craving the love she never had, the girl lost her self in a sea of false hopes and rejection, her cry’s for attention were ignored by the ones she loved most, her silent crying was never heard and her anger of the hatred she had received, had always received, was taken out on herself, people envied her, but no one felt the hurt she felt, never cried as much as she cried, never was rejected so many times. She had tried so many times for there attention, plea’s for love and care, desperate, dangerous acts that were ignored by the ones she needed to be seen by, she hurt inside, but no one cared.

2007-01-24 15:24:15 · 8 answers · asked by made_up_cinderella 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-24 15:24:12 · 2 answers · asked by cecil r 1 in Friends

i just came to canada for half a year now in a local high school. i really find that foreign girl is attractive. she used to be in my spanish class. but not any more, maybe changed to another class. i tried to do something but i even forgot her name because i was so nervous when she told me!!!! right now i still have some problem with my english, but the thing bothers me most is i'm not sure if she can accept me and whether the others at school can accept this, especially her friends. i feel i'm not cool enough to have such a beautiful girlfriend. i really don't know what and how to do ~~~~~~

2007-01-24 15:24:10 · 3 answers · asked by zachary 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 2 years, the last two years have kinda been bumpy ( off and on) the big problem is one of the times i broke up with him was because he had lied to me about alot of stuff like drugs and going out to his friends houses and choosing to lie to me when he knows i don't care if he goes and see's and hangs out with his friends. Well the day i broke up with him he he tryed screwing my best friend who he had already slept with way before we started dating,Could this mean something? Iv takin him back because i do love him and im willing to work any thing out to be with him, but could that mean any thing? And does it sound like im fighting a loosing battle or trying to hard or what Does that mean maby he wants his old fling.... Im so lost some advice please....

2007-01-24 15:23:56 · 5 answers · asked by Sweetie 1 in Singles & Dating

I know it would seem a lot worse if were 18 and 11! curious.

2007-01-24 15:22:51 · 28 answers · asked by Lynsey E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

at the same time?

2007-01-24 15:22:27 · 6 answers · asked by fallin64 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 15:22:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay my friend is only 15 and her mom is trying to make her marry a thirty-year-old that molested her, but her mom doesnt know he did that. the only way she cant get married to him is if she marries this 26 year old that can protect her. but its also their custom to marry older guys. she likes the younger guy better but still doesnt want to get married. If she doesnt get married at all she has to go to egypt. she doesnt know what to do cuz shes scared of her mom. she wanted me to put this up cuz she doesnt have a computer. PLEASE HELP

2007-01-24 15:22:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's like they want the man to continue doing all the things he did to sweep them off their feet. (occasionally get flowers, rub her feet, go out to get her favorite midnight snack, EVEN watch lifetime with her,etc.) But then they stop keeping up their appearance (wears the rattiest pajamas, non-matching under garment EVERYDAY; where before she wore sexy pajamas and lingerie.), won't cook but once a week ( where before it's like 3 -4 times a week) , Stops looking out for her man ( Example: going to the grocery store, but won't offer to pick you up anything at the grocery store), her nurturing ability (affection) is cut way down along with the "Special Attention"!

Women say they want a great man, but don't know how to treat a great man because they are used to junk-minded men!

2007-01-24 15:21:06 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, what is the down side of a guy taking viagra? I want my husband to take them but I don't know if there are any bad effects.
My boyfriend takes them and can go all night. I would love to get the same from my husband, but I don't want to harm him. He doesn't have a heart problem, I know that is a issue.

2007-01-24 15:21:06 · 9 answers · asked by sexyladyinak 3 in Marriage & Divorce