Be honest here. How many of you have a stronger sex drive than yoru husbands. Also, Is your husband older than you? I know mine can't keep up.
2007-01-24 15:30:01 · 7 answers · asked by sexyladyinak 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I thought that I was the ONLY one!
My husband is 10 yrs older than me and is NOT interested. I felt so depressed and unattractive. He told me otherwise but I can't help how i feel. I talked him into once a week but it does not always happen. I feel like such a pervert practically begging him.
Have your husband checked out by a doctor anyway just in case there are factors involved beside age.
PS those medicines help temporarily
2007-01-24 15:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by laura g 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's been shown that guys peak out sexually around age 21, and women around age 42....some joke, huh?
Actually, I think it's a wonderful, designed balance. If both sexes peaked at the same time, what would be the incentive to cultivate a long-lasting sex drive throughout your marriage? And sex in a good marriage is wonderful relational "glue".
And, if the order were reversed, we'd never populate the planet! The guy wouldn't see the point until it was too late.
2007-01-24 23:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is almost 40 and I'm almost 43 and he has a much lower sex drive than me. He puts out once a week because he knows that is the bare minimum for me, but it's really not as much as I'd like. He was honest and told me when he met me that he prefers sleep most nights. Bummer, but he has enough other great qualities to make me compromise.
2007-01-24 23:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men my age or older that I've actually been with were not able to keep up. I love to go for hours and they are usually a one time shooter and snoring away after that. My ex was like that too. I don't think his head even hit the pillow after sex and he was sleeping, probably while he was going through the sexual motions too! Younger men are incredible, ESPECIALLY military guys! woweee!
2007-01-24 23:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by NYEVE43 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has a stronger sex drive than me. He's also older. But we're very happily married. There's more here than sex.
2007-01-25 02:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by tklines 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do now. My husband is younger though. He can keep up all right, but I want different things now.
2007-01-24 23:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by marincaligirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I have to ask...... are you related to my wife or something??????????
2007-01-24 23:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by open_phunguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋