Family & Relationships - 24 January 2007

i am jst married abt 4mths back..im 22 and my hubbi is 23years old. i used to have a number of ex boyfriends,compared to my hubby b4 marriage.. Do u think this will somehow affect my marriage life in future? Example: If we were to have a heated up conversations/argument.. do u think men have a habit to dig up the past and compare??(For ur info: i previously broke up with my hubbi wen we were in the dating stage to get along with his friend whom i thought was the right one for me.) But later i realised tat i was wrong and somehow patched up things with my hubbi and we got married years later..

2007-01-24 15:06:34 · 20 answers · asked by sUnseT 3 in Marriage & Divorce

There are boys out there named Dana and girls named Michael. If someone said, Have you seen Dana and Michael? Who would you think was the guy and who would you think was the girl?
Dana is a really feminine sounding name.

2007-01-24 15:05:49 · 4 answers · asked by jacobimmugatu 2 in Family

My fiance shaved his face pretty regularly with a razor when we first got together. Then he stopped for awhile & only shaved like 1 time every week & 1/2. I said something nicely so he started shaving. Now he only shaves with a Phillips norelco. I don't know if he just does not know how to use it or what, but it does not no where near smooth his face. I am not a ****** & I hate to be one. I am all about being yourself & not changing for anyone. But this is something he did in the beginning. He apparently hates shaving, but I would think he should do it out of respect for me. Guys just don't understand that stuff hurts our faces. I don't even kiss him as much as I used to because of this. But I don't want to seem like i am trying to change him. Don't get me wrong he is a wonderful man. But I think that shaving every now & then should be a part of taking care of yourself, right? What should I do? He is supposed to stay shaved for work, but he don't even do it for that reason.

2007-01-24 15:05:49 · 13 answers · asked by With My Forever 2 in Marriage & Divorce

(I'm trying to get myself a girlfriend, please help girls.)

2007-01-24 15:05:32 · 1 answers · asked by Unique Guy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-24 15:05:20 · 11 answers · asked by funky 1 in Family

2007-01-24 15:05:19 · 13 answers · asked by ♥™♥™ 1 in Friends

what's the best way to be happy - make money - have a great social life - time management - work - eat right - work out - meet someone nice?

2007-01-24 15:05:08 · 7 answers · asked by Lou 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright...so here's my situation:
So first off, there's my best friend, let's call him Sam. Sam and I have been friends for years, and I've kinda been crushing on him for a while. But he was dealing with a lot of depression, and I was helping him through it, so he rejected me when I asked him out, because he wanted to work out his life before he got involved with anybody. We tell each other everything, and we share alot of common interests - like we love to ski together. Problem - he's 18, I'm 16, so he's graduated.

Second guy, let's call him Ben. I went out with him for 3 months, then we broke up, and now we're back together. He's my age and goes to my school. I love to hang out with him - I write songs, he plays the guitar, it's so much fun.

Right now I'm being torn apart. Sam just admitted that he likes me alot and is ready to be in a relationship (which is something I've dreamed of for years) but I'm with Ben right now, and I do feel a connection with him. How do I choose?

2007-01-24 15:04:31 · 9 answers · asked by skiers_dominate 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so I'm in the musical at my school and in the show, my character makes out with this girl who in real life I kinda have a thing for. Rehearsal just started so we haven't gotten up to the kiss scene yet, but when it happens, what should I do?...if I kiss her lamely then she wouldn't wanna hook up outside the play, but if I go to much into it, she might think i'm taking advantage of the situation...where do I draw the line?

2007-01-24 15:04:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she is just like me in many aspects and way of being... and i still dont know if she likes me...

2007-01-24 15:04:13 · 9 answers · asked by alonnso_00 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband uses and abuses me then.
By the way, sorry about my spelling, I'm brazilian and english is not my mother language

2007-01-24 15:04:04 · 8 answers · asked by katanasan81 1 in Marriage & Divorce

At least 3 girls that I know of (one he cheated on me with when we first got 2gether 2 yrs ago) come into his work (he works at a music store) and they buy him stuff for christmas and he says they are just friends. He knows how I feel about it and I found out that the one he cheated on me with came in to visit him at work yesterday. I went a bit crazy and contacted her and the other girls too and told them basically that I would appreciate them staying away from him. He always used the excuse that he couldn't be rude and tell them they werent welcome so I actually did the dirty work for him by telling them 2 stay away.. Well, he wants to break up now and says I have no right telling him who he can and can't be friends with.. I understand that. However, no woman would allow their man to be friends with the girl they cheated on them with. The others he used to date also. Am I wrong in thinking that he ultimately chose them over me?? Was I wrong in contacting them?

2007-01-24 15:03:40 · 9 answers · asked by Misti C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 15:03:08 · 9 answers · asked by Violet 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do you guys like athletic build women? if not what do you prefer?

2007-01-24 15:02:36 · 12 answers · asked by Lauren_Ann20 5 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering the other day if it is possible to dislike your own child and if so, what it takes to reach that sort of feeling. What would your child have to do for you to dislike them? Also, if you do dislike your own child, do you still love them?

2007-01-24 15:02:00 · 15 answers · asked by Violet 2 in Family

you serve someone with court documents to go to court and they will not sign for them? I have tried two different methods of serving these papers (Sheriff, Certified Mail) and the party still refuses to sign. What options are left for me? This is regarding my child I have not seen now for 3 years. Please send some advice.

2007-01-24 15:01:33 · 4 answers · asked by Red Apple Martini 2 in Family

my friends have been saying this guy has been hitting on me. if a guy is hitting on me is he most likely going to ask me out sooner or later?

2007-01-24 15:01:26 · 26 answers · asked by punkchickatheart54 2 in Singles & Dating

This boy in my class acts gay & always talks about micheal jackson
and every day follows me around when I tell him to stop he doesn't.
I HOPE HE DOESN'T LIKE ME. He has a femimine voice & when he says "I LOVE kittens!" he scares me.

Could someone tell me what to do or if you think he's gay or likes me or w/e? :[

2007-01-24 15:01:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My girlfriend for our first 5 and a 1/2 years of dating never saw her friends. I went away to college and hung out with my friends and she just sat in her house and waited for me to call. I never made her do this she just did. Anyway now she sees her friends 3 or 4 times a week and sometimes ditches me for them. I did that to her and didn't think anything of it. Now its starting to make me worry should i?

2007-01-24 15:00:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i told a friend if he ever needed a kidney i'd donate one to him. and he took as a big deal but seriously..we only need one kidney to live and he's my friend so why wouldn't i wanna give him something he needs and i dont? and i mean he'd be paying the bill..or would i be paying also.. i dunno how that works..

2007-01-24 15:00:31 · 3 answers · asked by ♥♥♫ 3 in Friends

ok, so i been with her for a few months and i really love her and she really loves me. she wants a "break" from me to think about our relationship. she tells me i was rushing things about getting really serious, which i was, but she also says she dosent want a relationship right now. i try and give her space but she gets sad when im not with her. i think i should let her miss me and come back to me but im not sure. i love her so much. please help. thanx

2007-01-24 15:00:26 · 4 answers · asked by cubantiger23 1 in Singles & Dating

He yells at me no matter what I do. He always wants to be alone without me or our kids. I ask for help with the kids and he curses at me. I told him I want a divorce and he says he doesn't understand why.

2007-01-24 14:59:27 · 22 answers · asked by compmom29 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently attended a bridal show and saw lots of gowns with color, either with colorful sashes or embroidery. However, I'm looking for a wedding dress that's a different color from white or ivory altogether.

I love the idea of pale gold or a deep red, but I don't want it to look like a prom dress (most prom dresses are a bit too frou-frou for me).

I've found a few, but I need something around $700 (give or take $75) and available in plus size. Does anyone know if there's a company that sells something like this?

I'm trying to avoid going to every wedding boutique in town, so I'm shooting for seeing the dress online, going to the dress shop, and just ordering it.

2007-01-24 14:58:27 · 27 answers · asked by jazzgirlpdx 1 in Weddings

2007-01-24 14:57:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend met my best friend, and said he thought she was SEXY. I got the impression that he was flirting with her, but I wasn't really sure, Then he told me that. Im scared to bring her around. What does he mean by sexy? Does that mean he is attracted to her, or would like to have sex with her? Should I just dump him and avoid being hurt? GUYS out there: would u tell your girl if you thought one of her friends was hot? or SEXY????

2007-01-24 14:57:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it me or are the boyfriend/girlfriend relationships you have in college are just soo "high school"? - they seem soo similar...It's like, "let's have lunch after class...we'll go get crunk at the party together..." i don't know...what do you think?

2007-01-24 14:57:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 14:56:52 · 4 answers · asked by bunny 1 in Friends

well i have this guy friend and he really likes me! he never leaves me alone and it is constant flirting and i dont like him like that at all! i have known him since first grade so he is just one of my good friends and that is all i want. how do i get him to stop, but in a nice way?

2007-01-24 14:55:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 14:54:57 · 47 answers · asked by Redkenwolf 2 in Weddings

We've been going out for 3 years now and recently it seems like he doesn't want to kiss me - only pecks. i have very good dental hygiene, so i doubt its about that. there is nothing else different about him, he still wants to be intimate but just no frenching. does this mean anything?

2007-01-24 14:54:36 · 17 answers · asked by Christine H 1 in Singles & Dating