Alright...so here's my situation:
So first off, there's my best friend, let's call him Sam. Sam and I have been friends for years, and I've kinda been crushing on him for a while. But he was dealing with a lot of depression, and I was helping him through it, so he rejected me when I asked him out, because he wanted to work out his life before he got involved with anybody. We tell each other everything, and we share alot of common interests - like we love to ski together. Problem - he's 18, I'm 16, so he's graduated.
Second guy, let's call him Ben. I went out with him for 3 months, then we broke up, and now we're back together. He's my age and goes to my school. I love to hang out with him - I write songs, he plays the guitar, it's so much fun.
Right now I'm being torn apart. Sam just admitted that he likes me alot and is ready to be in a relationship (which is something I've dreamed of for years) but I'm with Ben right now, and I do feel a connection with him. How do I choose?
2007-01-24 15:04:31 · 9 answers · asked by skiers_dominate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I were 16 there is no way I would be in a committed relationship!!I would like having my options open.I would date several guys or be free enough to date 1 and hang out with another.
2007-02-01 11:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by Dotr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in Ben's situation and how would you feel? Then again you may regret passing off this chance to be together with Sam. Ask your heart, who you love more and listen to it. It will whisper so listen closely. Ask yourself who is gonna make you happier!!
2007-01-24 23:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by PhiloPhobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you chose to be with either Sam or Ben, it depends on how you feel when you are with them. You must think carefully which guy you like more and you are more comfortable with. Nobody can tell you whom you should select
2007-01-24 21:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with Ben for now and if things dont work out go to Sam
2007-02-01 14:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by monekysandwolves4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the best thing for you is to follow your heart. but let me tell you who do you know the best? and the other one has a guitar? well i hve seen many that are with those musical stuff they tend to mess around with all the girls and never have one person so maybe you'd best thing hard. if sam is honest which he sounds like help him and be with him hes in depression get him help its a good thing and you maybe turn out to really lvoe him
2007-01-31 13:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart on this one....just remember that Sam will be leaving for school and Ben is going to be there in the school with you.....but make sure you follow your heart on this one
2007-02-01 12:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you like Sam in your heart.do what your heart tell you to do .it seems you have been longing for him for a long time.just grasp the chance.wish you good luck! ^-^
2007-02-01 14:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by kelen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A coin toss usually works for me.
2007-01-24 15:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWEETY THIS IS YOUR DECISION.NOT ANYONE ELSES.
2007-01-24 15:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by Bootsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋