Does anyone here have children who they dislike?

Question

I was wondering the other day if it is possible to dislike your own child and if so, what it takes to reach that sort of feeling. What would your child have to do for you to dislike them? Also, if you do dislike your own child, do you still love them?

Answer 1

my parents would not answer this question, or at least not turthfuly. they have always like my older brother, younger brother and younger sister more than they liked me. they treet them like gods and me like a slave. when I get home from school every day I make dinner for every one, when my brother gets home the same time as I do he plays video games all night or simply waches tv. my younger brother does have to do some work around the house, but if he does not do it then I have to and if I dont I get in trouble. my little sister does not have to do any thing ether. if I complain in any way about doing all the work then I get yelled at. take tonight. I cooked dinner and when I sat down to eat my older brother wanted some water. I told him to get it himself as I had just spent the last 1 1/2 hours making dinner while he sat on his butt. My dad yell at me to get my bro the water. now after a little while my brother was about to go get a snack of himself and I asked for water, he told me to get it myself. I said "I got you some at dinner you can get me some now" and dad yelled at me to get it my self. this is just a minor example of the kind of things that happen every day. my parents baught my older brother a $800 car for christmas, they gave me a $20 bill. I know they spent over $300 on my younger brother and sister. I asked if I would get a car when I am 19 for christmas, and dad said "no, why would we buy you a car? if you want one you have to buy it yourself." my parents dislike me more than any thing. often I wish that they had never had me.

Answer 2

it is a quite charged thanks to invite the question :-P i love little ones and that i love cats. yet that would not unavoidably propose they're a tremendous blend. convinced, some little ones do very well with cats, yet some ARE way too problematical and it form of feels maximum father and mom can't be bothered to teach them in the different case or a minimum of supervise them. it is tremendous that your boys are comfortable yet I have seen way too many childrens toss round animals like rag dolls to signify people bringing a cat right into a house with small little ones. and evidently on the different end of issues, many cats get "rubbed the incorrect way" through little ones (both actually and figuratively) and would reply in ugly concepts. even as a cat going after me because I crossed a line in all likelihood would not be a huge deal, little ones are small and they extremely ought to get harm. even if a small new child is being comfortable, they're many times pushy and somewhat clumsy, and under no circumstances all cats have the temperament to positioned up with that for prolonged sessions of time.

Answer 3

I don't dislike any of my children, but I dislike a lot of what they do. Yes if you dislike your child you still love them.

Answer 4

Have 3 grown sons that I LOVE very much, but at times do NOT like because of their actions.... they are all very different ppl. with some same personality traits.... Yes it is possible to dislike your child at times but I think the love is always there.... My oldest son as the tendancy to cross the moral line, long story, he is very smart brain wise but not so smart in the comman sense department, and he just cant reconcile the two... I get frustrated and angry at times, but I still love him........ God bless

Answer 5

OH DEAR, I have 5 grown children.
I love everyone of them with all of my being.
I have not always liked their actions but that had nothing to do with the love I have for them.
Only a Mother can understand unconditional love for your child. God is good !!

Answer 6

well my little brother has done so much to my mom that she dislikes him.She says she loves him but when she comes home and sees his truck she gets knots in her stomach.He has done so many hurtful hateful things.My mom created him to be this way.My dad beat her everyday for 14 years and I think she saw some of my dad in my brother and therefor without realizing it she treated him badly.He has stolen money from my stepdad,stolen gas out of his truck so he could ride his buddies around and get high,he screams at everyone and punches holes in the walls,he curses at my mom and calls her everything but decent.He skipped school everyday and then quit completly they had to go to juvenile court and be caught up in the system for three years.Its a mess those are just some of the things the list goes on and on,my mom wishes he would move out.I don't think its right for her to feel the way she does but i can't help it.

Answer 7

I have a 16 year old daughter who I love dearly, but do not like presently. She is rude and demanding and is only nice when she gets her way. The minute I tell her no, she freaks out, calling me names and saying what a bad mother I am. Lately, she wants her septum pierced, and because I will not sign for it, she hates me. I am frustrated, as I feel I am a good mom, but she only likes me when she gets what she wants. I hope to like her again some day...

Answer 8

I feel u can dislike someone but love them. all because u love someone doesnt mean u have to like them very much as well as all because u like someone doesnt mean u have to love them. U can have kids and love them with all ur heart and be bye there side in times of hurt and pain but not like who they are or who they become, especially when kids are in their teen age years lol. there are many people in my life like friends and also family that i have had to kinda cut out of my life either forever or just for a time period because of their life styles but even though i dont like who they are as a person doesnt mean my feelings of love that has developed has lessoned. I still love them and would come running if there was a major tragity in their life but i dont have to associate with them on an everyday basis. Just pray for the people in ur life, must most of all.... pray that God changes ur heart for growth for urself and for them.

Answer 9

Yes there are times I dislike my daughter-but she will always be in my heart. Sometimes she doesn't like me either. but no matter what the other does we love each other. Isn't that all relationships? My husband annoys the hell out of me sometimes, but I still love him, same with my sister.

Answer 10

I love all my kids. But at times I dont like some of the things they do. It doesn't mean that I love them less. We are human and have different feelings at times. I had custody of my nephew (hes 19 now) and everything he did made me not like him. I always told him that I loved him tho, but I didnt like what he was doing. He got into a lot of trouble when my brother died (his father) so he acted out by doing drugs and saying bad things to me. He's grown up since and we get along fine now. Maybe thats what your feeling.