Family & Relationships - 24 January 2007

My family is falling apart more and more everyday.
I have been depressed over the years and I feel like it is my fault that the family is not as close as it used to be. My parents have been married for almost 20 years and they are thinking about divorcing. I could never live with myself if they got a divorce over me. I feel like I have taken so much out of them and they have no more of anything left to give. I am trying so hard to be happy and I am trying to help this family but some days it seems inpossible. Me and my mom are always fight and my dad hates it which puts him in a horrible mood. which makes my dad and mom not want to be around eachother. I feel like I have taken away time from my brothers with my parents because I have taken up all their time with them trying to help me. I feel horrible and i dont know what to do. I dont know how to make things right. Im so confused on my family and my life. Would anyone care to help me?

2007-01-24 14:29:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There is this guy and we have been flirting with eachother for a while now. Well anyway I have been telling him for weeks that I was going to make him some cupcakes and he seemed very excited to get them. Finally this week I sent him a text message and said I will be making some cupcakes this week and if he would like some, and he said, "YES PLEASE", so yesterday I told him I could drop it off at his house on Thursday at 6:00pm, and he replied, He is not to sure if he will be home at that time, but he will call me. Do you think he is telling the truth?

2007-01-24 14:29:20 · 5 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Singles & Dating

If you were out somewhere and got stranded would you share a hotel room with your husband's best friend? If you did would "anything" happen? Would you be upset if your husband shared a room with your best friend?

2007-01-24 14:27:52 · 19 answers · asked by sexyladyinak 3 in Marriage & Divorce

can u tell me how i can say i love you babe girl with all my heart and soul you mean the world to me you are my everthing spanish

2007-01-24 14:27:51 · 23 answers · asked by kingyogi02us 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 14:27:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm in my mid 40's and live alone in a mid sized (3/2/2) home (my son is off at school). My mother is in her late 60's and lives in the same town in another mid sized home (3/2/2). For the $$ we pay on both homes - we could sell & buy one newer, nicer house with plenty of room for kids/visitors. We get along GREAT. Would you do it?

2007-01-24 14:26:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay,so I have this guy friend, and he is being SUCH jerk to me now. I haven't done anything to him, and he always blows me off,and lies about everything! What should I do?

2007-01-24 14:26:25 · 17 answers · asked by abercrombie_lover101 4 in Friends

or is it more strictly on a just sex basis? just trying to understand how the wiring works. ;-)

2007-01-24 14:25:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 14:24:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 14:23:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok so I'm only 12, but I kind of sort of have a boyfriend. Sort of. We never talk, we dont even wave in the halls at school, he flirts with other girls. Is it over? I kind of love him though, and I don't want to give him the slip. Don't tell me to get over it because its not that easy. I'm head over heels. And whenever he talks to this one bratty girl I feel like screaming. Why doesn't he ever talk to me except for on the internet! And even then, he only says stuff when I ask him a question or something. Lame huh?
I NEED HELP!!!

2007-01-24 14:23:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am divorced and been going out with a married man... he has children...How do I stop? I haven't been able to meet anyone else... I never wanted to go out with him,,,but he was so persistent trying to ask me out for months... one day I gave in... and now I can't stop/// What would you do?

2007-01-24 14:22:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been friends for over 5 years, like best friends. We have never done anything like kiss or anything else. I have always had a boyfriend and I have just recently broke up and he has told me he is interested in me as more than a friend, he wants to date. We both find each other attractive, but what if it doesn't work? Should we jeopardize our friendship?

2007-01-24 14:22:32 · 2 answers · asked by Tigerluvr 6 in Singles & Dating

This guy I really don't like asked me to a dance and I've been trying to avoid him at school, but now he's in my gym class and he's always trying to get my attention, what do I do?

2007-01-24 14:22:14 · 18 answers · asked by AP 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 14:21:53 · 7 answers · asked by badboyjr3172006 1 in Singles & Dating

I enjoy wearing a Jar Jar Binks costume/mask all day long and entertaining people I meet. I go to malls and help shoppers relax by screaming in their face, knocking bags out of their hands, and holding up lines by dancing and messing with the cashier. Anyway, I was driving to the mall in my Jar Jar mobile and some cop pulled me over. He told me to take my mask off and I said I wouldn't. He told me to get out and then tried to forceably REMOVE my mask! I started screaming and ran to the other side of the car. I picked up a rock and smashed my windshield, and took off screaming down the road. The cop tackled me! I tried to break free and he shot me with a taser! I pretended to be subdued and he started leading me to the car but I broke free and ran into some woods. I screamed that the cop shouldn't chase me cause their were bears in the woods but he didn't listen! He caught me and arrested me! Can I sue the police for my abuse/broken windshield?

2007-01-24 14:21:19 · 16 answers · asked by Be Intimate with Jar Jar Binks!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a wide variety of friends and I enjoy that, but the main people I'm around are more "gothic" types because I like them better. Unfortunatly it's not excepted by my "black" friends and for the first time I have lunch with them both and my friend is a ***** towards my more "real" friends ( like calling them lame and being mean in general) . I don't enjoy being around this person now because she insulted my friends, how do I aviod being her friend anymore when I'll see her at lunch every other day ( in a nice way)? I need real answers that will benefit me. Also is it right to still consider life as a popularity contest now that I'm older, isn't it a little immature to not want to talk to someone because you think your better then them?

2007-01-24 14:21:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Especially girls..like they help them more and are more attentive with them than others?

2007-01-24 14:19:59 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK there's this guy who i think is cute. I've seen him befor but he hasn't seen me well I finaly have the guts to find out what his name is and if he has a gf from this girl who's friends with his cuz well i've been talking to her and she told me last week that he was going to call me but He didn't ?? so then i told that girl that he didn't call me and so like what's up then she was all umm well let me find out then she told me that he wanted a pic of me so i sent hima pic but he hasn't called me?? o yeah i'm guessing that the reason he hasn't called is because of his basketball games?;[ but my friend tell me to just move on and not wait for him to call i don't know what to do please help me??:]

2007-01-24 14:19:49 · 7 answers · asked by kool_aid_ruiz23 1 in Friends

My boyfriend came to get me one night to spend some time together (if you know what I mean). Well, we were in the middle of something when his phone rings. I wasn't really mad, but I was kind of aggravated because I wanted that time to be for us; I understood it wasn't in his plans, but still...I didn't make a big scene, so I left the couch and went and laid on the bed and pulled the covers around me. He got off the phone and came and snatched the covers, I didn't roll over, he told me to turn around and I didn't. He left and sat his butt on the couch. I was going to turn around, I just needed one more second to cool down! I was mad then. He didn't even really try. But still I didn't say anything. Them he goes and calls the person back to talk! on our time! I put on my clothes and marched right out of there. Then he tries to get of the phone, and yells at me to come back in that room. no! He had done that once before and promised he would never do it again.

2007-01-24 14:19:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is a friendship a personal investment of trust and confidence?,..or a relationship that is convienant?,.. or a companyon/aquointance who is familure?,..

2007-01-24 14:19:45 · 3 answers · asked by olddogwatchin 5 in Friends

he's all nervous about proposing to me. is there anything that i can do to make him less nervous....other than say yes?

2007-01-24 14:19:35 · 5 answers · asked by Starry Eyes 5 in Singles & Dating

If you were in a long distance relationship, and it is getting to the point where one of you has to move. If you are a guy, would you expect the woman to move to where you are, or would you consider moving to where the woman lives? I know that there are a lot of facters to consider, but most of my guy friends think that it is "expected" that the woman move closer to them. What is your view on that?

2007-01-24 14:18:11 · 13 answers · asked by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 in Singles & Dating

im just wondering how important is trust in a relationship.

2007-01-24 14:17:47 · 6 answers · asked by life_is_2_short_2_waste 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

whenever i am around this girl, i melt. weve been hanging out for a few weeks.

i have never felt this way for another girl.

but that makes me scared because i never thought that i could feel this way for a girl. lets just say i have been a dog before.

is it possible that this girl can cure me? because i feel that i could never hurt her.

2007-01-24 14:17:42 · 6 answers · asked by theAddict 1 in Singles & Dating

do girls like looks or personality more.

2007-01-24 14:17:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whenever i mop the floor 4 her,she always angry.
I can't stand 2 see the floor so oily n dirty.
What should i do?

2007-01-24 14:17:06 · 14 answers · asked by da da 1 in Family

Guys: what do you think about a girl is 5 foot?

2007-01-24 14:16:56 · 4 answers · asked by Candy Coated 1 in Singles & Dating

he saids we are committed but he feels if i come up there he will have to live with me cause he will be lonely if i don't come up there then he keeps himself busy with work what to do? he is 40 and i am 50 i am tired of the long distance relationship i love him and he loves me

2007-01-24 14:16:31 · 1 answers · asked by sandra_smith757 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 5'4 but i also have a lean tone. Not too buff. 6 packs/pecs and stuff tho.

2007-01-24 14:16:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating