This guy I really don't like asked me to a dance and I've been trying to avoid him at school, but now he's in my gym class and he's always trying to get my attention, what do I do?
2007-01-24 14:22:14 · 18 answers · asked by AP 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he keeps asking you on dates just be straightforward and tell him that you don't like him the way he does you and that should give him a hint. If hes just popping up and talking to you a little harmless conversation can't hurt. But if you really don't want to talk to him make sure you make it clear by not engaging in the conversation and just kinda answering him with one word answers. He'll get the hint soon enough.
Hope it helps!
2007-01-24 14:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by BlondeboarderBabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I hope you gave him an answer when he asked you. You should just lay it out for him tell him you dont like him that way or that you dont want to go to the dance with him (for whatever reason). If you tell him like this he will stop trying to get your attention and you will be happier and he will be less broken up than if you just continued on avoiding him.
2007-01-24 14:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by gotansas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be polite about not being interested in him as a date however, friends would work. Let him know that following you around does not make you feel any better towards him and makes you feel sort of pressured. And that, that kind of pressure will only hurt what friendship you both may have. Try also to maybe get him interested in another girl that might like him. Point out her good qualities to him.Whatever you do do not be mean to him.
2007-01-24 14:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by wow1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I ask you why you don't like him?
Would it hurt to give him that one chance?
A lot of people avoid each other everyday, thinking that the person they are avoiding is not for them... But have they actually tried?
Have you given him a chance?
Have you given yourself a chance?
Hey, it doesn't hurt trying... It's how we learn!
Give the guy a chance and if you really don't like him, at least you know you gave him and yourself that one chance. :)
2007-01-24 14:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by calv83luc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never smile in front of him, wear a smile and then when you notice him looking at you, go straight faced and cross your arms. If you just avoid him he will think you are playing hard to get! also, unless you know him and know what he is like, you shouldnt rule him out.
2007-01-24 14:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by Rob S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a big scene of profound rejection and humiliate him in front of everyone. Then kick him in the crotch as hard as you can. That will send the proper message, and he will back off. Or he will commit suicide. But anyways...
2007-01-24 14:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if I were u I will go up to him and tell him that I am sorry but I don't like you but we can be friends or something like that. U just have to tell him that you don't like him because if you don't he will keep on popping up everywhere.
2007-01-24 14:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by Memely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Polteley tell him you are not interested in him at this time. If that doesn't work ignore him. He'll get the picture sooner or later. Works for me!
2007-01-24 14:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore him. if he gives you problems get a counselor at school to see about transfering him to another class. If it gets bad ouside of school, get a restrining order against him.
2007-01-24 14:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well take chances if he's hot then go for get to know him.
but if he's kind of creeping you out well then just back off.
just be straight and honest and up front with him if you dare to talk to him!!
2007-01-24 14:28:28 · answer #10 · answered by Millie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋