how should i get my girl back?

Question

ok, so i been with her for a few months and i really love her and she really loves me. she wants a "break" from me to think about our relationship. she tells me i was rushing things about getting really serious, which i was, but she also says she dosent want a relationship right now. i try and give her space but she gets sad when im not with her. i think i should let her miss me and come back to me but im not sure. i love her so much. please help. thanx

Answer 1

let her miss you and come back to you she is the one that wanted the break so you need to let her crave you....get my point?

Answer 2

Bro,

I'm int the same situation... but I was the one that called the break.. as I know it she was getting too confused and fired up... I had to back off...

Time is what you need, time is what she needs... She will thank you afterwards for being so patient... I'm just waiting like you...

Hang out with your friends, but remember to not do anything stupid! You are very vulnerable right now, with emotions and pain running through you... so listen to your heart, not your mind... otherwise it will cause more problems and trust me you don't want to regret it later on in your life, whether it goes well or not you give that time and space!

Trust me, you will be a better person each day... although you still feel crap, but you will be a better person.

Answer 3

Hello cubantiger23,

She wanted a break from you, but she gets sad when you're not with her? How do you know this? Are you stalking her? I would continue to give her some space. In fact, you should probably start to look around for other women.

I don't know you, so I'm not sure, but you sound very young, cubantiger23. Life is just too short and the world is filled with many beautiful girls that would love to have a guy like you on their arm.

You need to get out and see what else is out there and not just wait for this girl to get her act together and figure things out. She won't be upset that you did what she wanted you to do.

Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:

http://www.blowmeuptom.com

I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.

--Rick

Answer 4

ok hommie she dont kno what to do so jus stop noticeing that she there and finally she s gonna crack and want chu more thenn you come on strong but balance the speed at the same time