Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 2 years, the last two years have kinda been bumpy ( off and on) the big problem is one of the times i broke up with him was because he had lied to me about alot of stuff like drugs and going out to his friends houses and choosing to lie to me when he knows i don't care if he goes and see's and hangs out with his friends. Well the day i broke up with him he he tryed screwing my best friend who he had already slept with way before we started dating,Could this mean something? Iv takin him back because i do love him and im willing to work any thing out to be with him, but could that mean any thing? And does it sound like im fighting a loosing battle or trying to hard or what Does that mean maby he wants his old fling.... Im so lost some advice please....
2007-01-24 15:23:56 · 5 answers · asked by Sweetie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You already know the answer to what you have to do and what you are really involved in! There are guys...like the one you have....who see everything as an opportunity. Whether its sex, drugs or just plain fun! They don't care who they hurt, because most often times they choose people who don't have enough self respect for themselves to do anything about it....people like you!...and your friends! This guy doesn't want his old fling, he wants everything he can get!
Look...you already know what I am talking about. Its going to take you having enough self respect to let this parasite go! I can't blame this guy for doing anything to you after you read this.
Its your power to choose what you don't want in your life that will be the beginning of the rest of your life.
Don't waste another minute on this guy...he will not change!
But you can!
2007-01-24 15:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by CSnumber1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a pig and a guy. Any guy can cheat and lie, but a man is one who is above these things. I say get rid of the loser and look for a man. Not to be egotistic, but I am a man as I am loyal and respectful to my girlfriend. I maybe a little old fashioned, but I know where I stand and how I feel. Take care.
2007-01-24 15:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by Lee R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should dump him. I know you have feelings for him, but I have to say that it's very likely that he's just here to screw. So cut him off from your life before he causes you more pain. He doesn't deserve you, and you might as well find other guy friends to talk to and have fun. Maybe you could meet a guy who could actually love you. Or, at least be considerate and a gentleman. ;)
2007-01-24 15:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not do yourself a favor and stop being a doormat for this guy. His shabby treatment of you is a big indication that he really doesn't value you as much as you do him. Give yourself a chance to find someone who'll treat you like the princess you are!
2007-01-24 15:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by JADE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like a very unhealthy situation. A situation you need to let go of, unless of course you care nothing about yourself.
2007-01-24 15:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋