I like this guy but I don't know how to show him. I'm not very open, so I would be uncomfortable stating it right out in the open. What can I do to let him know I like him?
2007-01-24 15:53:53 · 9 answers · asked by sarah a 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just go talk to him
2007-01-24 15:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by rudyspuddin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best tip is take it slow, do NOT rush. I have personal experience with this. I am a girl, and my best friend was this guy named Elliott. We were amazing together. Then I started to crush on him. He noticed, and I started to rush things.. I told him I loved him & he freaked out. He hates me now.. hahaha he was my first REAL love. (: Anyway, I screwed up a relationship just because I rushed. Try texting her or IMing her or SOMETHING where you know no one will be around. Tell her you need to talk to her about something, and you can talk with her in person about it when she's ready. When you talk, say, "I want you to know that ______." The blank could be: I think you are beautiful, You are extremely smart, etc. Just mention something that you really like about her. If you aren't ready, don't rush. And, personally, I think nothing is cuter than I guy confessing his feelings for you. If I don't feel the same way, I typically say, "I don't feel the same way, but I would love to be friends. Can I have a hug?" And that's that. (: You could be extremely surprised. She could have been crushing on you for a long time too! Just be prepared... girls can be total bitches. GOOD LUCK!!! (:
2016-05-24 06:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to start a conversation about anything and become good friends. Then, begin flirting with him and give him hints. He should make the next move. If that's too hard just write a little note and give it to him for V-day.
2007-01-24 16:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by Papa Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not out in the open...in front of his friends and stuff. You're obviously real young, so write him a letter or text it to him. Guys don't require any kind of major production for this. A simple "Hey, I really, really like you"...will do.
2007-01-24 15:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would have a friend tell him to ask you out.bc girls do not ask boys out!!! Then you would also know a head of time. This might sound wrong to do but i do it all the time and that is how i get all the guys i do.
2007-01-24 16:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, the best way is to be open and honest about it and let him know how you feel. If he stares at you or you KNOW he finds you attractive just got up to him and KISS him, he'll love that.
2007-01-24 15:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by Unique Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has happened 2 me. i wrote him an e-mail (pathetic i know). i think u should go to him and have a normal conversation then get to the part where u like him like u could ask him out or something Good Luck!
2007-01-24 15:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by GaBbY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am the same way.
what i do is smile/glance @ him.
act the same i always do around my friends.
flirt -- twinkly eyes haha.(a little.. maybe like one time an encounter..)
try and just open up... talk to him:) (i know easier said then DONE!)
keep your head high.,, say hi in the halls or something... let him know who you are!
2007-01-24 16:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by Just Me. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actions speak louder than words - if you really like and care for someone, it'll show...and you can just tell him - speak from the heart.
2007-01-24 15:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋