Don't get me wrong, i love my mom. But when it comes to my senior year of highschool and my life that i have built here i do not want to move away from it. Assuming i could find a place to stay are there any options i could pursue to live on my own even if my mom forbids me to leave?
2007-01-24 15:57:31 · 15 answers · asked by mrwizard48044 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
nope
2007-01-24 16:01:24 · answer #1 · answered by rudyspuddin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your parents are trying to make it work out better with their situation that they are in, then moving is probably their only option.
Sit down with you mom and tell her how important this is to you to complete your senior year. Ask her, or your father if they can wait another year. But since you are still a minor and living under their care, then you might have to do what they say, and that is to move. Or, if they are reasonable parents, hopefully if you have an aunt or uncle that you can possibly stay with for a year or so, maybe you can finish school. Just make sure that you visit your parents when you can.
There is no way that you can live on your own with your age and without a job.
2007-01-24 16:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to consider why you're moving; if it's work-related, for instance, you're better off moving now than staying but having an out-of-work or underpaid mother.
At sixteen, you can't get an apartment lease, so your living options will be restricted to sharing rooms and whatnot. More importantly, the amount of time you spend doing all of the life-things that you take for granted now will destroy your personal life anyway.
Your best bet, I'm sad to say, is suck it up and move. On the plus side, there's a life waiting for you there as well.
2007-01-24 20:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you can call me insane then because I want to move my teenagers too.My own son is 15 1/2 and he has told us that he does not want to move. We want to move from Florida to Texas. His reasons are pretty much the same as yours. He is currently in ninth grade. Do you have brothers or sisters? In our family we feel that the greater good will be accomplished by moving to a place where we can afford to give our kids a nice home and better schools/colleges as well as more resources for my husband and daughter who are disabled.
Parents usually have valid reasons why they want to do things of this nature. I think that you should sit down and talk with your mom if you have not already. Ask her WHY she is so determined to move. You may be surprised at her responce.
As far as your moving out all I can say is don't do it. My seventeen year old recently left home because of a disagreement with her Dad and she hurt all of us by doing so. Please do not think that your mom will not be hurt if you decide to live on your own at sixteen. I wll always love my daughter but she pretty much ruined all the things that her Dad and I were looking forward to for her senior year and that really hurts. She has joined the army and is supposed to ship out in June and we were really wanting to just enjoy her last six monthes at home with us when she decided that the grass is greener in someone elses yard. If you love your mom do not do this to her because she does not deserve it.
2007-01-24 17:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by kdddavswife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is your dad in all this... If he is in the picture and living in the same town of where you could go to the same high school then tell her that if she moves you are going to stay with your dad... of maybe if you have grand parents who are willing to let you stay with them so you can finish your last year of high school... living on your own is not a good idea... that path would only lead you into some things that you really dont want to deal with... some in which could destroy your future... your dad is your best option right now...
2007-01-24 16:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by Autumns Destany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is your senior year! first show your mother you are mature enough to make this decision.... make sure you have and/or keep a decent enough job that could help you to offer a small stipent to the parents of a friend? talk to a close friend... and the parents of said friend... see if they would be up for the challenge of being "guardians" not where they have custody... but where they would be "in charge" able to sign you out of school if heaven forbid emergency arose? talk to your mother about it... don't just tell her you really feel strongly about finishing hs there.. show her by taking the steps to make it happen (maturely... parents like that) let her know even you would look into college (or job) up there for after you graduate.... that you have every intention of joining her up (down? over?) there....and also that you would email, IM, snail mail, call her etc... daily if she would like... and add in even that if your grades fall or are no good she and you would revisit the choice and whether or not you should then be pulled mid-year out of one to rejoin her?! I bet she would understand and has your best interests at heart.... thinking of leaving a child behind? handing over that senior year? is not one she would think of because of the responsibility to another person... love... wanting to share it..... etc... but? talk to her... tell her how you feel....there are always choices... some good, some poor... some we never think of.....
2007-01-24 16:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by elusive_001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The short answer is No -- you're stuck. If she were abusing you, you could talk to Child Protective Services, but I infer that that is not the case here. Conceivably you could go to court for a writ of emancipation, which would put you on your own, but you are not old enough to sign a contract, so you will be dependent on some adult for survival until you turn 18. On that happy day, school's out.
2007-01-24 16:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain you have a life here and its your last year which is important to you and you feel its best for you to stay. Just ask if you could stay with a relative or something. Its not full proof but its worth a shot to try, who knows it might work for you. Hope everything works out.
2007-01-24 16:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 15 years previous approximately to coach sixteen in some months so i grow to be questioning if i'm getting any rights as quickly as I turn sixteen ? What I propose is am i able to outlive my own or will the law enforcement officers rigidity me to stay with my mom ? i myself can't stay along with her anymore she treats me like valueless **** and that i comprehend what you adult males are going to declare... " you ought to attempt speaking to her approximately the way it makes you experience". yet issues do artwork that way for me she would not care and my dad would not care the two . they have made my entire existence depressing and constantly taken care of me diverse than my brothers. It made me so depressed and desperate that I even tried killing myself . issues are not any diverse now. I in basic terms ought to flee and do something it rather is sweet for me thank you for examining
2016-09-27 23:10:58 · answer #9 · answered by doolin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what state you live in. In some states, you can live on your own at 16 without legal emancipation or going through special procedures. it will be difficult, though, because then you have to provide for yourself financially.
2007-01-24 16:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope sorry ..... Y don't you just talk to her and let her know how you feel! Is there a Friend or family near by that you can stay with until you finish school?
2007-01-24 19:11:53 · answer #11 · answered by HaZeLeYeZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋