...erections.
Could we PLEASE put to bed (so to speak) the question of "how long".
I think the enlightened ladies of this venue will agree with me when I say IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW LONG YOUR ERECTION LASTS guys. It's what you do the rest of the time that counts.
Only my opinion of course. I enjoy sex the most when it untimed, unmeasured and unjudged.
When an erection happens, use it. But the rest of the time, touch, kiss, fondle, caress, and for god's sake PLAY! Sex is a game to be enjoyed, to allow the experiencing of eachother in an atmosfere of safe caring and respect.
Good sex means anything goes. Don't you realize what that can mean? Erections are incidental and only important as part of what you experience. So much to do, so much to enjoy with one another.
So, please, take the worry out with the garbage. Use your mouth, your hands and your mind.
Sisters say YAY?!? Any men already play this way?!? Lemme hear it for grown up sex!!
2007-01-24 16:04:24 · 6 answers · asked by Ande 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yay for you, SA writer! Just the spirit I was looking for.
2007-01-24 16:12:59 · update #1
A woman after my own heart...i say yay girl you are so right, and on the money here...i have a deep connection, so deep with my partner, our souls connect, our minds connect, and most definitely our bodies connect on every level, it is not about how long he can stay hard, it is so much more than that, we are not afraid to explore, and play with each others bodies to the utmost, no stone left unturned, to bring each other to ecstacy, our bodies become a tool to achieve it, that in truth takes us to another place that no one else can ever touch.... for once a question that truly stirrs the soul and stimulate the senses.
2007-01-24 22:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Every once in a while, it happens that the crane workers take the day off and there isn't any heavy lifting happening. It's disappointing but not a total downer. The best thing about my sex life is that I share it with someone that I love deeply. Not only that, but I find her to be a total fox. So if the equipment isn't working, I still have a lot of fun doing what makes her happy. After all, Her arousal is the biggest turn on that I've ever found.
2007-01-25 00:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by BRAINS! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I love this question!
You are correct...it doesn't matter how long it lasts, especially if it happens several times. There is so much more to making love then having intercourse. With the right partner you could go on for hours. I like that you call it sex play for adults. We all need to play more. This day and age everyone is so serious.
I say let's have a "play" date!!
2007-01-25 00:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by Say What? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well just to let you know I always play that way. Touching, licking, mouthing are all part of the act and in fact brings tons of pleasure for not only myself but the women I am with.
2007-01-25 02:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by divingonthemuff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well said. Sex is play for adults and I want to experiment with ALL the equipment on the playground. I have five senses and I try to use them all during sex play.
2007-01-25 00:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by SA Writer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An erection only matters if you're trying to get pregnant. Otherwise, if you're creative, it's not even necessary. Don't think your partner is timing it, either, especially if you have other ways to keep her busy.
2007-01-25 00:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋