Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

2007-01-23 04:44:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok so we only dated for 4 months. She is 22 I am 26. We fell in love as crazy as that sounds. We did fight alot because I got jealous over her behavior when she was out drinking. Lets just say she was a friendly drunk..never crossed the line into kissing other guys but would sit on laps and get really touchy. So anyways we broke up 2 weeks ago and we still talk everyday, she calls me and I call her. She says we broke up because she needed time to be single and figure out who she is and what makes her happy. She says she really loves me and misses me and feels like it was true love. I have asked her to promise to tell me if she kisses someone else or moves on. She agreed but thinks the request is weird and gets angry with me and says nothing is going to happen cause she dosnt want to be with anyone. Can I trust her to tell me? Also if she was so affectionate to other men when were together why wouldnt she be more so when we are not? Im just confused if I should trus her

2007-01-23 04:44:33 · 3 answers · asked by ajwpoet 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 04:43:46 · 16 answers · asked by josh 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother and I don't have the best relationship ever but we still talk and what not, and when I got engaged she offered to pay for the wedding and everything even for my dress. Well when it came down to me buying my dress she was nowhere to be found so now I have to buy that myself. I want to get this wedding planned already and she keeps saying that she needs more time to get money together. ( she has the money she makes more than enough ) Im not even wanted that big of a wedding but everytime I go to plan it she makes up excuses and I have to push the date back I have had to do this at least four times already. I just want to get married already. I know the grooms family pays for the alcohol but I don't want an open bar so should I ask my fiancee' to talk with his parents and see if they will help us out with some of it and us pay for some as well?? I REALLY NEED HELP WITH THIS. I just want to get married already and my mom is making things very hard on us.

2007-01-23 04:43:43 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Seriously...how can I get my man to not only give me more sex, but talk dirty to me right before and during sex??
I talk to him that way and he gets a smile but will not do it back, and when he tries his dirty talk is pretty lame and funny.

2007-01-23 04:43:39 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Laura♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 04:43:31 · 11 answers · asked by Brandon T 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend and her boyfriend are like the weather, one day they are so sweet and the other they are in a fight.. as a result, my friend always cries to me and rants...

i wasn't really minding it for she is my best friend.. but recently i've been on my wits end.. she knew that i have my mid-term exam on saturday 9am and she knows it's a major subject.. i also told her that i've been sleep deprived for the last three days... but then i received a call (sat, 4am) from her, sobbing and asking if she can come to my place.. i told her every excuse i could just to not let her come but still she did..

i just hate it that i'm always out of the picture when they are in good terms, but when problems arises i'm the one she bothers...

i just want to tell her that she's already being selfish, it's already being all about her... i have my own life too... but i'm afraid i'll hurt her badly because she's so emotional and takes things too personally and she can sometimes be narrow minded...

2007-01-23 04:42:42 · 2 answers · asked by wattawes 2 in Friends

When I am invited to stay over night at my friend's house, when I wake up the next morning, I'd tidy up the living room and do their dishes for them before they wake up.

They appreciate it though.

What does that say about me?

2007-01-23 04:42:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been married for 6+ years and have had sex with my husband less than 30 times. It has been more than 2 years since our last encounter and was over a year before that. I am feeling neglected and frustrated. I have tried discussing this with him, it is a difficult subject for him, but what he has told me is he just does not want to have sex with me. He has little or no idea (or desire) how to be intimate (this has plagued him in past relationships) and prefers to f*** vs. make love. So, I am questioning all kinds of things at this point. I don't believe I want to have sex with him any longer. I simply have no desire myself as it is not emotionally fufilling at all. I have been occupying my thoughts with fantasies with other men... they are at this point all that keeps me sane. I desperately want to be desired... to feel beautiful. I mean, should I waste the prime of my life being forced to please myself? Is this normal? Should I stay... or will I go crazy?

2007-01-23 04:42:02 · 30 answers · asked by tiredjenna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would a guy go for a heavier chick whose just as pretty as the skinnier ones if the heavier chick was easier to get along with and more fun to be around?And if the heavier one was ALOT nicer and the skinnier one was a big ol grouch?

2007-01-23 04:41:56 · 8 answers · asked by Baby<3Britt 4 in Singles & Dating

Do they assume I want a relationship because I take them home and we do the nasty. Babes need to live in the real world and not fantasy.

2007-01-23 04:41:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really don't want dark colors so I was thinking about maybe platinum or champagne colored dresses???? Does that go with a January wedding?

2007-01-23 04:41:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i am yet to find true love in life. how do you identify true love when you happen to come across it

2007-01-23 04:41:12 · 19 answers · asked by cool_dude 2 in Singles & Dating

what are her "duties" as her sisters maid of honor?

2007-01-23 04:40:57 · 14 answers · asked by suzycrmchz 3 in Weddings

I tricked my crush into admiting who he fancied, and even though it hurt me, I set him up with his crush, who is one of my best friends.

What about you?

2007-01-23 04:40:54 · 19 answers · asked by Live4Music 2 in Friends

Hooking up with the same singledads accused of being alcoholic, abusive, drug addicted, deadbeat dad, A$$HOLES?! Something is wrong with this picture.

2007-01-23 04:40:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The calendar was a private joke with a male co-worker. Company had 6 women, 35 men, and one male (company owner's pet kisser-upper) who claimed it was disgusting for a woman that age to have a male calendar displayed. 2/3 of the men had either calendars or pin-ups (very alluring). No one else had any complaints - thought he was ugly but a funny joke.

2007-01-23 04:40:13 · 10 answers · asked by Pancake 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

i talk to alot of people and can make friends easy but they turn out to be mean, not there when need it, but i will be there for them.

all i want is to make a good female friend it seem to be imposible.
with guys i have no problem.

Can u relate?

2007-01-23 04:40:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Your best friend is going to be your maid of honor. However, you don't know her fiance all THAT well.. but you know it would mean alot to her if he was there, regardless of the fact that it is YOUR wedding. I'd like to have him there, but would you invite him to the wedding, and if so, how? Thanks

2007-01-23 04:40:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

your bruvfa yeah he makes fun out of you coz you wanna buy some La Coste trainer..what would you do??????????i am so pissed

2007-01-23 04:39:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Any reason why majority of you that are not single always ask me "Do you have a gf" at the start of a conversation?Thanks a lot

2007-01-23 04:38:28 · 14 answers · asked by spiritualism0 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 04:38:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 04:37:40 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please be specific.

Like, guys and girls might need and appreciate different things to feel loved. What things does a guy need?

A girl needs lots of affection, genuine compliments, support, trust....to feel loved (just named a few)...

2007-01-23 04:37:26 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

my gyno was takin all these pictures he claims for tests and observation etc.

but he took pictures of my privat for like a half hour and looked at it....

2007-01-23 04:37:07 · 6 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

all these guys and girls at my skool always call me a slut and i dont do nethin to be called that...im not even a slut but thats the ionly name they can call me...so what should i say when the gurlz call me a slut and what shuld i say when the guyz call me a slutt??

2007-01-23 04:36:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I have a twin sister, and a sister that is 8 years older than us. When my twin and I were 7 years old (we are 25 now) we found our older sister's birth certificate and some other documents - which did not have our dad's name listed as the father. My twin and I kept it a secret all this time because we didn't know if our sister even knew that we had different dads. Since then we have found out (from our older sister) that not only she knows, but every single member of our family & extended family know, and my parents fabricated this huge lie for them to all tell us regarding why they waitied until my older sister was 4 to be married. So, our sister has felt like the big family secret all this time, and everyone in the family thinks that my twin and I do not know. I need help in figuring out how to break it to my parents. We feel like we need to tell them it is ok, we are not mad, but why did they do it. How how how to put it into words??? Pls no mean or hurtful comments.

2007-01-23 04:36:37 · 15 answers · asked by LG 3 in Family

theres a girl in my school who i am realy good friends with but recently ive been having feelings for her. but i dont know if shes the girl for me. we have alot in common and shes realy nice but she hangs around with alot of other boys that i dont like. also, last few times i asked her to go out ( as friends ) she made up some excuss. waht should i do?

2007-01-23 04:36:02 · 8 answers · asked by mr happy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 04:35:30 · 10 answers · asked by Brooke M 1 in Weddings

My dad died in a tragic car accident and it is really hard to move on. I know where he is (in Heaven) but it's so hard

2007-01-23 04:35:22 · 27 answers · asked by Just me 2 in Family