theres a girl in my school who i am realy good friends with but recently ive been having feelings for her. but i dont know if shes the girl for me. we have alot in common and shes realy nice but she hangs around with alot of other boys that i dont like. also, last few times i asked her to go out ( as friends ) she made up some excuss. waht should i do?
2007-01-23 04:36:02 · 8 answers · asked by mr happy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello, don't know what your age is but there is plenty of time to find the girl who is for you. "you can't win the lottery if you don't buy the ticket" in other words you will not know if she's the girl for you if you guys never go out.
How do you know she made up an excuse not to hang out with you? And, if she did ask why she did that. Tell her how you feel about her but be prepared for rejection as well, being prepared for rejection will enable you to move on even though difficult, since she's your real good friend she will consider how whatever she says makes you feel.
Good luck
I hope things work out for you
2007-01-23 04:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by dymps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've asked her out in a hesitant manner then she will take this as meaning you're not really serious about her. Tell her how you really feel and ask her to go out with you as a real date one last time. A romantic gesture (some nice flowers) would also help. If she turns you down again, then leave it and move on.
Best of luck.
2007-01-23 05:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by Doodle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more fish in the sea,babe.She could be doing you a favor.Sometimes what we see on the outside is not always as pleasant on the inside.I am speaking medaforacly of course.Start going to a good church and join there youth ministry and meet your self a nice girl that has purpose in her life.Not one that hangs out with a bunch of guys.
2007-01-23 04:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by Susanna W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to just continue to be friends with her and that's all. She may just not think of you as that and that's all. She may just not be attracted to you or she could be afraid that if you guys started a relationship that if it didn't work out, she'll lose you as a freind. Don't risk it.
2007-01-23 04:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by Babydoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to here about mate, but maybe she just wants to be friends and noting more, think its time you step back from been her friend for awhile beacuse it will only hurt, and maybe as you do so she will see what shes messing out on
2007-01-23 04:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by laura m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up on her,she don't fancy you because you ask questions like this
2007-01-23 04:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by superfurrymuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the hint,and move on.
2007-01-23 04:41:03 · answer #7 · answered by EveretteDavid 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is a popular girl, so get in there before someone snaps her up....
2007-01-23 04:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋