Ok so we only dated for 4 months. She is 22 I am 26. We fell in love as crazy as that sounds. We did fight alot because I got jealous over her behavior when she was out drinking. Lets just say she was a friendly drunk..never crossed the line into kissing other guys but would sit on laps and get really touchy. So anyways we broke up 2 weeks ago and we still talk everyday, she calls me and I call her. She says we broke up because she needed time to be single and figure out who she is and what makes her happy. She says she really loves me and misses me and feels like it was true love. I have asked her to promise to tell me if she kisses someone else or moves on. She agreed but thinks the request is weird and gets angry with me and says nothing is going to happen cause she dosnt want to be with anyone. Can I trust her to tell me? Also if she was so affectionate to other men when were together why wouldnt she be more so when we are not? Im just confused if I should trus her
2007-01-23 04:44:33 · 3 answers · asked by ajwpoet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok i know she wants to see other people..im not dumb i saw that one...she says she dosnt want another relationship, i know basically it means she wants to be free to hook up and not feel like a slut...question is will she really respect me enough to tell me if she still loves me enough to cry about our breakup
2007-01-23 04:58:28 · update #1
Listen dear, she's playing you! If you find someone who really loves you, you won't be jealous b/c she won't be doing those things you mentioned, ie 'the friendly drunk.' Does all of that in between stuff really matter? Don't waste the best years of your life being her stand by. Move on, and when you find that someone, you'll see the difference in 'LOVE' and whatever it is she's doing.
Best wishes.
2007-01-23 09:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the truth......she wants to see other people! Im sorry Im a woman and I have used that line "I need to find myself" 2 times before but what it really means is I wanted to have sex with other people. Good Luck!
2007-01-23 04:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by nashvillekat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do what u feel
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2007-01-23 04:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋