Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

I recently started being friend with a girl i met through my bestfriend's sister. She seemed really nice, and funny, and trustworthy. I have learned though, that she is not as honest as I thought she was.

She tells a lot of lies, and when my best friend and I catch her in them, we confront her about it. She says sorry, that she'll never do it again.

I have told her that I do not drink. I do not want her to try and involve me in her drinking.

Then over this past weekend she kept trying to tell me that it wasnt that big of a deal if she drank. I told her I wanted her to stop because I was concerned about her. I asked her why she never asked my best friend ( her friend too) to drink with her? She said:
"Because you're easily minipulated"

Her dad has a drinking problem, and her mom just does care.

I dont get anything out of the realtionship. She lies to me all the time, and I feel like a bad person if i end the relationship b/c i feel like she needs someone in her life

2007-01-23 13:16:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okay so this guy right he used to like me before. And then i didn't like him, but then he changed schools so we didn't see each other for 1 year. Recently I just visited his school and I saw him and his friends come up to me and say 'are you his girlfriend?' And the thing is I don't know if he likes me or not anymore I think he still does and I kinda like him but I don't think he really likes me but everyone at his school say he does. So does he like me becuz his friends and a couple of my friends over there told me he used to like me and then stopped and now he does again. So does he like me still? I don't think he does but then again I think he does. I'm not sure. And I really need some serious answers please and don't scold me becuz it's not your job. So thank you for taking time to read this! Please help!

2007-01-23 13:16:05 · 4 answers · asked by chihibiya 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-23 13:16:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last night i told my first love the following "Can we talk? I just want to say sorry.., Sorry for texting you while i was with another girl... Sorry for trying to make you jealous but in he process i was hurting you. I know that you know i love you. but due time i will tell if this is true love. I also want to let you know, i don't want to interfer with you and (her boyfriend name) relationship and if i have than I'm sorry. The necklace , the flowers wasn't to buy your love, it was to show you my love.. my love for you.... Then she replies back by saying "You didn't hurt me.. thats all i have to say about that." o been very sad for the last 14 hours.. i seen her during school and had no words to say, not even "hi". Is she telling me at the same time she doesn't like me? Also should i just move on with the rest of my life

2007-01-23 13:15:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex husband has a girlfriend who still contacts her ex boyfriend and begs him to come back to her. But my ex is too blind to notice this and it is screwing my life up. The longer she doesnt get what she wants the more she makes my life miserable. Someone has to pay for her misery and It is me. So how do I get him to realize she is putting him in a financial bind and just using him to have a warm body to sleep with at night??? Help? It effects our children as well. I dont want him back but I do want my children to be happy. If he is happy they are happy.

2007-01-23 13:15:39 · 2 answers · asked by ...... ....... 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

their girlfriends hug them and if they call them. and they talk for an hour? im just curious.

2007-01-23 13:13:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Omg i have a huge crush on one of my best friends i think plz help?


ok so this guy's name is drew and at least for a while we were rly good friends. basically he's every girls friends i asked him ounce he said he didn't wanna like anyone coz he wouldn't be able to go like (he put his arm around me)... and now, months later, i have a huge crush on him. hes not rly a nerd, coz he's rLy hot, but hes not the coolest guy ever. and im kinda in the same situation..... i can't figure out if he even a tiny bit likes me or not coz theres so many different things, like from time to time well exchange a long glance, or have a very strange out o the blue conversation, but im rly confused............ if any one cen give me a hint id appreciate it and if i should ask him out and how.... thanks so much love yall

2007-01-23 13:13:36 · 1 answers · asked by Lalilalila<3 3 in Singles & Dating

I had a very serious relationship, but it ended for no reason. I am always so sweet and caring and nice, and no1 likes that. What am I doing wrong? I've tried so hard to find someone who's right, but something's always wrong. Any advice?

2007-01-23 13:13:15 · 9 answers · asked by Chey 3 in Singles & Dating

well this guy i like just transfered into a class of mine...of course its gym.Well we ((as in my friends ))talked 2 him and he was like talking about how we have 2 run a mile in gym wed. and that he will be on fire....well im not much of a runner and i think i may embarrass myself when i run befcasue i dont run that long and we have 2 do ten laps around and they will be timed so wht do i do 2 help my running better....BY TOMMORROW!!!!and by the way........im on a diet too so this will help me lose weight 4 tennis...so yeah!!PLEASE HELP ME NOT TO MAKE A FOOL OF MYSELF!!

2007-01-23 13:13:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need answers fast

2007-01-23 13:13:09 · 27 answers · asked by Janai A 1 in Friends

2007-01-23 13:13:06 · 23 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How soon before the actual wedding should the bride have a bachelorette party?

2007-01-23 13:12:24 · 13 answers · asked by >>Ascher<< 3 in Weddings

I am personally addressing them, but wanted to know if I should write Mr. John Smith and Guest or just Mr. John Smith. I am inviting guests if someone doesnt have a significant other, as I think its rude not too. Also, should I just use normal hand writing or calligraphy? Im not a master at calligraphy, far from it, but I am trying. Thanks for everyones help in advance.

2007-01-23 13:11:55 · 9 answers · asked by michaellandonsmommy 6 in Weddings

I am a decent looking guy, but in the past 4-5 years I have gained about 50lbs. I am 5'10" and I used to weigh about 185 but I am now close to 250.

When I was in high school and college I did alot of dating and never had problems getting almost any girl to date me. Since I have gained weight, my dating life has pretty much been non-existent.

Everywhere I go, I hear women dump on guys for being shallow and caring so much about a girl's physical appearance, but from my personal experience and the situation I am in I would say they care as much if not more than guys do about the physical aspects of their mate.

What's the general consesis? Would you date a slightly over weight guy as long as he still took care of himself in every other aspect? or does shallow know no gender barriers?

2007-01-23 13:11:38 · 17 answers · asked by bmblack34 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a boy who flirts with everyone. He put his arm around me today (not very serious) and told a girl that he loved her in a note (also not serious) to cut to the chase, he flirts with all the girls.

The problem is: I like him. Thanks to my friends, he knows. He hasn't treated me any different.

How do I find out who is truely likes?

2007-01-23 13:10:09 · 7 answers · asked by jaguargrrl27 1 in Singles & Dating

He cannot go even a day with out smoking weed. He becomes extremely irritable when he can't smoke it...and spends a lot of his paycheck on it. I am beside myself, and I am considering dumping him. I really don't know his `real' personality..he seems to always be `stoned'

2007-01-23 13:09:53 · 20 answers · asked by dezignchick 1 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you mother wanted you to take your brother into your home to live? What would you do and what would you say?

2007-01-23 13:09:50 · 9 answers · asked by Guess Who 2 in Family

i like this one woman alot...and she digs poetry...so how about you helping me by posting a love poem on here that i can use...all donations will be much appreciated...

2007-01-23 13:09:41 · 10 answers · asked by roobeng.indahouse 3 in Singles & Dating

Have u ever fallen in LOVE with someone in the net.....?

2007-01-23 13:08:53 · 4 answers · asked by naafraat 4 in Singles & Dating

I really can stand this lady, how I can make him believe that I dont care about her? She likes to be on my way.

2007-01-23 13:08:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-23 13:08:27 · 6 answers · asked by kewtber 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I live in alberta, canada and my sister live with my mother. my mother is planning on moving to the west coast to marry someone she barely knows and dragging my sister along for the ride. the guy lives in a trailer and has a 19 year old son at home. they live in an incredibly small town with barely any people. i haven't even met them. my sister does not want to go. she is 14. can she come and live with me? if my mom tries to stop her, what can i do?

2007-01-23 13:07:46 · 9 answers · asked by rainbow 1 in Family

2007-01-23 13:06:56 · 18 answers · asked by maverick 1 in Weddings

How can i get over someone who doesn't like me back? :(

2007-01-23 13:05:53 · 15 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Singles & Dating

Its my sisters name

2007-01-23 13:05:34 · 1 answers · asked by Melody c 1 in Friends

This isnt the first time it has happened and I have finally accepted that its just not repairable. She has no remorse, and acts as if her actions were justified.
I have tried at first to forgive and forget but my insticnts told me she was still messing around. She claims it was nothing physical, but has been proven to be such I liar, how am I expected to beleive that.
This is not the first time she has done this, but its the first time I got proof.
I have been all over her case, and I cant control myself. I feel in my gut she is up to no good, she has changed her passwords, will not let me see the buisness checking account that has been funding her adventures.
Should I expect to be able to see these things, in order to save this mess or just give up on this.
I have been married over 20 years, and accepting this change coming has been the hardest part.
There are major financial repurcutions to also condsider. Just looking for advice on how I can get through this mess.
TIA

2007-01-23 13:05:20 · 18 answers · asked by dr68 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, here is what I look like
Hair: Blond, 3 in. past shoulder-length
Face: Slightly large jaw, slightly large lower lip, narrow upper lip, I put on clear lip gloss
Height: 5'1
Weight: 72 lb
Others: Contacts, a bit of acne, and a serious love for chocolate

Please say whether I'm a yes, no or maybe, and BE HONEST!!!!!! Also, add lots of comments!

2007-01-23 13:05:03 · 13 answers · asked by Unowen 3 in Singles & Dating

There was an event in my daughters life that is best left in the know of a few people. However my daughter's mother in law assumed the responiblity of passing on information, that my daugther perfered to keep private and to just close family memebrs on a need to know basis, to my grandson's school, other family members and her work colligates. She then made rude comments along with a sister in law and a few others that had no need to know and do not know the facts first hand of the situation. The mother in law was only given this privy to the matter out of need to know and assuming she would excercise disscretion. What should my daughter do to let the mother in law know it was wrong and to mind her own business in the future? Is there a to the point poem I can send this person???

2007-01-23 13:04:45 · 6 answers · asked by jan 1 in Family

I really like this boy. He is also 12. how do I get him to like me and once he likes me, how do I ask him out?

2007-01-23 13:04:42 · 5 answers · asked by sarah M 1 in Friends

I left my husband....he has been cheating for the majority of our marriage.. There are days I'm fine and then days like this when I'm angry and lost. He still continues to see one of the chicks he tricked off with and they hang around ppl we know like they have done nothing wrong. She is also married and still with her husband. Her husband is also doing his thing. I have our child and I'm basically doing this parent thing alone. He has every other weekend, still has the apartment and I'm staying with my moms. The one enjoyment I had I'm not even supposed to have (another man...after I left my husband). So now that's gone. I've done nothing to deserve this and I'm so angry and sad. I'm starting to dislike my husband. I know to move on but I just wish there was something I can do to make this transition easier. I guess there is nothing to answer. I just needed to vent!

2007-01-23 13:04:32 · 17 answers · asked by Lady 2 in Marriage & Divorce