He cannot go even a day with out smoking weed. He becomes extremely irritable when he can't smoke it...and spends a lot of his paycheck on it. I am beside myself, and I am considering dumping him. I really don't know his `real' personality..he seems to always be `stoned'
2007-01-23 13:09:53 · 20 answers · asked by dezignchick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need a real man like me, that's what you need. I don't do any drugs.
2007-01-23 13:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by Trick of the Tail 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump him. He is doing something illegal and putting not only himself in jeopardy with the law, but you. Also, he is irresponsible with his paycheck, and that speaks volumes as to how he would look after you, especially in a marriage. If his personality is "always stoned", then that means he's not capable of making rational decisions. I think he will make a fine convict. Find a better boyfriend, this one is a loser.
Best to you!
2007-01-23 19:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by C J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the STONER and find you a good man. Dont waste anymore time on this loser. If he depends on dope to make it through the day, its only gonna get worse. Think about what you want, and dump his butt. Just look at it this way, it wont hurt him too much.....he will just roll up another one and toke his pain away. What a loser. Dump the zero and get u a Hero girl. Pardon the cleche. good luck.
2007-01-23 13:16:17 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
considering? honey, dump him ... he'll either wake up or smoke up... the only difference will be that you aren't there.
is this the life you want for yourself? is this the person you can see yourself being a father to your (future) children? ask the BIG questions and you'll always find your own answers.
all the best..
2007-01-23 13:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by swilkes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he cares about you, he will work towards fixing a problem that is destroying your relationship and if he is unwilling to do so, dump him because if he cares more about weed than you, you deserve a hell of a lot better.
2007-01-23 13:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your instincts are right. I've been a "stoner", and it took "an act of God" to break me out of it. Chance are VERY good if he isn't doing harder drugs yet, he will. Especially when he can't find weed. You can't save him, he must make that decision on his own. My advice is find someone w/o a drug problem.
2007-01-23 13:17:54 · answer #6 · answered by Justus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. If you get caught with him and there is weed in the car, and he claims it's not his, you could be arrested for possession. He's not worth it.
2007-01-23 13:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by GENE D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do much about what he chooses to do. It will only get worse, if he doesn't want to change. Is that what you want for yourself? If you aren't in too deep, then distance yourself from him. Tell him how you feel without shouting etc first though.
2007-01-23 13:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend has a real problem, leave him well you can. he may say he'll never do anything else but it always leads the harder stuff. don't think about it just dump his ***!!!
2007-01-23 13:20:03 · answer #9 · answered by dthsmx5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him or tell him to get off the dope for u and if he doesnt then he wuld rather hav the drug than u so dump his *** if he wont quit
2007-01-23 13:14:53 · answer #10 · answered by soccer playa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a waste case. He'll just bring you down. Find a man thats addicted to you instead.
2007-01-23 13:13:57 · answer #11 · answered by Darktania 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋