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their girlfriends hug them and if they call them. and they talk for an hour? im just curious.

2007-01-23 13:13:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

i asked this because i reallly like my bf and i called him tonight, and i am very afraid to lose him, i kind of want to know what makes guys break up with girls and what he would get annoyied at if i did it?

2007-01-23 13:21:01 · update #1

one more thing, i think, when i hug him he doesnt really hug me back but, he usually has stuff in his hands.

2007-01-23 13:23:51 · update #2

ps. I am SOOO excited i got to him before he got his stuff from his locker and he hugged me back!!!

2007-01-24 09:38:41 · update #3

13 answers

Hugging: I think that any person that you're with ought to be receptive to your affection. If you show a normal amount of affection, I think it ought to be returned to you. Now, if you're entirely too clingy, I can see that getting on someones nerves after awhile, so be careful about that. But all in all, if you have someone who rejects your affection, you might want to reconsider having a relationship with that person.

Calling on phone: It depends on the personality of who you are dating. Some people who are more outgoing will more than likely want to deal with you face to face. Some people who are more reserved and shy might do better on the phone. The length of the conversation depends on whether that person really likes being on the phone or not. Don't take it personal if a person doesn't like long phone conversations. It's not telling you that they don't want to talk to you, so don't read into it. They may just be a more "face to face" kind of person. Keep your phone call lengths reasonable. And definitely don't be the "call every hour" type. That'll wear a relationship out quick!

Best to you!

2007-01-23 19:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by C J 6 · 1 0

No. Why should boys get annoyed? Hugging is such a wonderful show of ones affection. It spreads love in a beautiful way. Talking for an hour ; well that can get a little irritating. Half an hour is okay.
Hugging a lonely person can reduce a lot of the insecurities that the person maybe going through. Guys should not annoyed when girls hug them/call them ; rather they should respond with feelings of joy, happiness and love.

2007-01-23 23:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by SidBridge 6 · 0 0

YES! Most men don't want to hug nearly as much as most women do. And most men don't want to stay on the phone as long as most women do. There's nothing wrong with that. It's just the way people tend to be. So women should not feel hurt or rejected or suspect a problem if a man doesn't want to hug all the time and talk on the phone forever. And a man who wants to stop hugging and stop talking on the phone should just say so, and probably also say that it's nothing personal, nothing's wrong, it's just the way men are.

2007-01-23 21:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by DustNik 2 · 0 0

They don't get very annoyed when their girlfriends hug them. If you call them and talk to them for a really long time, and they want to leave, they are either suddenly shy because of a mistake they made, or they say they "have to leave" because they want you to be more interested in them.

2007-01-23 22:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by raymondzhao3000 1 · 0 0

my gf does it all the time and i love it but only if i have time otherwise i gently tell her i m busy....depends how much in love u r and how busy u are....sometimes u r just busy or dont feel like talking..girls should understand that....not talking for an hour does not mean he does not love u....love is above that

2007-01-23 21:19:13 · answer #5 · answered by fmelahi 1 · 1 0

We like it, but don't like to get smother too much be on the alert if he mentions something to you then back off a little.

2007-01-23 21:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You take the "Stuff" from his hands

It wil make him very happy

2007-01-23 21:51:00 · answer #7 · answered by sheetal501 2 · 0 0

ummmm.. no I wouldnt unless my gf called me and there was nothing to talk about
i think he would like you hugging him most guys do he wouldnt only if you didnt fit in with his freinds like if they were satanics and you werent unless you were freinds with his freinds then he would like it

2007-01-23 21:26:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

when women put to much pressure of her own thoughts

2007-01-23 21:18:31 · answer #9 · answered by ib_kahloon 1 · 0 0

yes! my bf that i was with got mad at his friend for talking to me more then i talked ot him!

2007-01-23 21:17:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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