Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

She sits on the chair at the computer wearing no pants and sometimes she leaves stains on it, if you know what I mean. How should I approach her about this, or should I even bring it up?

2007-01-23 12:47:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a guy broke up with me aftere dating for 10 months because he was cheating and gotten another woman pregnant. He told me he was in love with her, and he wasn't in love with me anymore. We had a cell phone plan together and he still decides to keep me on his plan and continue to pay my cell phone bill. I asked him to come and get his things from my house and he comes and we end up having sex. He told me after he felt guilty because he didn't want to hurt me again. He came by the next day totalk and it ended up happening again, but he still tells me he loves me and care about me. What am i suppose to think when he tells me he is happy with his pregnant girlfriend? but still tells me things like this? Is he really happy or he just saying that? What am i suppose to do?

2007-01-23 12:47:39 · 30 answers · asked by carey 1 in Singles & Dating

this pic is from awhile ago but do u think he is ugly or hot

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2007-01-23 12:47:04 · 13 answers · asked by zzzzzzzz 1 in Singles & Dating

Once upon a time, there was once a guy who was very much in love with this girl. This romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces of papercranes as a gift to his girl. Although, at that time he was just a small executive in his company, his future doesn't seemed too bright, they were very happy together. Until one day, his girl told him she was going to Paris and will never come back. She also told him that she cannot visualise any future for the both of them, so let's go their own ways there and then... heartbroken, the guy agreed.

When he regained his confidence, he worked hard day and night, slogging his body and mind just to make something out of himself. Finally with all these hardwork and with the help of friends, this guy had set up his own company...

"You never fail until you stop trying." he always told himself. "I must make it in life!"
One rainy day, while this guy was driving, he saw an elderly couple sharing an umbrella in the rain walking to some destination. Even with the umbrella, they were still drenched. It didn't take him long to realise those were his ex-girlfriend's parents. With a heart in getting back at them, he drove slowly beside the couple, wanting them to spot him in his luxury sedan. He wanted them to know that he wasn't the same anymore, he had his own company, car, condo, etc. He had made it in life!

Before the guy can realise, the couple was walking towards a cemetary,and he got out of his car and followed them...and he saw his ex-girlfriend, a photograph of her smiling sweetly as ever at him from her tombstone... and he saw his precious papercranes in a bottle placed beside her tomb. Her parents saw him. He walked over and asked them why this had happened. They explained, she did not leave for France at all. She was stricken ill with cancer. In her heart, she had believed that he will make it someday, but she did not want her illness to be his obstacle ... therefore she had chosen to leave him.

She had wanted her parents to put his papercranes beside her, because, if the day comes when fate brings him to her again he can take some of those back with him. The guy just wept ...the worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them but knowing you can't have them and will never see them again.
The End."

A tragic story that perhaps happens only in the movies. At the end of the day, money is money is money but love is divine. In our quest for our material wealth, take time to make time for our loved ones. There will be a time when we have only memories to cling to.
Take this weekend to show our "love" to all that are close to us.

2007-01-23 12:46:30 · 1 answers · asked by Leandro 2 in Singles & Dating

i mean u would be be best friends with somebody for like 4 years than they find a different friend and its like u dont even existed all of a sudden ur the 'backup friend'. or u think ur somebodys friend than u hear them say ur an ugly beyoch behind ur back. or theres a guy 2 or more girls r crushing on and its like every woman for herself. and they will do anything to ( including totally trashing her friend just to get wat she wants.Why????????????

2007-01-23 12:46:06 · 15 answers · asked by unlucky bubblegu^^ 1 in Friends

2007-01-23 12:45:30 · 7 answers · asked by DIANE M 1 in Friends

this girl likes the same guy io do and i was going out with the guy the girl said she was going to gang up on me me and my bf broke up case of that

2007-01-23 12:44:40 · 1 answers · asked by TEIRRA 4 in Singles & Dating

ok so this boy i have been going out wiht since 7th grade and im in 9th. so like anyways i like really love him and not just that puppy love **** that alot of ppl say it si i mean iwe really love each other and like he is always talkin about how he wants to marry me and wants to have kids with me etc..... well like sometimes i will get mad at him and we get into arguments and like well i was up at the store the other day and like i cussed out one of his friends cuz he said sumthing to me n like then my bf came up to me an asked y i wanst tlkin to him then i was like cuz u dint even tell your friend to stop sayin crap to me then i walked off and like he called me later that day an apologized and stuff so is it ok for ppl that love each other to argue sometimes? and sometimes i feel to controlling over him cuz like he does something and ill be like dont do it agian cuz like i think it is best for him and stuff..... so does that sound to controlling?

2007-01-23 12:43:38 · 8 answers · asked by leslie vaughn 1 in Singles & Dating

hi all, my ex boyfriend we a still friends but dont hang out only talk when we see each other, i still have feelings for him even though he dumped me b/c not ready for realtionship. so i let it be & continued to enjoy me life as u do.. but when we bump into each other, we talk which is good that we can remain friends, but when a girl he does not know walks by he turns his back an flirts with her.. in front of me i dont know weither it's to get me jelous & see if i show any jelousy, i didnt do anything i just ignored it.. but just wonder why?? i care for him & always remember the special times we had..but the is very reserved with me.... he stears alot when i dont make an effort and trys to get my attention to move closer where I am standing.... i would never hurt or make him jelous especially infront of him... b/c i respect him sooo much... why cant he just flirt with her not infront of me, even though he is an ex...?? what's the deal???

2007-01-23 12:43:30 · 4 answers · asked by hi 1 in Singles & Dating

my friends ( 3-5) say i am a likeable person, i am a teen and i am not a pouploular boy i am a good student and like this girl who i think likes me. Is is good to be pouplar,it makes me so sad when i am the last one picked in p.e and parneer work . Help

sadly sammy :(

2007-01-23 12:42:44 · 1 answers · asked by Sammyo 2 in Friends

2007-01-23 12:42:30 · 10 answers · asked by karen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy and we have been flirting with eachother for a while. I am 37 years old and he is 29 years old. I am sure it doens't think I am that much older, but do you think it would bother you if you liked someone and found out there age?

2007-01-23 12:42:29 · 12 answers · asked by Leema 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A couple of old grand parent with many grand children declared divorced, is it sensible meaning?

2007-01-23 12:41:23 · 3 answers · asked by ELGINKOH 2 in Marriage & Divorce

For me, a good friend is someone who will always be there for you ... no matter what;
someone who likes you for who you are & doesn't try to change or control you;
A good friend can be trusted and is honest, but not in a mean or hurtful way;
A good friend is someone who makes you feel good about yourself and life in general;
What is a good friend to you?
Do you have a best friend? .... Stories of how you met your best friend?

Serious, thoughtful answers only please ... I have a specific reason for asking, and a specific need for your answers. Thanks.

2007-01-23 12:41:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

..for a date?

2007-01-23 12:41:05 · 6 answers · asked by raydeeo_face 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm currently beginning a very promising and enjoyable career as a legislative assistant and legal attaché in the Institute for Legislative Action [ILA], the legal and political wing of the NRA. I believe that the actions of the NRA/ILA, and to a small degree my personal actions, help to ensure the protection of the Second Amendment Civil Rights of all Americans.

However, I have found that if a girl I am attempting to ask on a date inquires into what I do for a living, and I answer her honestly, she will usually loose interest.

I was wondering if should either continue to be honest and hope to find someone is not bothered by the fact that I fight for the civil rights of all Americans, a strategy which has yet to work, or if I should be less then perfectly honest about my career, possibly mentioning only that I work for a lobbying/legal defense firm, and then reveal the truth after a girl has gotten to know me???

Thank you in advance for any advice.

2007-01-23 12:41:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been together for less than a month. My friends and other people at my school are the only one who knows about our relationship and not my family at all. My family doesnt even see me because I commute with a bus when i go to my school (about 30 minutes from my house and my college is in a different state). Moreover, my family doesnt know about my friends because they never see and meet them at all (not like in high school in which we are all in the same town so my parents can see and meet them) Do you think is it ok to hide our relationship for a while and reveal it to my parents few months before I graduate college next year? My parents are not that strict to me except regarding relationships....i think they dont want me to have a girlfriend for a while until i finished college because they told me I can do whatever I want when I graduate. What do you think? any comments?

2007-01-23 12:40:15 · 4 answers · asked by Clarom087 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm planning a 1950's wedding but am having trouble envisioning what it will be like. I don't want it to be about juke boxes, poodle skirts, and music notes. I'd like something a little more formal but can't figure out what. Does anyone have any ideas for:

1. Decorations
2. Favors
3. Music source - record player, dj, CD player hidden beneath table, ect.

2007-01-23 12:39:09 · 3 answers · asked by Galoshes 3 in Weddings

could I clean your shoes when you get back?

2007-01-23 12:38:33 · 7 answers · asked by docile_fool 1 in Singles & Dating

Just curious if anyone has ever had an affair and it helped the marriage?

2007-01-23 12:38:16 · 13 answers · asked by Leema 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a friend who is filing for divorce and has 4 kids. if she has joint custody with the military father having physical custody and the divorce decree says he cant leave with the kids from the state of fl can the military orders to go to another state or country override the divorce decree? she wants the divorce but wants to remain in the same town as them? she is very scared he will try some humanitarian thing ang get the ok to leave the state with them. i say as long as its in the decree he cant, he cant unless the judge changes it and gives permission. any suggestions?

2007-01-23 12:38:03 · 5 answers · asked by panamacitycwboy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance has graduated college already and i am supposed to graduate this year.My bf has however made the choice to leave his job because he wants to be an ultimate fighter?How can i support him and gently urge him to keep a day job? I still dont fully understand him?

2007-01-23 12:37:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

...I have blonde long hair..shiney, blue eyes, nice, cute, sexy, long legs (not hairy). Tall (but not to tall) guys should b taller then gurls, nice straight theeth, big boobs,tight pussy, not hairy ewwww, tall about 5" 7 i work at a striper club, im 23 years old. i hgave small feet, single and no kids, thats all please tell me what u think b honest

2007-01-23 12:36:21 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ever date a 16year old satanist that is really cool and doesnt involve religion in anything and is really loving

2007-01-23 12:35:38 · 45 answers · asked by bloody illusions 2 in Singles & Dating

P.S. She does'nt like the color PINK!!

2007-01-23 12:35:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-23 12:34:45 · 6 answers · asked by SEXY MAMA 1 in Singles & Dating

As a guy with a 5 inch erection I'm wondering if these stories of 10 inch penises are real. Do women actually prefer that ... do they even exist outside of porno? At 21 is a guy supposed to be that big or soemthing.. I'm confused ... What do I do with 5 inches?

2007-01-23 12:34:36 · 13 answers · asked by mikykinsABC 1 in Singles & Dating

I drive to my boyfriends house EVERYTIME we see eachother, unless it's a holiday...then he comes over. He doesnt have any good reason not to come over...he just...doesnt. My parents wonder if he even likes them! And they wonder why he's never around? And why I have to drive to his house everyday. What would you think or do about that situation?

2007-01-23 12:34:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Wouldnt it make you feel like "Wow, I must not be fun enough" or "I wonder why he has to do that before he sees the love of his life?" or "Am I that stressful that he needs to relax before I come over?" or SOMETHING. What is the deal? What would YOU think about that?

2007-01-23 12:32:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When my boyfriend and I hang out together or with a small group of friends, we always have a lovely time. However, when we're at school, I feel neglected. He hardly ever talks to me (even though we sit next to one another in a class) and we've never so much as held hands in school. I want to bring it up to him, but I feel like that would make me come across as an attention-seeking brat of a girlfriend, because most of my guy friends complain when things like that come up. My friends tell me that my situation just isn't normal, though. We see each other in the hallway and don't even stop to say hello, just occasionally wave, and sometimes not even that, and it really bothers me. Is there an acceptable way to bring this up without making the solution feel as crappy as the problem? (I feel like if I mention it, any effort that he makes to fix the issue will just seem fake and meaningless to me, because he's just doing it since I said something, not because he wants to).

2007-01-23 12:32:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating