ok so this boy i have been going out wiht since 7th grade and im in 9th. so like anyways i like really love him and not just that puppy love **** that alot of ppl say it si i mean iwe really love each other and like he is always talkin about how he wants to marry me and wants to have kids with me etc..... well like sometimes i will get mad at him and we get into arguments and like well i was up at the store the other day and like i cussed out one of his friends cuz he said sumthing to me n like then my bf came up to me an asked y i wanst tlkin to him then i was like cuz u dint even tell your friend to stop sayin crap to me then i walked off and like he called me later that day an apologized and stuff so is it ok for ppl that love each other to argue sometimes? and sometimes i feel to controlling over him cuz like he does something and ill be like dont do it agian cuz like i think it is best for him and stuff..... so does that sound to controlling?
2007-01-23 12:43:38 · 8 answers · asked by leslie vaughn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh your probably fine and he's probably fine. I hope you are keeping up with the girls and participating fully in adolescent hood though. Steady boyfriends can consume too much of your attention and make you sorry to have missed out on the other things when you are older.
2007-01-23 13:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the worst mistakes people make in relationships is trying to control their partner.We are not animals and nobody has the right to try and control anybody.If you try and control someone you can count on them eventually dumping you.About arguements everyone whether they are dating or married everyone has an arguement from time to time that is called being a human being with different opinions.Now let's address the fact that you are only in 9th grade.I hate to burrst your bubble but you really have no clue what love is or what it is all about.You mentioned that your boyfriend wants to marry you and have kid's and that is great but be smart don't do either of those thing's until you are old enough have great jobs and your own home..Unfortunately today we have too many babies raising babies.And please try to stop using the word LIKE so much..
2007-01-23 12:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're so like immature and childish, like, you should really like re-adjust your priorities, like you shouldn't even worry about, like, boys you know, instead you should try to like improve your English, which by the way is like totally sub-standard at the moment, you know like, and then, when you have learnt to like talk intelligibly, you might give this whole relationship stuff another go, you know, it'll be like so much better when you acually know what you're, you know, like doing?
2007-01-23 12:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you're only 12 or 13 yrs old,.you don't know anything about love,enjoy you're life and don't get hung up on one boy,it's not worth it,yes it is normal for couples to argue,but you're way too young to worrying one boy
2007-01-23 12:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by msalb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lady he was right u were wroung hes a jerk for not standing up for u its rediculose i would have been pissed to and im a jr which isnt that much older he was wroung u were right ok ok
2007-01-23 12:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by bonna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to grow up and be a lady and stop being a teeny bopper
2007-01-23 12:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by kerry p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to spell, and grow up
2007-01-23 12:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by michaeldavid1973 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you have to ask, there is your answer.
2007-01-23 12:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋