Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. Its never been the easiest of relationships, but we've always pulled through our problems..after taking a gap yr last yr, i went to university to become a nurse. The first term went fine between each other, and he has been so supportive of me going, even though there is an hour flight between us.

However when i came back for christmas it had been 2 months since i had seen him, and i was expecting him to be so excited about seeing me, wanting to get me on my own asap wanting to be together that evening but instead i got a one arm hug and then things went straight to normal. All holiday, it was like he carried on with life and i fitted into him and his friends plans, he also started flirting with girls whilst we were out which he hasnever done infront of me b4 and i just felt like we have now become routine.
There is no spark for me anymore...i have tried talking to him about it but he says i am just moaning that he does feel the same

2007-01-23 12:01:28 · 4 answers · asked by H 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband was a bachelor up until 4 yrs ago when we got engaged. His choices in friends are usually 10+ years younger, single, partiers. My issue is the immaturity level and disrespect from these friends. For example, they will say things in front of me like 'hey, that girl is checking you out' or 'remember last weekend when we were at the bar and you were getting all the attention from the waitresses' or 'you didn't tell me you were bringing her (refering to me)'. My husband says I should blow it off being they are young and immature, I say step uo to the plate dude and start being a responsible husband!

2007-01-23 12:00:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need some new acitives that my husband and i can so together. His into model railway and iam into scrapbooking. neither of us really like the other ones. We have thought about joining a club together but cant think of any ideas?

2007-01-23 12:00:39 · 8 answers · asked by linda78 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okkkaayy. Me and my bf that I have now I have been going out for a while but went out before this time.. But this is the second time.. Well I herd this weekend he was hanging with his friends so I thought nothing of it until I herd that he was hanging with his friend BUT he was all so hanging with his ex-girlfriend.. But his ex-girlfriend is related to the friend he was hanging out with.. Well I guess he was flirting with her and stuff.. && she got stuck in something I think a tree lol and he went up there and carried her down because she was stuck and stuff., But the thing I am scared of is that he will go back with her because she broke up with HIM.. And she wants him back she said.. =(
I am just not happy and Have not herd from him in like 3 days..
So idk? I am scared.. and People keep telling me to break up with him but.. I don’t and I do.. It is like so confusing and I hate it.. =(

Thanks a lot..
~*~nikki~*~

2007-01-23 12:00:29 · 9 answers · asked by *-*Nikki*-* 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 12:00:23 · 3 answers · asked by Ryan 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 3 1/2 years broke up with me today. I was raped in October, and that put alot of stress on our relationship, and just before christmas I gave up on myself, since nobody seemed to be helping, and everything was to hard on me. Now he gave up too. I have nothing left, and no one to talk to. I was in counselling, and on anti depressants and my bipolar medication. I stopped doing all that too. I just can't deal with it anymore. Is there anything I can do or say to get him back? Get him to help me? I am crushed that he's leaving me now too.......I'm so lost and upset. I feel like ending my own life. He WAS the only thing that kept me going. Now he's gone. I need him back in my life. I know I gave up hope, but I need his love and support. He's acting like it's harder on him than it is on me.......

2007-01-23 12:00:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hypothetical situation here. Say if you were dating your boyfriend for 3 years and he cheated on you but you forgave him. Everything is fine with the two of you now but every time his friends come over to YOUR house, they bring up this girl every time they are around. They talk about her a lot in front of your face. Do you think that this is disrespectful or overreacting?

2007-01-23 11:59:45 · 19 answers · asked by Pinky 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-23 11:59:25 · 6 answers · asked by jayden 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm having my wedding late april and it's going to be at my fiance and i's church. It's not going to be huge...just something simple and nice. Only immediate family and a few close friends are attending so it will be small. We are thinkin of have the wedding then doing a dinner at this really romantic/fancy restaurant that both of our families love...but I keep on drawing blanks at to what i want to do with the actual wedding. I always imaged a big fairytale wedding like in the movie and books but its not what I really want. Does anyone have any tips or suggestions? Or know of any great websites to help me plan, find some good wedding stuff, etc...

Oh and it's not gonna be really formal like with a reception, rehersal, or anything....just the wedding then the dinner....any ideas though would be great! But it'd definately going to be small, simple, and special...so keep that in mind while answering! Thanks!

2007-01-23 11:58:56 · 5 answers · asked by Miss Amanda 3 in Weddings

2007-01-23 11:58:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 11:58:02 · 12 answers · asked by Twilight <3 3 in Friends

I got stripped to my underwear and tied up to the flagpole if you think it's funny or not I wanna hear about it.

2007-01-23 11:56:47 · 10 answers · asked by evildoer 2 in Friends

One of my frineds at my lunch at spring creek FL she told the guy who i like (gabriel) that she told him that i like him and i embaresed my self in front of him by freaking out near my teachers computer and that freaked me out!!!and i dont know if he likes me most of my friends say he probably likes me so what should i do......?HELP ME PLEASE MY PICTURE DAY IS TOMMOROW!!

2007-01-23 11:56:19 · 1 answers · asked by GabrielLover 1 in Singles & Dating

I work with a lass and I have known her for a while and I really really like her. How can I tell if she is interested in me or not? What signs do I look for in a lass etc.
Thanks

2007-01-23 11:55:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so my wife and I were playing around and things got a little too rough which ended up in a trip to the hospital................ so my question for you is this. C I get into trouble if I sue her to pay for my doctor's bills and emergency room fees? I have to get better first though.

2007-01-23 11:55:08 · 15 answers · asked by open_phunguy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

14. I'm 23 petite and blonde. Will changing my hair colour help? It's driving me crazy! I get all the usual like you will appreciate it when your older etc. It's a joke having to constantly pull my Id out! To play the lottery even! Even at my local shops! Anyone else have this problem? Anything I can do?

2007-01-23 11:54:41 · 42 answers · asked by itgirl23 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 11:54:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i broke up with my boyfriend sad right but w/e but the reason is why..... we were in a long distance relationship for like 2 years and then he just started acting strange since we used messenger for communication ,when i singed on he would sign off.and when i called him he wouldnt answer or when i did he sounded cold also he would give me all these exuses after we broke up,"o im going to be busy till next month" which he couldve told me while i was crying over our relationship wondering what i should do.then i told him we might as well stop the relationship enough was enough and now im shocked because i said we can still be friends and hes acting all cold like those 2 years went to waste .now a part of me is wondering if i shouldve stayed and work it out and another part is saying that it was good that i left when i did before i got hurt anymore.what do u think about i just want another persons perspective to look atthis situation differently thanxs:]]

2007-01-23 11:52:05 · 11 answers · asked by baby_tiffy 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you ever like to show your sensitive side...or is it always the macho side that people see of u?....When did u last cry? I like it when a guy is sensitive and doesnt care to cry!

2007-01-23 11:51:58 · 11 answers · asked by hot_mama 3 in Singles & Dating

that I don't want to date at 14. I just feel that I want to wait for the right guy and anyways in Middle School the relationships don't last and they barely ever talk to each other. I do like some guys but I just don't want to date because everybody is doing it. Do any of you feel this way or did feel this way at my age?

2007-01-23 11:51:51 · 2 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 11:50:30 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 11:50:24 · 25 answers · asked by cory_millam 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 11:49:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Esp since we both are virgins?

2007-01-23 11:49:52 · 17 answers · asked by Coalie 2 in Weddings

he hasnt told me why yet, cuz we didnt get to talk about it... we were both in a hurry... but from what i gathered from friends, he said that he still looks at other girls... and he told my friend that he's been thinking of breaking up with me(in the end he did) but he didnt want to because he loves me so much... well he told me this morning that i deserve much better than him... of course i got upset... but i dunno, how should i feel??? is it right for him to break up with me bcuz of that? and in his blog it said "this is all for u and u were thinking bout urself" maybe he was talking about me gettin mad, but OF COURSE i got mad! i dunno.. can someone help me? im just confused

2007-01-23 11:49:45 · 5 answers · asked by Joanne V 1 in Singles & Dating

ok I am 15 and my new boyfriend is 17 and well things are going good and i think on friday we might kiss, he has kissed before but i havent. Im kinda scared about screwing up is it really that hard, what should I do.

2007-01-23 11:49:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend but he is sick of us fighting and he doesn't love me anymore and I wish I can turn back time and make it better this time.

2007-01-23 11:48:54 · 11 answers · asked by Zexyana 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it image, kindness, or what?

2007-01-23 11:48:52 · 4 answers · asked by Pigglet 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 11:48:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have wondered if women really are interested in someone for themselves or if money plays a major role. I don't have any experiences to base this off of.

2007-01-23 11:48:01 · 10 answers · asked by mebarsky 3 in Singles & Dating