Hypothetical situation here. Say if you were dating your boyfriend for 3 years and he cheated on you but you forgave him. Everything is fine with the two of you now but every time his friends come over to YOUR house, they bring up this girl every time they are around. They talk about her a lot in front of your face. Do you think that this is disrespectful or overreacting?
2007-01-23 11:59:45 · 19 answers · asked by Pinky 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Disrespectful. Put your foot down. Tell your man if he wants his buddies to be able to come over, that they better not mention her. And it makes you feel like crap everytime, and brings back the pain. If you ever want to move on and get over it, it needs to be kept quiet
2007-01-23 12:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's disrespectful as well as childish, but more on your boyfriend's part. If he don't stop them, then it's something that he like about this situation. I know 3 years is a long time to have invested in a person, but your feelings are more important than his friends. You did make a point of saying YOUR house. Then start pointing out the fact to them (directly) and him (indirectly) that you won't tolerate that disrespect in your house and if he want a report on her or carry a conversation on about her to please step outside the door and continue their disrespect, but not to do it in your house nor in your face. He might be still talking to her. Watch yourself.
2007-01-30 05:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very Disrespectful.
2007-01-23 22:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disrespectful. If he cared about you and your feelings he would have cut that **** short the first time his friends mentioned the girl he cheated with!! In fact if he was truly sorry he wouldn't want them bringing it up because he would feel too bad about it!
If he lets them keep talking about it, then he must either be proud of sleeping with her, a big pussy who lets his friends walk all over him, or just doesn't care about you.
2007-01-23 20:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by LaDyLuCk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very disrespectful! He should never bring her up again nor should his friends! Honestly i would confront him about it and maybe do some research to find out if he is still cheating with her.
2007-01-23 20:05:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Disrespectful. There must be a reason they keep bringing her up all the time.
2007-01-23 20:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by Stormee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is definitely disrespectful, and just plain mean!!! If I were you I would tell them, on no uncertain terms were they to bring up that name in your house. If they do it again after you tell them, then next time they come over, don't let their rudes asses in!!!!
2007-01-23 20:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by Mystical Illusions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...this is very disrespectful...and his friends are so mean bringing and talking about the other girl with you around... that's so mean............and i think you have to move out from that relationship to save your self-respect and dignity..you deserve someone better .. one who will respect you...if the guy loves you, he will respect you..once a guy cheated on the girl, chances are around 80% he will do it again, trust me.. dont allow him to..he may be the kind hearted person but with FRIENDS like what he has now, he might get influenced..... careful....
2007-01-23 20:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by fashion時尚嬰孩玩偶doll 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm a guy and even I think it's disrespectful.... those guys wouldn't be coming to my house, if they made my gf feel uncomfortable.
2007-01-23 20:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lady any guys friends will bust his balls in front anyone just to get his reaction and if he gets ashamed and blushes and feels ridiculus have no fear for he has repented and feels like an *** for doing it! thats great! he wont do it again! and it's no disrespect to you they are just bustin his balls. If you were a girl he liked and his friends would all come out and say how much he likes you and wants you it's the same thing they are just bustin his balls
2007-01-23 20:17:43 · answer #10 · answered by Metalup87 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋