Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

The dog has always pooped and peed in the house, he's a 10 year old dachshund (hot dog) in excellent health. Before, it was not too big of a deal, it was my husbands' rental house prior to me moving in. The house had really old carpet in decent condition and we'd just scrub the spots as the dog pooped or peed. Well we were married in December and bought and moved into our nice newer home 3 weeks ago today and this damn dog keeps pooping & peeing even though he is let out often. I am really getting very frustrated with this dog. I have suggested we put the dog in a crate at night & when we are away and my husband says he has tried that & the dog will fuss. I have suggested we house the dog properly in the attached garage, husband says it's too cold. I just complained to hubby again moments ago when he called from work and he clearly said he does not wanna get rid of the dog. He has had the dog since he was a pup & my 6 yr. old son is attached to the dog. Our home is starting to stink.

2007-01-23 13:04:29 · 8 answers · asked by maryannmccarthy2003 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I just got asked out to homecoming by a good friend. This friend is a...well "a bad infulence" and I want to say no but how do I say no with out hurting him?

2007-01-23 13:04:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Rate them as a whole, not just in one area and not by something good or bad about them.

2007-01-23 13:03:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-23 13:02:29 · 9 answers · asked by richard s 4 in Singles & Dating

I don't have any friends. Most of the people that were my friends in the past, didn't really know me and wouldn't meet me half way. I always seem to be the one that goes the extra mile. I really need a friend in my life. My husband really gets tired of me relying on him all the time. My husband and I have a great relationship, and my kids are great, but I would really like to have a girlfriend that I can share and do things with. Someone that will tell me that I'm normal, my life is normal, and that I'm not crazy. Does anyone have any advice on how to find and keep a friend? I do have trust issues, because of people hurting me in the past, but I'm willing to work on that. It seems like most of the people I meet are too busy telling me how great they are, how great their lives are, how much better or talented their kids are. So much competition. How do I weed through all the crap and find the real person and real friend?? Thanks for any help!

2007-01-23 13:01:53 · 9 answers · asked by minnie 2 in Friends

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2007-01-23 13:01:05 · 11 answers · asked by Quo 2 in Singles & Dating

Theres this kid i know in my school. He tells me all the time that "we need to get together sometime" so i said yeah and were going to go on a date to the movies. He always says "now are we going to be actually going to be watching the movie" "you will let me kiss you right?" the only place that he wants to go on our date is the movies, alwayyyys the movies. What is he thinking? Does he want a relationship, or does he want friends with benifits. is he using me? Or is that just what guys are like when we arnt going out yet
thanks! :]

2007-01-23 13:00:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the best way to apporach a girl if she is most of the time with her friends or isent next to me

btw when she passes by me in church she smiles at me and says hi francisco(my name)
(her being with her firends most of the times applies in church too)

2007-01-23 12:59:19 · 23 answers · asked by Frank 3 in Singles & Dating

I went out with this guy for over a year, and we loved each other to death. Before our relationship, we made a promise to each other that we would still be best friends when we end. But now that we have been through for 3 months, (and he got a new girl in the process) everytime I try to be nice to him we end up in a HUGE argument. Why can't we STILL get along? Should I give up or try a different approach?

2007-01-23 12:59:14 · 5 answers · asked by Déjà Vu 5 in Singles & Dating

I have just gotten season 1 of Prison Break because my girlfriend wants to watch it. When I asked her if I can watch with her, she said no, I asked why, she said sometimes there is no reason...what is she up to? What can i do to improve the situation? thx

2007-01-23 12:59:13 · 4 answers · asked by Lantis D 2 in Singles & Dating

i know this girl .....i like her but we dont talk much...i heard from people she VERY VERY conservative....and i also heard that she's "not interested in guys" i dont mean that shes lesbien....i mean her attitude towards guys are not opened....
will she ever like me? or does she only care about her friends and not interested in getting a bf

2007-01-23 12:57:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it okay to pick up your daughter with your girl-friend and her children to spend a little visitation time? Have only been separated for a month and a half,and divorce proceedings are in motion. Child is a toddler, but is this really an ok thing to do? Should it wait till divorce is final, or should the g/friend never be with them?

2007-01-23 12:57:43 · 6 answers · asked by stives51 1 in Marriage & Divorce

can it happen that if you are in an uncomfortable relationship, you always feel stressed up , nervous and tensed in the company of your partner ..? in that way, that will make it an unhealhthy relationship, huh ..?

2007-01-23 12:57:41 · 3 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

All of my friends say that they have had a boyfriend in like 3rd or 4th grade and I can't say I have because when I went to elementary school we never had boyfriends that young. So, I am wondering if small towns have boyfriends earlier than most people or are my friends just lying to me to say that they have had a boyfriend before????

2007-01-23 12:55:39 · 34 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 18 and a freshman in college. at this age i feel that i should be trying to learn things on my own and ask for help when needed. but that doesn't happen in my household. My father tells me what classes to take and not to take in COLLEGE. He tells me when to go to bed and so forth i really can't take this anymore. I am a young adult living like a five year old. Please give tips on how to deal with this man. Just let you know i cant move until 2008 when i transfer to a 4yr university. is there any hope for me?

2007-01-23 12:55:07 · 8 answers · asked by ladydragon0608 2 in Family

Ladies, where are you most ticklish...??? Secondly do you like being tickled there or not?? Thanks for the answers...cootchie coo :)

2007-01-23 12:54:57 · 17 answers · asked by docboom2386 1 in Singles & Dating

Valentine's Day is coming up and I have to go through the same thing every year. I don't want to be alone again and I don't want to be miserable just because everyone else is happier than me. I look around on a day to day basis and see the same thing around me. Every lucky girl at school has friends or a boyfriend. Even my mom has love in her life again. I see everything that I wish that I could have. Friends or a good boyfriend.

2007-01-23 12:54:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

oh well you can't have none of dis!

2007-01-23 12:54:22 · 7 answers · asked by ~Strawberry Delight~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I am going to make a dinner for my boyfriend for Valentine's Day, with fortune cookies for dessert. Any ideas on cute/romantic fortunes that I could put inside?

2007-01-23 12:54:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Abusive husband ...soft heart on her side Love her to death but need to know how I should act in this type of situation .....any suggestionns please... Hard fist or Understanding.....Thank You

2007-01-23 12:53:18 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just say you are always meeting jerks but you know someone that you are not attracted wants to marry you would you do it? or will you wait for someone else to come along?

2007-01-23 12:52:49 · 7 answers · asked by lalagirly 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 12:52:43 · 12 answers · asked by mz.attitude01 1 in Friends

im 13, she is 33, she is like the hot its mom ever,she is not marred, and she is vary open about her self, and she cougth me peeking at her taking a shower, but to be fare she left the door open, but anyways i waited for her to get out and we talk't for like 5 min's and she said it was cool and she said did'nt care if i had wached her or not. but do you think she'l tell anyone

2007-01-23 12:51:46 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 12:51:24 · 14 answers · asked by US 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 12:49:45 · 15 answers · asked by team_ank 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 17 i work with a guy who is 26.

we have been alone together on more than one occasion but we have never kissed. there were a few moments where he started to learn in slightly but he pulled away.

we flirt and talk all the time and get along great.
i have been calling him a lot recently and we have hung out almost everyday in the past two weeks.

well we hung out last night and there seemed to be quite a bit of attraction. we were together almost the whole night. but i didn't call him once today and he basically ignored me. we hung out on our break at work and were in a car together but other than that it was almost as if i wasn't there. he usually comes right up to me and starts talking but today he stood by me but didn't talk to me but talked to the person next to me.

i've noticed that he is EXTRA friendly to me when his ex is around too.

i like him a lot but i'm getting mixed signals from him. what's going on?? what should i do???

2007-01-23 12:49:40 · 20 answers · asked by Mhmm. 2 in Singles & Dating

in my girlfriend's purse. We haven't used them for six months. She said it was for a friend, but her friends are all older and sexually experienced. They don't even use condoms. Is she cheating?

2007-01-23 12:49:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

always plans dates...ahead and spontaneosly...he took me out to my very favorite restaurant for my birthday...hes making future plans for things we can do together...hes 33, im 25...we are both very successful...this weekend i went out for my birthday...i got drunk...(last birthday i was dealing with a divorce and rape)...i wanted to go out with friends this bday and have fun...he had to help me home, he was a little miffed, he also doesnt like that im sick a lot (ulcer), hes very into health, yesterday he sent this text message : - P and that was it...today he sent a text asking if i had plans for tonight...i texted back "yes" and then dinner with friends, you? he said gym and no plans. Then he calls me a few min later and im busy meeting my friends in the restaurant...i dont answer....i call him back when im finished...his phone is turned off...i leave a message and then call back when i get home...he doesnt answer...this is not like him...is he just playing games? does he think i

2007-01-23 12:48:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We just got married new years eve. My husbands best man gave us a Topco sex swing for wedding gift. I was wondering if anyone has tried the RockHer World swing on ebay. This one we got is great but it makes my butt sore. It reminds me of sitting on a swing at the playground too long.
The rhw swing looks like it will be so much better.
As much as we are using it I wish it had more padding.

2007-01-23 12:48:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-23 12:48:03 · 6 answers · asked by gUG 1 in Singles & Dating