approaching a girl?

Question

what is the best way to apporach a girl if she is most of the time with her friends or isent next to me

btw when she passes by me in church she smiles at me and says hi francisco(my name)
(her being with her firends most of the times applies in church too)

Answer 1

You go up to her and you say "Do you have a minute? I wanted to talk to you privately..." She will likely come along and then you say "I was wondering if you'd like to get together some time - maybe go out for pizza or a movie?" That's all - simple.

Peace!

Answer 2

walk up to her. wait patiently until there is a break in the conversation or she talks to you. Ask her if you could talk to her for a minute. The only flaw in this plan is that it can be slightly embarrassing, and she will most likely repeat everything you said to her.

Try talking to her when her friends are in the area, but maybe she's just lagging behind to pick something up.

Really, the best way to talk to her is when her friends aren't around. Can you call her?

Answer 3

Yeah, when she's with her friends, it's probably not a good time to talk to her because as soon as you leave, they will be talking about you. Keep on smiling at her and being nice to her. Eventually she will take notice. It sounds like she is a friendly, outgoing person so you shouldn't have a problem talking to her.

Answer 4

OK just go to church at the same time/ if you can sing join choir.
try to be funny when she is around, then go to a trip with church and her if shes there and ask her out

Answer 5

You know, sometimes the men make women more complex than they really are, needlessly.

If you'll notice, she holds her friends in high regard, especially if she's around them alot. I think a good approach would be to befriend those she hangs around with, as well as her. When she's with her friends, that's her comfort zone. When she and her friends become relaxed around you, get to know you better, they will include you in what they're doing. Once they trust you, and you've proven yourself trustworthy, then you can get closer to her. Take it in steps my friend. If she's worth it, she's worth the extra effort. Respect her space, and her friends. And she will include you in her life if she's interested.

Answer 6

Steps
1.Smile! Avoid appearing overconfident as she may find you cocky, but you mustn't be shy either.
2. If she looks at you, and you catch her looking again, you're in.
3.Approach with confidence; don't use cheesy chat up lines, they rarely work. A simple "Hi, how are you today?" should break the ice. Women love to talk about themselves, so let them (no matter how boring it is).
4.Don't be sleazy--be funny, be yourself. Wait for the signals that she is interested: laughing (at your hilarious jokes), flicking her hair around, etc. If she makes any physical contact, like touching your arm while she laughs, you're in. If your comic genius is not being appreciated, then say, "It was great to meet you" and cut your losses.
5.If you think she is interested, don't overdo it: be brief, return to your friends, say, "Maybe we can have a chat later." Later on in the night, get her number before she goes. (There is no need to take her home just yet--this is wife material, not a one night stand).
6.Send her a funny text message over the next few days, meet up for coffee or cinema, kiss, but do not rush things. Learn more about what she does and her interests, as this will help with future dates.
7.Always be yourself. If you were pretending you own your own company or told her that you drive a Porsche when you don't, she will eventually find out and when she finds out your relationship will be over.
Tips
•Hygiene: Wash, brush your teeth, clean your ears, cut your nails, pluck those hairs out of your nose. Women notice every flaw so hide them well.
•Dress well: ask your sister or mother for advice, wear nice shoes, smell nice but don't overdo the aftershave.
•Don't be cheap: pay for her drinks, dinner, her taxi ride home. If she insists on paying her own way, say, "I will get this one, you pay next time."
•If a girl is on her own, don't point that fact out, and beware if they are in a group of friends as you will end up having to impress more than one girl.
Warnings
•Do not have bad breath.
•Hide your gut, wear clothes that disguise your flabby body
•Always have manners, open doors for her, chew food with your mouth shut, and be polite to staff.
•Never say that her friend is hot, her sister is hot, or her mother is hot.

Answer 7

Give her a big smile first. On the second meeting stare at her with a pleasant face. Third meeting ask her if she wants a coffee.

Answer 8

Just be yourself!I know u have heard this before, but its tru! Just think: If you pretended to be what pleased her, you would be livin a lie. dont be scared, chances are she will like u! Girls love confident guys, but not overconfident. If you dont feel confident talkin to her around her friends, call her aside. Dont worry, be happy, and good luck!!

Answer 9

approach all of them..then tlk 2 the fat(unattractive 1) and make her feel prety, thats how u get the hot 1 ;) lol

Answer 10

Walk tall