Theres this kid i know in my school. He tells me all the time that "we need to get together sometime" so i said yeah and were going to go on a date to the movies. He always says "now are we going to be actually going to be watching the movie" "you will let me kiss you right?" the only place that he wants to go on our date is the movies, alwayyyys the movies. What is he thinking? Does he want a relationship, or does he want friends with benifits. is he using me? Or is that just what guys are like when we arnt going out yet
thanks! :]
2007-01-23 13:00:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A dark place with a compliant female? He thinks he has found the high school dating loop hole. I don't think what he is doing is meant to be mean or anything, I just think that he is thinking with his hormones more than anything else. I would say tell him you want to get pizza or something before or after so you can have a chance to talk with him - but honestly, boys like this are hardly worth talking to. They are just not conversationalists - that's been my experience anyway.
Peace!
2007-01-23 13:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I for one think you should not go anywhere with this guy again and find someone who will take you places other then to the movies.
This guy sounds weird or worse and a nice girl doesn't go with that kind of guy and you sound like a nice girl who just needs to be told not to bother with this guy and don't feel sorry for him either.
You're a smart girl to ask for advice so please just tell the "movie" star to find another "starlet" and you can find someone better then the "movie" star yourself.
And yes, he is using you and you surely don't deserve that kind of treatment either.
Find someone who wants a girl to take out and enjoy being with any place at all and not just to the movies, okay.
2007-01-23 13:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say all guys are different. Without knowing this guy, my advise would be to BE CAREFUL. It sounds like he's harmless, but as a woman in the 21st century, you can never be too sure. I think he just wants the "homey lover friend" package. If that's what you want as well, go for it. He's not using you if you both want the same thing. The key here is know what you want out of this deal. You gotta look out for number one!
2007-01-23 13:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by minortm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS PROBABLY THINKING WITH HIS SECOND HEAD. MOST YOUNG GUYS LIKE GOING TO THE MOVIES BECAUSE IT IS DARK. HE MUST OF HEARD SOME STORIES ABOUT SCORING AT THE MOVIES AND WANTS TO GIVE IT A TRY FOR HIMSELF. AT LEAST HE ASKED FOR A KISS. IT IS UP TO YOU HOW MUCH FARTHER YOU WILL LET HIM GO. IF THIS IS SOMETHING THAT YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED IN THEN BE UP FRONT WITH HIM. MAYBE WATCHING A MOVIE AND HOLDING HANDS WILL WORK OUT BETTER IN THE LONG RUN FOR BOTH OF YOU.
DON'T BE SHY WHEN IT COMES TO YOUR FEELINGS AND DON'T DO ANYTHING THAT YOU DON'T WANT TO DO.
ENJOY THE MOVIE
2007-01-23 13:14:08 · answer #4 · answered by Recovery Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well slow down there girl. You havnt actually gone on a date yet. So how would u know. He will probably ask u to go somewhere later..and it sounds like he just wants to make out with you cuz that is the prefect spot...the movies. GOOD LUCK
2007-01-23 13:05:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw man this is something. You never know with males. They are so.... unpredictable. But ask him what he is looking for. In my opinion, he's looking for one thing probably. It seems like he is hiding you. I mean going out to the movies is fun but there is more to going on dates. Express yourself to him but if you not feeling him, then enjoy the free movie pass
2007-01-23 13:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by Natasha O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that he's a movie buff. It also looks like he has no game, sorry to say. I think he likes you, but doesn't know how to say it. Why don't you pick a place to go next time?
2007-01-23 13:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to wish a woman - the guy sees you as a intercourse merchandise and needs you sexually. To think of a woman is warm - in fact they think of shes warm and sturdy looking yet would not like them or see something between him or the girl. to love a woman - they are able to work out him and the girl relationship
2016-11-26 22:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I read this right, why don't you suggest going somewhere else, he might just be shy and not very imaginative of thinking up places to go - Well it could be that i guess
2007-01-23 13:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by Alex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's soo weird. He proabably does want to do something with you.. lol. Is all you ever do is kiss? Maybe he wants more.. hmmm.
2007-01-23 13:06:45 · answer #10 · answered by wandelgalerij 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋