Is it okay to pick up your daughter with your girl-friend and her children to spend a little visitation time? Have only been separated for a month and a half,and divorce proceedings are in motion. Child is a toddler, but is this really an ok thing to do? Should it wait till divorce is final, or should the g/friend never be with them?
2007-01-23 12:57:43 · 6 answers · asked by stives51 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A word of advice, play it cool with girlfriend and mother with your daughter til after the divorce. Youre asking for possible problems. Not saying not to spend time with girlfriend and her kids, just dont have them with you when you pick up your daughter. No sense in making an already tense situation any worse. After the divorce who cares what happens
2007-01-23 13:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude slow down. What is the rush to start bringing gf's around your kid? This is not an okay thing to do morally. You and your wife just split up and your mind should be on establishing a single parent relationship with your kid. Set up a new life for you and your child.
Your head may be in the I'm single and free mode but your a parent first and foremost. You can't just be bringing everybody your sleeping with around your children. That's not being a good example for them. Don't introduce your new gf to your kid for at least 3-6 months. You don't know if this thing will last with her. You may want to date other people. Definitely don't bring this woman and her kids to your wife's home to pick up your daughter. That's tacky and disrespectful. Give everyone including your child a chance to get used to the new family structure.
2007-01-23 21:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by LuvMyGirls 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and your wife are going through a divorce right and no one is important in this than your child. Spend TIME ALONE with your child.
You are probably spend all your time with the GF now, if that's the case, why are you bringing her into your toddlers time? This is should just be you and child. No one else.
2007-01-23 21:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be planning your own Funeral? You'd also be saving a lot of money and excessive wounds to your external body, but if she aims right and has just enough jabbing power then it becomes internal. Come On don't you have any class? at least you can do is wait, be careful who you bring around your child, cuz if that person your seeing has a tainted history, Your soon to be ex spouse can make your Visitation a LIVING HELL!
2007-01-23 21:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by Skinz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Visitation with your child is all about you and your child, not your girlfriend and her kids. Tell the girlfriend to spend time with her kids and you spend time with yours
2007-01-23 21:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by Bridgette B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes my dad did it and we got along.
2007-01-23 21:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by Orlinda K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋