Just curious if anyone has ever had an affair and it helped the marriage?
2007-01-23 12:38:16 · 13 answers · asked by Leema 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No never had 1 and never will and how would an affair "help" a marriage to me that would destroy a marriage
2007-01-23 12:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never heard of an affair helping a marriage. All it does is just place mistrust into the relationship. Don't do it!
2007-01-23 20:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by Serendipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will never ever help to think that your woman had her oral cavity over someone Else's genitally area. Or the very same night that you and her have relations, she comes homes dripping with someone elses natural juices, you know for a fact, that would not help the marriage. Now go and tip out on that
2007-01-23 20:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people cannot handle the jealousy, but there are people who are married and have affairs in front of each other with out lying to each other and are happily married. the're called swingers. solid communication is a must and you both have to realise that knowmatter what you do or who you do, you both have more of a connection to each other than anyone else can bring along, and that is what really matters to both of you. sex with spouse is for a loving personal connection and sex with others for recreational fun for both of you could give almost unlimited possibilities of exploring each others sexuality, so i say yes but i think it take a rare match of people to do it without a big fuss
2007-01-23 21:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an affair and TRUST me it did not help in ANY way!!!!!!!! We are still together but it was not because of that though.
2007-01-23 20:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by anyaha04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a chance. Sounds like you are looking for a way out
2007-01-23 20:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by jake622003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think infidelity could improve a marriage.
2007-01-27 20:01:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how the heck would that help a marriage?
2007-01-23 20:43:02 · answer #8 · answered by rat_leg danny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if he or she never found out and you have no bad feelings about it
2007-01-27 20:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by mimiamours 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It certainly would not help you...what God puts together, man must not divide....Aldultery is a comandment from God....
2007-01-23 20:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋