i mean u would be be best friends with somebody for like 4 years than they find a different friend and its like u dont even existed all of a sudden ur the 'backup friend'. or u think ur somebodys friend than u hear them say ur an ugly beyoch behind ur back. or theres a guy 2 or more girls r crushing on and its like every woman for herself. and they will do anything to ( including totally trashing her friend just to get wat she wants.Why????????????
2007-01-23 12:46:06 · 15 answers · asked by unlucky bubblegu^^ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
im only 13 and this doesnt all happen to me i see everyday at school
2007-01-23 12:47:00 · update #1
females (well human beings) can be naturally cruel. in the animal world a dominant female might even kill the young of a les dominant female. I cant for sure tell u why it has to be the way it is but it just is, as you get into high school it may ctually get worse, but eventually, you just tune it out...
2007-01-23 12:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by toy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls are like that; maybe just in your environment. There are several possibilities as to why they are doing these things:
•Social behavior - monkeys see monkeys do
•Low self-esteem
•Family background
•Hormonal changes
The same go for boys too - they choose to fight rather than talk.
I always teach my children that no one is above anyone. Being a lady meaning you don't throw yourself and fight over anyone - the guys have to compete for you (not the other way around!).
2007-01-23 21:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Middle school age is the hardest because you have to go through all that petty stuff. My advice to you is to seek out and make friends with people who are more like you- honest and a true friend. Also, get involved in sports at school. The girls who are involved in sports usually (but not always) have more to occupy their lives and lhave ess time to deal with all that petty stuff. They have something in common which helps build friendships.
2007-01-23 20:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by cammie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are insecure and trying to find where they fit in...they experiment and try out different friends until they think they find the right friends that fit. Don't take it personal. What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.
2007-01-23 20:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by GreenEyezBilly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls are just naturally very competitive and bitchy and they always want to be better than everyone else no matter what. All girls secretly hate at least one of their friends, that's just how we do it. Watch Mean Girls and you'll understand.
2007-01-23 20:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
alot of girls tend to be the top of all girls
bieng the sexyies or badest of the girls
basiclly its an all out war and to find the perfect guy
girls tend to be agrresive with girls
2007-01-23 20:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by Im This Guy... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try never to limit your friendship to one or two people enjoy meeting all kinds of people, and having all kinds of friendships
2007-01-23 20:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because girls at that age are not mature yet. most girls grow out of that when they become women, well the decent ones do anyway.
2007-01-23 20:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by Just a girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because its a dog eat dog world out there and its just our instinct to fight for what we want
2007-01-23 20:50:05 · answer #9 · answered by amber j 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Girls are very sensitive and so they are mean because it's their outer protective shell...
2007-01-23 20:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by Hideaki Takizawa 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋