Wouldnt it make you feel like "Wow, I must not be fun enough" or "I wonder why he has to do that before he sees the love of his life?" or "Am I that stressful that he needs to relax before I come over?" or SOMETHING. What is the deal? What would YOU think about that?
2007-01-23 12:32:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he might have a self esteme problem and he mellows out to have something he feels intelligent enough to talk about. You might just scare him and he might think he isnt good enough for you
2007-01-23 12:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by stefani h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad. People who smoke pot seem to loose the ambition to due anything including nurish a relationship. My sister has to smoke pot to sleep, work, or even before seeing friends. She can't be normal without being high. If she took the money she wasted on pot she could make a Porshe car payment each month.
2007-01-23 20:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by twoskinsoneman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Brav,
I'll tell it to you straight. This is really a no-brainer.
Regardless of whether this guy is smoking marijuana or shooting heroin, he is into drugs. And this is a bad way to be living, a waste of money and time, and could possibly lead to addiction to even harder drugs. Honestly, is this where you need to be?
Secondly, what he is doing is illegal. He risks being arrested, and if you are with him, so will you. Why should you risk your freedom because this man is living foolishly? Is this man worth your freedom?
My best remedy for this scenario..... kick him to the curb, and find someone who is clean of drugs, and respects you as a person.
Best wishes.
2007-01-24 05:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by C J 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about this: "My boyfriend is a drug addict who is breaking the law on a daily basis. Do I need the fallout that is sure to occur when he runs afoul of the law? There must be someone normal out there for me. Maybe I should go looking."
2007-01-23 20:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that he's was smoking way before he met you and will be smoking way after you leave him. You knew that he smoked when you met him. The way you start a relationship is the way one will end.
2007-01-23 20:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth the price of gas, much more your time, attention, and affection! I say, go look for a better deal, if not a more cost-effective one.
2007-01-23 20:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by JADE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should talk to him abt how you feel. And please dont put yourself down, its probably just him, smoking weed just before you come, shows that he's insecure abt himself.
I think you should find someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated!
Keep smiling =)
2007-01-23 20:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by Kittykaren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow i HAD that problem.. i think it's just the fact that we can't be there when it's going on.. sometimes it's not his choice so he doesn't get to decide when it's lite.. i would just let it go and when he says he's going to and your not there, just say can you please save me some.. dont' make it a huge issue cause it's really not and guys don't understand why it makes us angry and that just pisses them off.. good luck and best wishes!
2007-01-23 20:38:10 · answer #8 · answered by ~broken~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would think i should dump him if he is smoking WEED when ever i come over/ i'm sure you can do better than a pot head (no offense)
2007-01-23 20:37:34 · answer #9 · answered by Ana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i wouldnt datte a guy who did weed. soo thats already out.. butt =/ if i did [[ by a mistake]] thenn ii would dumpp him fur sure.. and wonderrr whatt hes doinn with his life.. andd why hes gone soo nuts.. trust me this isn't ur fault its all him..
best of luck. my wishes to you.
2007-01-23 20:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋