There was an event in my daughters life that is best left in the know of a few people. However my daughter's mother in law assumed the responiblity of passing on information, that my daugther perfered to keep private and to just close family memebrs on a need to know basis, to my grandson's school, other family members and her work colligates. She then made rude comments along with a sister in law and a few others that had no need to know and do not know the facts first hand of the situation. The mother in law was only given this privy to the matter out of need to know and assuming she would excercise disscretion. What should my daughter do to let the mother in law know it was wrong and to mind her own business in the future? Is there a to the point poem I can send this person???
2007-01-23 13:04:45 · 6 answers · asked by jan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your daughters MONSTER in Law was a real creep for acting like that and spilling private information! Your daughter, and maybe even with you, should confront the rude biotch and tell her what she did was wrong! Apparently she has no soul, and doesn't care who she hurts with her yammering. A poem will NOT solve the problem..you will just make it worse. Get it over with!
2007-01-23 13:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by msjinx39 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you should have your daughter or son-in-law or the two of them confront her and keep private information from her in the future. It's best to get to the point with an honest (or blunt)conversation. You don't need to be directly involved, or it'll might turn into a family vs. family thing, just support your daughter.
2007-01-23 22:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the mother in law thing can be a touchy situation. It might be best if your husband ( her son?) has a talk with her. He should let her know the information was given in privacy and that it was not her place to share this information. Also ask that she apologizes to you daughter as this has hurt her feeling. If your husband is not comfortable doing this have your daughter write a letter and mail it to her,(as face to face my be difficult) telling her how this has affected her.
2007-01-23 14:13:40 · answer #3 · answered by ampowers75 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No poems needed. Tell the mother in law or whomever does this in the future that they are out of line and that in the future, they need to keep their mouth shut. Trust is the issue here. Let whoever blabbed know that the trust has been violated and feelings were hurt and you or your daughter will be sure not to tell them anything again. They need to apologize, if they don't, make sure not to tell them anything again whether you think they need to know it or not. They don't seem to care about trust so you're not offending them if they're kept out of the loop.
2007-01-23 13:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 15:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She better stop that woman now.Doesn't her husband tell his mother to shut up.Its your daughters Private thing.I would move far away from that witch
2007-01-23 23:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋