Family & Relationships - 21 January 2007

Ok heres my problem me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 2 months now and everything is going great. But last night i was down town with some friends when we stoped into a pup for a drink, just so you all know i live in germany where the drink age is only 16. Well this is where the trouble starts my girlfriends little sister is there smoking and drinking and hanging out with a not so great crowd worst of all she is only 14. She sees me and tells me not to tell her sister that she was there. My question is do i tell my girlfriend or should i just remain silent about the hole issue? My heart tells me i should tell her but my head says diffrent. Any response would be nice im just really confused on what to do with this situation. Thanks

2007-01-21 06:55:53 · 14 answers · asked by Gabe 2 in Singles & Dating

Whats the best eye color?? Blue, brown, green, hazel??

2007-01-21 06:55:09 · 18 answers · asked by total_coolness102 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we have two kids together but i have enough of his crap. I kept teling him when i was through with him it would be over. well needless to say 5 years later i am through but he isn't. What do I do to make him understand that?=

2007-01-21 06:55:08 · 3 answers · asked by oliphantheather 1 in Singles & Dating

I like him and I'm pretty sure he likes me and other people have told me that. he likes me. This is what he does.....

1. always offers to help me
2. talks to me alot
3. tells me alot of jokes
4. My friend has heard him talk to his friends saying, ' theres this girl and I sit next to her in class and she's nice and gets good grades...'

If he does like me how do I ask him out or get him to ask me ; he's kind of shy.

2007-01-21 06:54:55 · 10 answers · asked by Sandy 4 in Singles & Dating

they charge outrageous fees. most the girls live in africa or russia. once you share your real email addy you get spam listed. the personal sites seem to be nothing but a bother. the way they suck me in is with all the window dressing, sans clothing. are these sites even legal? i'm just tired of getting scammed.

2007-01-21 06:54:24 · 20 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

No matter what you do you just don't feel pretty, hot, attractive, etc. Or days where you just feel like a whale...very annoying!

2007-01-21 06:54:01 · 14 answers · asked by JC 4 in Singles & Dating

did I just ask him out on a date?

2007-01-21 06:53:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 15 years old and a sophomore in high school. Lately I have discovered masturbating and have been doing it quite frequently. I dont have much privacy because I have 5 sisters so I often go downstairs to my basement and take off all my clothes and masturbate. I often download pictures off the internet of Jessica Biel, Jessica Alba, Jessica Simpson, Paris Hilton, Lindsay Lohan and others and just masturbate to them. Is that normal? Otherwise I often will just sit nude on my recliner and masturbate to girls in my high school bent over with a skirt and no panties on. I love butts. Anyway, is it wrong to do this? I almost got caught the other day by my sister Dawn. I dont want to get ridiculed for this in case I do ever get caught.

2007-01-21 06:53:27 · 30 answers · asked by ehaters101 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have been married for 11 years. In those 11 years, there has always been doubt, frustration, anger, upset, and most of all confusion.

We have never cheated on one another, nor would we. I believe we both trust each other 100 percent.

He is in the military and has been since the day we married. Its a hard road but I am no stranger to the military way of life as I've managed to grow up in it.

To make a long story short, the older I am getting I am realizing there is more to life than what I am experiencing. I am lonley, frustrated, angry and depressed most of the time. My husband doesnt seem to show any concern for these feelings as he thinks its "the same story, differnt day".

I have always questioned whether I should leave because, although he says he loves me, I dont "feel" it anymore. He doesnt do much to show it nor does he seem to care about anyone else than himself.

He's also started to get angry about little things within the house which has caused more havoc. He is always yelling about something but then, once I react, he wants it to be water under the bridge and for me to be happy and fine. I just dont operate that way.

I have shared my doubts and feelings with a close family member and also with a couple close friends. They have never officially told me what to do but have known I've been unhappy for a long long time. I just dont know what to do.

Am I just in a rutt? Am I just going through a phase? What is it? Either way, he makes promises to go to the counslor and never does-he always has a reason he cant. But here I am in counseling and on meds and miserable. What's next? I need honest answers and an honest assessment as I have moved into the guestroom and plan to go to the Staff Judge Advocate in the morning to initiate the separation process. HELP!!!!

2007-01-21 06:52:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my man for over 2 years. I love him alot. When I met him I already had a one year old son. I let him (my man) know from the begining that I wanted to get married and have more children in the future. Any time I try and talk about it he jokes about it. He says I am moving to fast. We have lived together for 2 years! He is great with my son and would make a great father. But I feel like its not fair. Getting married and having more kids is VERY important to me and its not important to him. How can I make him see how important it is too me? Or should I just move on? I don't know what to do.

2007-01-21 06:52:35 · 5 answers · asked by milknhoney4ever 1 in Singles & Dating

Hes not wanting to talk to me right now, so therefor im not sure whats going on. Last night i said i dont think this is going to work and hes liek what? and i was like us..and hes like well if thats what you want and i was like no but we need to talk about it. and then hes like well ill talk to you later..is that pretty much breakin gup? Cause i have this feeling thats what he thought and im sure he did something last night. idk. i dont know what to do with us.

2007-01-21 06:52:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy you are dating asks you to meet him out at a local bar one night.

You meet and several of your friends are there and you all converse as a group.

Later in the evening, 2 guy friends of the guy that you are dating show up. From that point in time, your guy starts conversing with his 2 friends and them only. Not only that but he completely turns in his chair so that his back is facing you.

During this time, your friends have left the establishment so you are left sitting next to your date that has his back turned to you.

For 20 minutes or more, He never takes a pause in the conversation with his friends and turns back to you.

Would you consider this rude behavior? Why or why not?

2007-01-21 06:50:45 · 7 answers · asked by mjbutton14 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it posible for them to get married...this is crazy...

2007-01-21 06:50:17 · 11 answers · asked by cloud09 1 in Singles & Dating

My 15 yr. old son has been complaining with a medical problem for a year now, so when he came home for X-mas break, I took him to see our pediatrician. She had some tests performed on him and called me on Jan. 2nd to let me know she had conferred with an endocrinologist and oncologist from Kosair's children's hospital because she was puzzled by the results. The specialists recommended he have follow-up tests to rule out cancer as soon as possible. I immediately called his father and told him the information and the seriousness. A week later I called to see if he had scheduled him an appt. and he said he had been too busy because they have a new baby and he had taken him to a dr. a year earlier and that the doctor looked at it and said he was okay. Since I was getting nowhere with his father I called social services for some assistance. He has still not been seen by a doctor and I can't get SS to return a call. What are my options? I do know they have had contact with his father

2007-01-21 06:49:15 · 4 answers · asked by stacey h 3 in Marriage & Divorce

there's my ex... she left me for another person at the beginning of december.... she and i weren't really hanging out as much as we used to(even when we were just friends). She told me that over winter break.... her and "him" broke up on AIM... I asked her if she was alright.... she said yes... and she said that something was bothering her... she went on and on trying to cover what finally came out... she said that she regreted ever breaking up with me.... i asked her if she's saying that she wanted 2 get back 2geather.... she said that she is trying to say that but she wants to just "chill for awhile" and said sorry if that's not what you wanted to hear.... IS SHE TELLING ME THAT SHE WANTS TO GET BACK TOGEATHER OR NOT?!?! i'm so confused... she said that she wants to talk.... and i said how about we talk this week and take it from there.... and she said that she'd like that.... i really LOVE her.... to the point where i would give everything/the shirt on my back to be with her 4ever.

2007-01-21 06:48:28 · 8 answers · asked by the sign 2 in Singles & Dating

when a girl breaks up with you, how do you feel?
do you think 'oh well, move on'
or 'my life is at an end'

and how long do you feel this way and how do you go about it?


I'm just curious...

2007-01-21 06:47:58 · 24 answers · asked by emily34565 1 in Singles & Dating

Before I told her how I felt she said she might get another job. I told her don't quit and she stayed. The reason why she was going to quit, because one of the female managers called her a whore. I told her well she's just mean don't listen to her. And she stayed. A month later she told me at school she might quit her job again cause the gay manager was being rude to her which sometimes he is. I told her that I would talk to him about it and I said don't quit. So she stayed.
We were coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said "that's so sweet." So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said "that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but she you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she walks behind me and pats me on the head and saids hey. The employees say that she's a flirter. So I'm not sure if she's into me or she just likes the attention now that she knows that i'm into her. I gave her a crush note and she took it and read it in the bathroom. She showed all her coworker girlfriends the note and they started laughing at me. All the girls were smiling and looking at me funny. I asked one of the guys that works there why are they looking at me like that. He said becaus that girl you like showed all those girls the note u gave her. I see her 2 days later when I saw her she gave me a big smile. I was talking to one of the girls that works there and she walks towards me and saids "what you don't like me anymore" walks away from me and smiles back at me. Anyways couple days ago she quit her job because one of the girls are jealous of her and always being rude to her so she quit and now she works with her boyfriend. I thought she like me, but I guess not cause she didn't tell me she was going to quit. She just left. Her boyfriend does treat her like crap sometimes and he gets real jealous when someone looks at her, but all he does is put his arm around her. He makes her cry sometimes because he saids stupid stuff to her. My friend told me that he seen her with her friends and he said to her "you know my friend likes you know?" And she saids to him "I hate him" This was when she work where I work. My friend never told me this until now. My friend said she's stuck up. So I pretty much told her how I felt and she never told me how she felt about me. I told her friend that she has a bad mouth on her and she told her and I guess she got mad about that. She started not to have a foul mouth language when I was around and when she did cuss she said sorry. So I guess that's why she said she said she hates me I guess. So do you think she will come and see me if she wants to be with me or is she expecting me to go chase her if I really like her? I mean I already did my part. What do you think?

2007-01-21 06:47:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just a curiosity question...is there some type "rule" as to which ring goes on first? I've seen some ladies with their engagement ring then their wedding band and vice versa. Does it really matter?

2007-01-21 06:46:25 · 15 answers · asked by JC 4 in Weddings

I have been talking to a guy since October & things were fine up until late December when he told me that he wasn't ready for a relationship because he's starting back to college but he hoped we could date eventually. We have still been hanging out, we got drunk on New Years & we couldn't be separated and I asked him if he really liked me and he said yeah and I asked him why he used to excuse about college and he said look the college is only half and hour away...but it seems like the only time we have good talks is when we are drunk..they say the truth comes out when you're drunk but I don't know.. what does it seem like to you? Should I wait it out and see how things go or just move on? I really do have strong feelings for him by the way...

2007-01-21 06:45:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I didn't think I asked an inappropriate question, I was just wondering about it. There are way worse questions and its not like I'm sleeping around and asking. I'm married and just have this basic question, why does his stuff come out of me when we have sex? And this is not a bad question, I'm just curious.

2007-01-21 06:45:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why does this man I like smirk, go a bit red and look down at the floor when I come into the room and greet him? We get on really well and hes back to normal after a minute. It's just when I first walk in. He used to smile and look me in the eyes. His clothes have changed too. He used to be quite casual now if he knows he will see me he's in a shirt and tie and he's clean shaven. Whats up with him?

2007-01-21 06:45:26 · 15 answers · asked by Michele 3 in Friends

I thought we had something special. I know we only talked online and I only met him once but I kept asking him if he would go out with me and he kept saying maybe (I later found out he said maybe to me because he needed to be with his family because his dad was very sick). When I found out his dad died I told him I would be there for him (I went to the funeral, talked to him, and sent him a card) He never said anything about recieving the card and what used to be talking everyday went to 5 minutes a week sometimes not even. He then later mentioned another girl in his life to me and hinted that he was thinking of asking her out. I was very upset I figured I would give him the time he needed and then I would ask about starting a relationship or wait till he said something. When I found out he was planning on askign the girl out I wanted to close things and let him know how I felt so, I sent him a letter. I think the girl saw it cause he said I ruined things between them. Was I wrong

2007-01-21 06:44:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had a finacee (been going out for 7 years) and we have a 4 year old son. since last jan. (when she went home for the holidays) things were really messed up and i heard she met a guy. i tried to make things work (when she returned), but failed. after 4 months of trying, there were just too many lies & all other issues and i made her return to her town (she left our son with me). 2 weeks after i tried again (by meeting her in a new city)and decided that we would start fresh. she had to go back and get her stuff and again probs. began. at this point i decided to send my son (who was with me) to canada to be with my parents as they could take better care of him. i later joined him. while i was there i tried calling her back, but she decided to officially have a relationship with the guy she met in jan. even though everyone told her that he is a player. now she is calling me,crying and begging to come back, accepting all her faults and claiming never to repeat.
what should i do?

2007-01-21 06:44:13 · 10 answers · asked by ali k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you have a girlfriend but you get bored at work and start flirting harmlessly with random girls on the internet. even if you have no intention of meeting or taking things further?

2007-01-21 06:44:02 · 80 answers · asked by colejoe79 2 in Singles & Dating

I like a guy two years older than me, and sometimes it seems like he likes me back, subtly.
BUT, his brother josh is my age. He is popular and more handsome. He sometimes notices me, but not often becuase he seems a little shy like his brother
I dont care if his older bro isnt as cute and not popular, but is there a chance with him if i am two years younger and josh doesn't seem to like me like that?

2007-01-21 06:43:40 · 4 answers · asked by kat 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 06:42:21 · 7 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy. he goes to the same bar as me every saturday and i really want to get to know him! ive been single for a year after a long term relationship and ready to date again, but how can i get speaking to this guy?

2007-01-21 06:42:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, to begin with the girl has Almost Bleach blonde hair. Beautiful green eyes. 5'4. really skinny. Hair that comes a little past her shoulders and has no acne. hair is straight also but sometimes curls it. What do you think of this discription.
Jen

2007-01-21 06:42:06 · 30 answers · asked by **[[Jen]]** 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a BF we have been going on for bout 5 months now this Thursday and i had a small get 2 gether yesterday w/ 4 of my friends and this dude named Tony (who is totally on my nerves) tried to get down my pants and up my shirt and everything and he is younger than me and i am pure i wanna stay pure for awhile (until i am married 2 be exact) what can i do 2 convince tony i dont like him im in love w/ someone else? plz help

2007-01-21 06:41:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 06:41:43 · 6 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Singles & Dating