Family & Relationships - 21 January 2007

What would the other woman think if the man cheats on her with his wife, because most the time he is with his wife instead of the other woman so what the heck is the other women going to get out of the relationship because most the time a man will always stay with his wife. So the other woman is wasting her time.

2007-01-21 06:28:19 · 11 answers · asked by may s 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a blue-eyed, dark-haired female, and for some reason I really like guys with dark eyes or at least caramel brown eyes, it just really turns me on. I like blue and green-eyed guys also, but they don't turn me on as much as looking into the dark eyes of a good-looking young guy. Is it because I have blue eyes and I am attracted to the opposite or because my father has brown eyes and according to psychological theories, we subconsciously go for men that look like our fathers or share traits with them? I used to really like blonde blue-eyed guys and also dark-haired blue-eyed or green eyed guys, but they just don't do it for me the same way guys with brown eyes do. There is something about brown eyes on guys. Girls, do you notice yourself more attracted to guys with the same eye color as you, or different?

2007-01-21 06:27:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But what do I say, he'll ask me a ? I'll answer it and my answers are usually really short, his are nice and long but not too long, What should I ask him, I want to have a good conversation! I know this is a dumb ?

2007-01-21 06:26:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have known so many guys that cheat and/or are cheating on their girlfriends...I'm on the fence because sometimes I think I should mind my business but other times I just think that if my boyfriend cheated on me I would be pissed if no one told me and feel so stupid.

One time I hooked with a guy then found out he had a girlfriend so wouldn't that be a good idea to tell the gurl that I made a mistake plus I know for sure he cheats.

Also, some girls have come to me and asked if their boyfriend is a cheater, and I know they are, but I don't want to lie but don't want to get blamed either

2007-01-21 06:26:30 · 21 answers · asked by Sarah 4 in Singles & Dating

My BF of 3 years, never thinks he has a problem, it's always someone else who made him do whatever it is that he did. He is a very bad alcoholic, and he goes out to bars, and gets so wasted that he dosen't remember anything. Then when we get into arguments, he makes it like it was my fault that he went out, and got drunk in the first place. My family has get togethers, and they tell me I am invited, but my BF is not. Now my BF, says I should tell my family, if he isn't invited, I won't go either. I won't do this. My family has stood behind me all my life, and I won't turn my back, just to protect my BF's feelings. He got himself into this, and I think he should try to get himself straightened out, before he crams himself down my family's throats. He dosen't think he has a problem, and I am getting to the point of not caring about him anymore. I love him, but I am tired of dealing with this. Friday night he didn't come home until 11:00 a.m the next morning. I am just fed up.

2007-01-21 06:26:29 · 22 answers · asked by iluvangels64 1 in Family

I know this girl for my whole life and recently she started acting difrent.
She looked thiner,was very tired all the time.I had a talk with her.
She told me that a guy sold her some pills and that all the cool girls are now taking them.
After a while I figured out that its some kind of drug.
My friend started stealing just to get money for the pills.
Soon she stared using more serius stuff,I saw kneedle marks on her hands.I tried to stop her, but I cant ask my parents for help(thats a other problem...)
I cant ask her parents for help becouse she is a orphan and never talks to her foster parents.
I think this might be getting serius,Its happening for over a moth now,and she looks worse.Shes only 14

2007-01-21 06:24:27 · 40 answers · asked by Sad_SnowWhite 1 in Friends

Is it a bad sign if your only 16 and 17, and they guy tells you he's so in love with that he wants to marry you? He didn't say any time soon, but when we're both out of college, and ready to settle down. He said I'm the one he wants to be with... Is that bad?
By the way, no, we haven't had sex, nor will we for a least 5 more months.

2007-01-21 06:24:01 · 12 answers · asked by turtle10312001 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been with her for 2 years, since i was 17. we really are in love with eachother....i wouldn't mrry her for i few years but i mean, do you think i should, or would it freak her out. i swear i want to spend the rest of my life with her! she's simply amazing....

she is 18

2007-01-21 06:23:53 · 12 answers · asked by Jack 1 in Singles & Dating

can i hold a relationship where my girlfriend is out of my leauge? is she to good for me? shes in 7th grade and im in 8th we have been going out for 7 months, do you think our love is good enough?

2007-01-21 06:23:53 · 5 answers · asked by Real Oneofseven 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

debatable: I have been hit minorly harder than playing on face, ( I would not leave her a lone she did not want to talk and She was worried about bills) been minorly kicked to leave room obviously non painful physically but more emotionally i do love her and want to have future with her, but she does obviously get upset easy, She does do lots of good things as well, buys me clothes vice versa from her to me me to her we also have fun. She doesn't totally believe in the same thing that I do, that i know of. I also thought of breaking up and I would like to stay together just worried about getting hurt all over again, but I don't want to leave her in the cold without a computer she just started business, and her computer is outdated and obviously can't afford one. She says that I stop her from success and can't rely on me for money because I don't like to lend money. Not sure if using me or just loving me?

2007-01-21 06:23:49 · 7 answers · asked by boshie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend always wants me to take charge when it comes to sex. What should I do first to turn him on?

2007-01-21 06:22:15 · 10 answers · asked by 2cute2be_4gotten 2 in Singles & Dating

I've heard my space is mainly for youngsters but I haven't checked it out yet so my information may be incorrect. I've looked at Yahoo and No Cheaters.com and a couple of other sites but was not impressed -- no -- I'm not too picky. does anyone have any suggestions? Thanks a ton!

2007-01-21 06:22:10 · 4 answers · asked by GrnEyedBlondeSwede 2 in Singles & Dating

i always wanted to go out with someone goodlooking. but i met this amazing person who is not goodlooking at all. i am said to be pretty. my family does not want me to marry him as according to them, he will have complex of not being upto my level in the society. and i wont be comfortable as well. because my society will look down upon him. is it a good enough reason to forget him?

2007-01-21 06:21:30 · 14 answers · asked by funnydillema 1 in Singles & Dating

i am looking for a nice romantic resteraunt for me and my girlfriend.already have cospaia in mind but need to book another resteraunt for the next night as well.any ideas anyone please...........

2007-01-21 06:21:21 · 3 answers · asked by olliemort 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 06:20:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why do they think their wife can do something so bad when they know in their hearts they couldnt

2007-01-21 06:19:58 · 6 answers · asked by angel_eyes_9096 1 in Marriage & Divorce

found text message in B/F cell phone to a female saying that he had a friend at his house and he would call her back friday.Well i was there(his fiance) and I was leaving on friday.When i ? him about it, he said that she knows about me.Well then why did he refer to me as afriend? and why did he have to call her back on the day i was going to be returning to Cali?.....when asked why didnt he talk to her then when i was there if shes just a friend his response was "well you were here and I was spending time with you"......Is this believable????

2007-01-21 06:19:34 · 10 answers · asked by kennyg 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 years old and everytime my girlfriend and I lay on the couch or kiss and have intimate contact, I get an erection. I try to control myself, but I find it impossible sometimes. I get embarrassed about it and try to hide it from her as best as possible. We are not at a point where we can express ourselves through touching or intercourse. Often by the end of the night, I have unbelievable blue balls.

Is it normal to have these erection so often and so easily? And, are there any methods that any men can give me to try and control myself? I would just like to lay on the couch with my girlfriend without having to worry about hiding my erection.

Thanks in advance.

2007-01-21 06:19:31 · 14 answers · asked by radchad25 2 in Singles & Dating

Please be honest. I won't be offended by what you say, I've already heard it all, IE tighter vaginas, more pettite, less promiscues, ect.

2007-01-21 06:19:30 · 11 answers · asked by curious 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I married at age 31 - seemed perfect for me, I got to experience single life and was ready to take the leap... I feel that people need to fend for themselves and see things in life before settling down with one person forever and caring for kids... I know it's a personal choice, but do most people agree or disagree with my thinking? It makes me cringe to hear of 17 year old kids having kids - or 22 year olds with 4 kids already. How can you give your kids good advice when you haven't even been out in the world to see what goes on?

2007-01-21 06:19:14 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

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I was in a relationship for 3 1/2 years. We seperated because of emotional abuse to me. I have one child with him and im pregnant with another one the way from him. He keeps telling me he is willing to change, and that he wants a family because he never had one (he was adopted). He also keeps saying he doesn't want our children to grow up without a father. I do love him but i don't know if he can change. He also slept with someone else which he admited since we've been seperated, he said he didn't like it. Now the other part is that my first love ever has come back into my life, he says he doesn't care that im pregnant with my second. He loves the kids as if they were his own. He says that he's cared about me the whole time and wishes I would have married him in the beginning. So I would have not dated the other guy. Now I have all of these mixed feelings and im not sure what to do. Help.

2007-01-21 06:19:05 · 1 answers · asked by ash 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i always want to get back at my brother. but i never know how to do it. he is always being mean. so i need to know any suggestions about how to get back at my brother.

2007-01-21 06:18:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

can i change how she feels.
i've only ever said hi ,to her she really dosen't like me
and makes fun of me for being quiet when she's with her friends.

2007-01-21 06:18:16 · 9 answers · asked by johnc 4 in Friends

The problem is my Gal hardly kisses me.
I always kiss her and my gal is like even if i kiss her say 20 times she wont kiss back.
So, frm now i wana start asking for kisses.

Please tellme how-to / what to tell my gal for kiss?

I mean it would be too odd to say i want a kiss kinda thing - please say sumthing sensible and at the same time dont luk too desperate kind of way to ask the same.

She isnt shy at all BTW

2007-01-21 06:18:08 · 16 answers · asked by Romps 2 in Singles & Dating

could he tell u were suprised?

2007-01-21 06:17:36 · 3 answers · asked by meagen k 1 in Singles & Dating

Its not him thats the problem, its me. I just got hurt by my last bf, and I know this guy wouldnt do that to me, but I'm still afraid to move on. What do I do if this guy asks me out?

2007-01-21 06:16:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you make a man feel real good????

2007-01-21 06:15:36 · 9 answers · asked by Pooh 2 in Singles & Dating

and she is 17.

2007-01-21 06:15:26 · 11 answers · asked by ALESANA 7 in Singles & Dating

why do girls not like mature guys? why do u all want jerks and bad boys? i'm a handsome, smart, funny, and mature guy yet ive never had a gf. why? please answer!

2007-01-21 06:15:15 · 2 answers · asked by packerswes4 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 06:14:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating