debatable: I have been hit minorly harder than playing on face, ( I would not leave her a lone she did not want to talk and She was worried about bills) been minorly kicked to leave room obviously non painful physically but more emotionally i do love her and want to have future with her, but she does obviously get upset easy, She does do lots of good things as well, buys me clothes vice versa from her to me me to her we also have fun. She doesn't totally believe in the same thing that I do, that i know of. I also thought of breaking up and I would like to stay together just worried about getting hurt all over again, but I don't want to leave her in the cold without a computer she just started business, and her computer is outdated and obviously can't afford one. She says that I stop her from success and can't rely on me for money because I don't like to lend money. Not sure if using me or just loving me?
2007-01-21 06:23:49 · 7 answers · asked by boshie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dude, can't she go to a local library?? sounds to me she's up to something.. or using you.. just my opinion...
2007-01-21 06:29:34 · answer #1 · answered by ROBERT N 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
she is using u, if she blames u for her financial woes, making u feel guilty so u will come off some money. don't lend your computer, she needs to get her own. she doesn't pay her bills, she is just full of all kinds of problems, and oh so needy. if u have reservations and question that perhaps u need to break up with her, than it's your intuition trying to tell u something. seems to me that the relationship may be in trouble if u don't come up with some money to pay her bills so she won't worry. she is way too needy, has too many bills, she doesn't share the same beliefs as u do, stupid to lend such an expensive thing to someone could be sorry u did later.
2007-01-21 14:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you are close enough to her to trust her with your computer. I know in any real relationship I've ever had it wouldn't even be a question, I shared everything and so did he. If I even had to ask I would realize we're not really together, when your in it for real you don't even question yourself. Don't give it to her...but then take a real close look at your relationship
2007-01-21 14:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There r no reason for u to lend her the computer. She can get one herself or go to library. It would be different if u where really serious and it was a camera or something. Me and my husband have laptops and i wouldn´t even ask him if mine broke, it´s like a diary. It´s private.
2007-01-21 14:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's not your wife and she could do anything with your computer. I wouldn't give it to her. If she is not mature emotionally, why do you want to even be with her?
2007-01-21 14:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't understand anything your trying to say, I can't read your spelling.
2007-01-21 14:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't loan her the laptop, find someone else who lives closer.
2007-01-21 14:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋