can i change how she feels.
i've only ever said hi ,to her she really dosen't like me
and makes fun of me for being quiet when she's with her friends.
2007-01-21 06:18:16 · 9 answers · asked by johnc 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think you can MAKE people like you. She sounds like a nasty piece of work to me, making you feel small in front of other people. I really wouldn't bother with her, you are worth more than that and she clearly is a bully so just try to find other, genuinely nice people to spend time with. Also she can't really not like you as she doesn't really know you and if she can't be bothered to get to know you, even if perhaps you are a little quiet so might take longer to get to know than others, then she really is not worth making any effort with in my opinion.
And also, if this is in a work situation and you work closely with her and you feel she is making your working life difficult, then I would consider saying something to your boss, although this obviously depends on the circumstances and I don't know them all.
Hope this helps. Remember bullies are everywhere and shouldn't be pandered to, but ignored.
x
2007-01-21 06:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by Clazza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just going to have to accept that some people are like this, not everyone is going to like you. The only way this girl can function and make friends is by picking on someone which lets her show off and gives her something to talk about to anyone that listens, its the only way she knows how to be! Think how insecure she must be to have to do this to make and keep friends! Keep your head down and your nose clean and she will move onto someone else, from my experience eventually she will pick on the wrong person and get her comeuppence, be patient my friend. Just remember this when she is trying to be friends with you when she starts bullying some other poor soul!
2007-01-21 06:37:49 · answer #2 · answered by diane e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JP she sounds horrible, I don't know why you would want to make friends with someone like that. Horrible people stay being horrible you know. She may be a babe on the outside but bullying makes her rather strange on the inside.
I suppose you could ask her why she's being horrible. That will give her the chance to show she isn't.
2007-01-21 06:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by : 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want this girl to like you? Stop wasting your time on this woman or get her on her own and ask her why she's so insecure she has to make fun of you in a crowd
2007-01-21 06:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have as little to do with her as possible. She will make your life a misery.
2007-01-21 06:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by Honey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's a jerk
just ignore her u are not there to please everbody liv ur own way
its her lost for not giving u a chance to be her fren ayt
take care my friend
2007-01-21 06:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by 00_tyradjh_00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes shallow. why would you want to talk to a person like that?
2007-01-21 06:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by shayla x x 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God, sounds like my former neighbor.
Move on, man.
2007-01-21 06:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by Luna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she seems shallow...move on man
2007-01-21 06:49:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋