I married at age 31 - seemed perfect for me, I got to experience single life and was ready to take the leap... I feel that people need to fend for themselves and see things in life before settling down with one person forever and caring for kids... I know it's a personal choice, but do most people agree or disagree with my thinking? It makes me cringe to hear of 17 year old kids having kids - or 22 year olds with 4 kids already. How can you give your kids good advice when you haven't even been out in the world to see what goes on?
2007-01-21 06:19:14 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I agree with you, the best age is when a person has spent some years as an adult, experienced Life as an adult, relationships, etc...and is ready to take on the responsibility of another human life...
Kids having kids is sad...you'd think since the human race isn't attempting to populate the world anymore, that humans would evolve to where procreation wasn't possible until a much higher age than it currently is...sex would be possible, but not conception...
2007-01-21 06:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We were married over five years and in our upper 20's. Was it a perfect age? No. It worked well for us though.
Age isn't an important factor in my opinion. Being able to emotionally and monetarily support the decision to have kids (or the decision to not prevent having kids as it may be) IS the key (again, in my opinion).
I believe a teenager is probably too young to understand the consequences of "not preventing" but I also believe its our place as the "adults" to help them find the resources before and after whatever decision they may make - without judgement on that decision.
2007-01-21 07:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by going_crazy_30m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of people agree. I think that any age after 21 is a perfect age 2 have kids, but thats my opinion.
2007-01-21 06:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think for me woul;d be agood choice is around 25 tohave my first kid,i dont need many party years b/c i dont like the idea of me presenting my self like that when im older. i do that now, i plan to got o college and want to know my partener before i get kids. i dont ven know if i want kids b.c well i know that my kid is gonna be some what like me and if i was a parent i would not like me as a kid.
2007-01-21 06:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do believe in what u are saying, ppl should be able to have kids when they have experienced enough in this world, they are married, with the right person, finacially stable, and are reday to put themselves to the side for 18 years to take of a kid. thats just my way of seing it.
2007-01-21 06:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You speak like that because you don't have babies,when you have a baby you learn about life,you will give you child best care,love... you will learn a lesson of life.You will learn everything for your child,believe me:) Best age to have a baby for women is 24-40
2007-01-21 06:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by sweetest 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if a woman is educated either at home or in school .to be a mother.and she is above 25.i think 25 is a good age for happy motherhood
2007-01-21 06:39:40 · answer #7 · answered by ali k 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋