Its not him thats the problem, its me. I just got hurt by my last bf, and I know this guy wouldnt do that to me, but I'm still afraid to move on. What do I do if this guy asks me out?
2007-01-21 06:16:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you would like to go out with him but youre not ready to date yet.
2007-01-21 06:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry this may not help but at least someone likes you? And take a risk even if it hurts you, you will learn from it and be confident. Don't let your bf just ruin it for you everyones bf hurts them. I mean my bf do the same. Go out with the dude have some fun, life is about taking risks!
2007-01-21 14:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by ~~~~~~******* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you should do is make sure he's not the "bad boy" type. Make sure he has nice friends too. And that his family likes you. If all of that is fulfilled, you'll be fine.
When he asks you out, just go with the flow and feel confident. Don't move the relationship too fast, make it at a pace comfortable for both you and him. Good luck on moving on girl.
2007-01-21 14:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well luv hurts no matter wut u do. its bout takin risks and u should say yes if this guy ask u. ur ex hurt u, its his loss and u shouldnt think bout that anymore and just move on, cuz if he luved u, he wouldnt hav hurt u would he? dont let this chance go by. he might be able 2 heal ur wounds and who knows, maybe this new guy is the luv of ur life. u will never know if u dont try so at least giv it a chance. also, it dont hurt if u asked him out. good luck.
2007-01-21 14:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has not asked u out yet so save ur breath and stop hopin on a guy who may not even be interested in havin an affair with u. Check your emotions and do not let it run away with u. Tata.
2007-01-21 14:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by ellsie a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT AND HOPE FOR THE BEST...
Reluctance & Hesitation will do you no good...
Yet you ve got to anticipate the worst....in case it happened, then you are mebtally prepared...
Forget the past and look ahead regardless of the end result...
It cannot be END OF THE WORLD...
2007-01-21 14:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by FOREVER AUTUMN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First love yourself and others will love you. Like yourself and others will be more likely to like you. We tend to attract in life that which corresponds to our self image. Do you have a healthy self image? Is the guy that you are considering dating a positive person? Once you have a positive self image your brain will direct you to the proper path for you.
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2007-01-21 14:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by Richguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you "move on" without taking the plunge? That's like drawing bath water and not wanting to get in the tub. Go for it!
2007-01-21 14:19:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow and be honest with him that you are going to take it slow. If he likes you he'll accept that if he doesn't accept that, you've just saving yourself from being hurt.
It is possible to go on a date without getting physically close just to get to know each other.
2007-01-21 14:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just answered this yourself. You said you know he wouldn't hurt you. Take it slow, but go out with him. And anyway, he hasn't asked you yet, so just see what happens. maybe he already knows to take it slowly with you.
2007-01-21 14:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋