A guy you are dating asks you to meet him out at a local bar one night.
You meet and several of your friends are there and you all converse as a group.
Later in the evening, 2 guy friends of the guy that you are dating show up. From that point in time, your guy starts conversing with his 2 friends and them only. Not only that but he completely turns in his chair so that his back is facing you.
During this time, your friends have left the establishment so you are left sitting next to your date that has his back turned to you.
For 20 minutes or more, He never takes a pause in the conversation with his friends and turns back to you.
Would you consider this rude behavior? Why or why not?
2007-01-21 06:50:45 · 7 answers · asked by mjbutton14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What this guy needs is a good whap upside the head. Literally or figuratively, depending on how ticked off you are.
There is NO excuse to ignore you. You deserve more respect than that. I can see him turning away to talk to his friends for a little while, but no more than that.
At the very LEAST, once your other friends left he needed to be paying a lot more attention to you.
I suggest you have a talk with this guy and let him know exactly how his behavior made you feel. If he was totally oblivious to the fact he was being an ******, he may not be very intelligent. If he gets angry and denies any wrong doing, he's a jerk. If he realizes it was wrong and is sorry -- he better not do it again.
No matter which it is, I think you seriously need to reevaluate whether or not this is the kinda guy for you.
2007-01-29 05:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by mistaken4sane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very rude behaviour. Depending on his age, I would think he is showing off in front of the friends. No woman deserves that kind of behaviour we are all human. Go out with someone who is not a looser. You are better than that. Take care Heather
2007-01-29 12:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES for me this is very rude. I would've left the place if I were in that position.
2007-01-29 14:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by Stefani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way beyond rude. As if he cared nothing about you at all and only about his friends.
2007-01-21 14:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What more proof do u want?
he just wants to sleep with u.
u shoulda left when ur friends left.
2007-01-29 02:33:37 · answer #5 · answered by j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh definitely, yeah.
2007-01-29 05:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very rude! Dump him!!!
2007-01-21 15:07:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋