I have a BF we have been going on for bout 5 months now this Thursday and i had a small get 2 gether yesterday w/ 4 of my friends and this dude named Tony (who is totally on my nerves) tried to get down my pants and up my shirt and everything and he is younger than me and i am pure i wanna stay pure for awhile (until i am married 2 be exact) what can i do 2 convince tony i dont like him im in love w/ someone else? plz help
2007-01-21 06:41:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ive kicked and punched him where it counts.and it still doesnt work. what else can i do.
2007-01-21 06:56:21 · update #1
I also told him no and hit him but he keeps coming back for more. I care so much bout the guy i am w/ now
2007-01-21 07:05:30 · update #2
Kick him in the nuts.
2007-01-21 06:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you try to fend him off if he was trying to get down your pants or up your shirt? Because the way you put it, he got a piece of the pie. But, maybe that is just me. This guy Tony has no right touching you and you deffffff don't need an excuse to tell this guy to leave you alone. Tell him to back off, plain and simple. If he doesn't get the message, wack him upside his head or something. If you care for the guy you're with, stand up for yourself and tell Tony to back off. Because you're boyfriend might see Tony trying to get with you and if you don't do something, he'll be upset. Get me!! lol Good luck
2007-01-21 14:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds persistent and kinda dangerous if he doesn’t stop I would suggest you get some self defense lessons I personally had a guy like this hang around so i started tie kwon do and next time he tried it he really got the picture and I did give him fare warning.
OH and right on I don't want that till I get married either.
2007-01-29 14:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by Kristin G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before doing anything, think whtehr it will upset ur relation with ur bf. as far as i perceive from ur words, tony may go to any extreme.tell him firmly that u r not in love with him . also tell him that if he tries to touch you against ur wish, u will report him to the police. i thnik, the best thing to do is to confide in ur bf. tell him how that guy troubles u. frankly, i believe that ur bf will only try to protect u and help u.he will not like another guy touching his girl. u neednt try to convince him that u r in love with someone else. it wl be better if ur bf tries to convince tony that u r in love with ur bf and not tony.he may handle it in a better manner. stay calm and think what u can do. getting scared is not a solution. all the best.
2007-01-29 10:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by lilac4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody has the right to touch you if you don't want them to. You don't need to find an excuse to get rid of him. Just tell him straight -it's your body. If he doesn't like that, you're better off without him babe.
2007-01-21 14:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by Lucy Y 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell Tony hands off. and if he can't stop I would tell to stop or I would stop hanging around him
2007-01-29 07:59:01 · answer #6 · answered by Gina D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok Britt, look, I know how Tony is because I dated him and all you can do is tell that you have a bf and you want to be with him and he should quit. If he doesnt IDK what to tell you then.
2007-01-22 18:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by Happily Taken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just open mouth and say it,, he should not be all over you like that friend or not. Speak your mind young lady.
2007-01-21 14:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and if he can't respect that then you don't want to be around someone like that.
2007-01-21 14:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well some guys are total assholes and won't listen but you should defintely let him know so he won't have false hopes.
2007-01-21 14:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by oliphantheather 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋