Hes not wanting to talk to me right now, so therefor im not sure whats going on. Last night i said i dont think this is going to work and hes liek what? and i was like us..and hes like well if thats what you want and i was like no but we need to talk about it. and then hes like well ill talk to you later..is that pretty much breakin gup? Cause i have this feeling thats what he thought and im sure he did something last night. idk. i dont know what to do with us.
2007-01-21 06:52:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you should call him and ask!If you dont want to he might come back saying like well come on...now lets talk about it!!!Men are always wanting you back!!!!!!!
2007-01-21 06:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by ameliacc98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, gather & organize your thoughts...and your question.
You said "I don't think this is going to work," referring to the relationship. If you've made up your mind and said it, what's more for him to do? He's a guy...you said it's done, then it's done. What's there to say? Again, he's a guy, he doesn't want to sit there and talk about abstract "feelings" for 4 hours while you pour out your soul.
If you want to be with him, then be with him, and CUT the stupid head games. If you want to break it off, well, there you go, and he made it easy for you.
Stop playing stupid mind games and you and your boyfriends will be better off.
2007-01-21 15:01:58 · answer #2 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt say that's an 'offiicial' break-up but its definitely a pre-break-up chat....the fact that he was unwilling to talk right then and there to try to rectify your apparent issues is not a good sign...i mean if he is invested in your relationship he would've taken the time to work things out....and if he ran off and 'did something' last night than i have to say he got over you right quick [another bad sign] sounds to me like you can do better...chin up there are many many many other fish in the sea
2007-01-21 14:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by info seeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said to him "I don't think this is going to work, meaning us".
He heard you and moved on. He's not about drama, just getting on with life. You may want to do the same.
2007-01-21 14:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by folklore 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to him first to be sure that you guys are breaking up. Tell him how u feel. After that you will know for sure.
2007-01-21 14:55:41 · answer #5 · answered by pinkallycat14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop using the work "like" improperly, for starters. Try "He said" or "he replied."
Secondly, you need to ask him what is up. If you can't communicate like an adult you might as well call it quits.
2007-01-21 14:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by dancing_in_the_hail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound pretty young. Take it from a "seasoned" woman.....if they are not talking now they are not going to. Don't put your life on hold for anyone.
2007-01-21 14:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by mixedupwife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like HE wanted to break up but he has wisely avoided bringing it up and pushed you into mentioning it first for saving his own 'innocent' face
2007-01-21 14:56:25 · answer #8 · answered by Naturelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a bit of a moron and rather childish if he can't even be bothered to talk to you. Don't trouble yourself with him!
2007-01-21 14:55:25 · answer #9 · answered by the_emrod 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teenagers! Yeah, I guess it could be *like* over.
Give it a week and if he doesn't contact you it is over.
2007-01-21 14:56:31 · answer #10 · answered by Just me. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋