Ok heres my problem me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 2 months now and everything is going great. But last night i was down town with some friends when we stoped into a pup for a drink, just so you all know i live in germany where the drink age is only 16. Well this is where the trouble starts my girlfriends little sister is there smoking and drinking and hanging out with a not so great crowd worst of all she is only 14. She sees me and tells me not to tell her sister that she was there. My question is do i tell my girlfriend or should i just remain silent about the hole issue? My heart tells me i should tell her but my head says diffrent. Any response would be nice im just really confused on what to do with this situation. Thanks
2007-01-21 06:55:53 · 14 answers · asked by Gabe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey...good question. Now that's a tough one. I know you don't want to be a tattle tale, but I still think someone should tell on her. I mean, after all, she's ONLY 14 years old!! THAT is WAY too young!! know what I mean? You would be doing her a favor, even if it doesn't seem like it at the time. She needs to stop. Discuss this ONLY with your Girlfriend. Maybe then your girlfriend will tell her to stop drinking or she will tell mom and dad. Then If she does stop, mom and dad don't need to find out about it.
2007-01-21 07:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by Just me. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest telling your girlfriend. If you don't and she somehow finds out you knew about the situation any trust she has for you will disappear. Plus, your girlfriend's little sister is behaving inappropriately; this needs to be resolved soon before anything "bad" happens. The little sister will probably be upset with you but you'd be doing her a favor in the long run. Hope this helps.
2007-01-21 07:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by JJK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I think you should tell your girlfriend as if the crowd that her sister is hanging out with, one day turns nasty or she later gets into trouble, you would have known that she was in potential danger and not have told anyone. The point is, if you want a future with your girlfriend then you should let her know, as if she finds out that you knew, it could compromise your relationship.
All the best!!!
2007-01-21 07:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by Susan C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart has already told you what to do. DO IT. I say this because if it was your own little sister you would want to know. It sounds to me that if everything is going great with your girl, than you should be looking out for her little sisters' best interest, ignoring it is not going to make the situation any better. Good luck and Goddess Bless.
2007-01-21 07:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. At 14, the sister is just looking for trouble.
2007-01-21 07:01:03 · answer #5 · answered by Dan B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the sister. The sister may be heading for some major trouble and if you are able to help in anyway she will thank you later. Just know she will be mad at you now...but that is ok.
2007-01-21 06:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by mixedupwife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your girlfriend. She will probably take the opportunity to talk to her younger sister about her risky behavior.
2007-01-21 07:07:01 · answer #7 · answered by dai_nite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell ur girlfriend, she'll like u even more for caring about her little sis!
2007-01-21 07:05:33 · answer #8 · answered by cooldude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell your girlfriend and do the right thing but tell her not to her her sister she heard it from you.
2007-01-21 09:27:40 · answer #9 · answered by shadow - 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her and you can both decide whether to make any decisions and bring it up with her sister. you can both decide on what to do whether to take action or not.
2007-01-21 07:00:54 · answer #10 · answered by Naturelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋